Im in a realtionship with a young man he is 26 Im 35, We've had our minor disagreements. Mainly over his mom and his bro. His mom and bro. Still does not approve of our relationships for no reason at all. We've been really good to each otherb, but often feels I made another huge mistake. I notice one thing when his mom or bro calls, my boyfriend goes outside to talk to them. I have not ask him why he does this, Please help!! I just do not know how to understand this, especially when this bothers me..Do you think Im exaggerating. This is a weird relationship my family has excepted him with open arms but his mom and bro doesnt. Should I send this moma boy back home?
2006-08-13 13:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have been ther be4. Tell him to keep it moving! I'm sure there alot of other man that a treat you better. Plus, If you a famley type of person, it hard to deal with your mates famley that don't like you! No More Moma Boyz 4 Me!
2006-08-13 13:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by nikki g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 42 and my live in boyfriend is 20. We have a wonderful relationship. Best i have ever had. The trick is to tell him that makes you feel left out and that it hurts you. Man i could talk to you all day about what we went thru. The trick is we DON'T let anyone in between us. We are happy as clams and they are not going to take that away. We bonded togethter. feel free to e mail me back if you want more advise. We have been together 2 years. You can make it. just blow off his family untill they treat you respectful. a book called older women younger men helped us soooo much. he needs to read it to.
2006-08-13 14:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute now--you are acting like his "momma" by trying to listen in on his personal phone calls!..He has the right to have a private conversation..I'm 29 and I live with my mom and she's my best friend--but when I talk to my friends on the phone--I go in my own room...I think you're overstepping your bounds on that one--calling him a "mommas boy" just because he wants to have a private conversation with his own family..As for his mom & brother--I tend to think that Moms know best about these things--and it has nothing to do with your age. Moms have a 6th sense about who is good or bad for their children. I'm not saying you are "bad"---but I wouldnt want to date a man whose momma didnt approve of me. But, thats your decision.
2006-08-13 14:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, then he needs to stand solidly by you and let his family that they are being disrespectful to your relationship. He is probably going outside for privacy. A lot of us do that when we talk on the phone, but with everything that is going on, I can understand why it would bother you that he does that. You really need to sit down with him and talk this out. You need to let him know that it hurts your feelings and that you would like his support. He should be able to stand up to his family and tell them that he is with you and they need to be respectful of that. Even if you do not like who one of your family members is dating/married to, you always do your best to make them feel welcome and respected. It it just what we do for each other out of respect. Good luck!
2006-08-13 13:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely the mother and brothers are harassing him and he is going outside to talk so it dosent upset you, just ask him about it
2006-08-13 14:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by lyjana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋