i dont believe that love takes a year. i was NEVER interested in boys, i needed a promdate & had met this unique guy & could think of no one else i'd go with, i wanted to feel it out. We had a night long date talked til 3am politics social concerns music, i slept in his arms under the stars It felt so right, 2 months like this,one night i said i love you and he was not surprised, he said, "give me a week" a week later he was over i told him "well youve seen me naked but i havent seen you," we were both virgins, we almost had sex I told him i couldnt do it,that i didnt know him at all, he didnt even look at me he just nodded. after he told friends, he broke up with me, he said things to hurt me,cause i hurt him he wouldnt say it, i apologized he acted unhurt, i tried explain it came out muddled. he mentions me w/sarcasm i know he cares but cant admit,ive called him he was happy to hear from me, but what can i say to bring him back? To trust that i wont hurt him? is it possible?
2006-08-13 13:44:50 · 5 answers · asked by old_soul_945 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay so let me get this straight...
you said "i love you" to him and he didnt say it back, just "give me a week"...?
also he's seen you naked but you havent seen him, but youve both never had sex...?
then you two almost have sex, you stop it and he breaks up with you because you somehow hurt him because you werent ready to have sex with a person youve only known for a short while..?
something doesnt add up here. sounds to me he was just out to have sex with you not anything more. as for the trust thing i have no idea why thats an issue.
not wanting to have sex with someone because youve only known each other for a short while is not a bad thing. its a really good thing!
so sounds to me hes not being true. dont worry about him, write him off.
take care. best of luck.
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2006-08-13 21:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by traffic to website, earn money, 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe love takes a year either - i fell in love in the space of six hours.
but if he can't accept that you're not ready enough or relaxed enough to have sex well sorry sweety but he doesn't love you back. what you did might have upset his sex drive but his 'revenge' was unacceptable.
don't think about him trusting you. you've done nothing wrong. can you trust him? and believe me... you NEED to trust him if you're gonna sleep with him. what if it hurts? think about it he's on top of you, between your legs so you can't roll over, he's heavier than you and he's stronger than you. if you want him to stop for any reason and he won't, there is nothing you can do about it.
and personally i wouldn't trust this guy as far as i could throw him. i wouldn't be surprised if he said he'd get back with you unless you slept with him and judging on you're cold feet last time i'd say you're not ready.
you know when it's right and that minute you knew it wasn't. trust that feeling. and give yourself more time to take in what he's done and to get used to the situation and your feelings about it before thinking about getting him back.
and if you do still decide you want him back, first make him explain himself. a man does not have a right to sex with his girlfriend. it's a privilege. and you should never give it to anyone when you don't want to. remember that.
2006-08-13 14:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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