Sounds like you're doing everything right, oh, you're so sweet.
Just continue to be there for her. She has had to deal with a huge shock in her life, but if you carry on treating her like the princess that she is, she'll be smiling again soon.
Good luck to both of you.
2006-08-13 13:43:46
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answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7
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Just simply showing her that you're there for her in the bad and good times will make her love you more than ever. And she'll realize you're the only guy that will do that for her and be happy. Tell her how fortunate you are to have a girl like her and remind her of it all the time. For a girl, nothing is much better than sweet words from her boyfriend. =)
2006-08-13 13:46:09
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answered by relayruntoday 1
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... Um... Ok, yes. I re-read it. Just wanted to make sure that was English. So are you saying that she 'was' 14 while you were 17? Or are you saying that her birthday is coming up soon? Either way.. you need to understand that just because you do the right thing and want her to be happy, it doesn't mean she will be happy. Bad things happen sometimes. If she's sad about it, stop trying to cheer her up and just help her get through this difficult time in her life.
2006-08-13 13:41:58
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answered by Olivia B 6
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Aww, well you sound super sweet :)
I would recommend not buying her things. Material objects are always great, but things that are really from the heart mean more (at least to me)
Try to make her dinner. Even the simplest meal of spaghetti or a home made pizza would mean the world to her. If you need recipe ideas, go to www.kraftkitchens.com, they have great simple recipes.
Or, make her an album full of pictures of you guys. That will definitely make her happy :)
Good luck hun!
2006-08-13 13:43:03
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answered by cutiewithabooooty 5
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I know this sucks, but it is *ultimately up to her to make the necessary inner changes*- whatever they may be. All you can do is be there for her when the time comes. Have you mentioned your observances to her? If you haven't, I recommend bringing it up (I'm sure you are the perfect one to do this) Don't give suggestions, just let her know you are there for her and that she can trust you. It may be a significant amount of time before she is ready to deal with things.
This is like the hardest thing--Whatever you do, don't let her sadness burden you. don't wear yourself out emotionally. You want to be there as a strong person (i.e.) you won't become upset with her, she needs a strong base. I wish you well. Prayer also helps!
2006-08-13 13:47:00
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answered by hangout756 1
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Well First Of all Material things may be able to buy a girls heart and happiness but its not right to do that >.> Make Her Happy by Telling her how great She is and How ur lucky to have her ..... ya Know tell her the way you feel .... but if you become to obssesd with the idea then she might get tired of having you !!!!!! Be open minded but be aware of how she may feel to .....
Good Luck Sweetheart
2006-08-13 13:44:20
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answered by Anonymous
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good day Hidontlikeu..... i'm Maybedontlikeueither. In answer on your question that could were more effective efficient to ask your spouse and children of the Islamic faith. I actually have spoken with many individuals of the Islamic faith to more effective efficient understand what they do, why they do it and some way of existence mingled in with it. right that's what i grow to be advised over a 10 year era from both men and ladies human beings. in the Qur'an, written my Muhammad Muhammad, men can marry outdoors of the religion yet ladies and ladies human beings can no longer because she might want to be disowned by technique of her relatives and tribe. (ya it sounds straightforward to me too!). there have been numerous men that advised me they have by no skill examine the Qur'an from the front to back. Polygamy is practiced or a guy who's married may have lady associates.... to me that's no longer a guy, its a canine. They shack-up at the same time for a time to make constructive it is going to workout routine formerly making it criminal. The women human beings save their father's or mom's very last call continually. Their holy day is on Fridays. They memorize prayers out of the Qur'an to be repeated on a daily basis. after I requested a youthful lady to wish with me from her heart and she saved saying "i do not recognize what to assert". I went ahead to provide the prayer which of route from my heart and after she grow to be disillusioned that I had reported particular issues that were offensive to Allah. I replied with little or no emotion and advised her i grow to be praying to the Christian God who isn't like Allah.
2016-11-24 23:36:52
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answered by kavanagh 4
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No need to spend that much money. Your love is worth all the money in the world. Just spend some quality time. Tell her you love her. Take her in your arms. The simple little things will make her feel good. As for her sister, only time will help her go through it.
2006-08-13 13:42:57
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answered by Anonymous
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I think right now a shoulder to cry on and emotional support is better than any bouquet of roses can be. Stop showering her with gifts and start showing her that youre there for her and that you care for her and that together you guys will get over this.
2006-08-13 13:43:52
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answered by maynardlibras 3
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Yea, physical gifts are good but if the isn't emotionally stable inside they would be like bits of coke to a crack-hed. this may even spawn into covetiousness and greed because material things may be the only way to curb her sadness/depression. just be there for here but don't smother cuz that may cause her to pull away. get to really know her and see what she really needs.
2006-08-13 13:43:15
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answered by Roselle E 2
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