Family & Relationships - 5 August 2006

I am stopping in Hawaii on my way from living in Japan for a year. The original plan was that my boyfriend from my hometown would meet me there for a romantic reunion, but he just told me he can't afford to do it. I could easily afford it just by taking on one or 2 extra lessons for a month.
The problem is that I get kind of angry about his inability to make money and then to budget it. He could have afforded this trip to Hawaii had he planned better, and he still could afford it if he just put his mind to it. But I know he won't, the only way I'm going to get him there is by my own means.
Should I pony up for it? It won't be the same there without him, but I can imagine myself resenting him for it if he never learns how to manage his money better.

2006-08-05 04:52:53 · 6 answers · asked by rachelinjapan24 2 in Singles & Dating

but when she returned 10 days later, the cat was malnourished and all of her plants were dead and she starting crying in front of me. Should I have offered her a discount?

2006-08-05 04:52:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-05 04:52:35 · 1 answers · asked by trickclarke 1 in Family

2006-08-05 04:52:03 · 20 answers · asked by lala444111 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-05 04:51:59 · 23 answers · asked by shikha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it weird if at a party, a slow song comes on, and i ask a boy to dance with me? like, should i just let the guys ask me? or can i ask them?

2006-08-05 04:51:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 04:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 male. Before describing my case i want to clarify that I have no intention to commit incest. I just want phycological study of my state of mind. I'm into normal b/f, g/f relations (more than one) but I feel very proud with the company of my sister (with the realization that people around are taking us as a beautiful couple). She's no dont, very elegant lady by all means but what make me feeling proud in that way, i'm fail to understand. The second problem is, she has remained very lose to me througout and she dont understand our bodies have change so much now. She sit behind me on motorbyke in same manner, which we were used to but her touch causes un-explainable thrill in my body. I know I dont do ths deliberatly and instead try my best not to concentrate her touch but my body acts on its own. I know I,ll never commit incest but why it feels so much charming?

2006-08-05 04:51:07 · 5 answers · asked by sheri 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 25 male. Before describing my case i want to clarify that I have no intention to commit incest. I just want phycological study of my state of mind. I'm into normal b/f, g/f relations (more than one) but I feel very proud with the company of my sister (with the realization that people around are taking us as a beautiful couple). She's no dont, very elegant lady by all means but what make me feeling proud in that way, i'm fail to understand. The second problem is, she has remained very lose to me througout and she dont understand our bodies have change so much now. She sit behind me on motorbyke in same manner, which we were used to but her touch causes un-explainable thrill in my body. I know I dont do ths deliberatly and instead try my best not to concentrate her touch but my body acts on its own. I know I,ll never commit incest but why it feels so much charming?

2006-08-05 04:50:44 · 4 answers · asked by sheri 1 in Family

i had a friend (female) who had slept with well over 50 yet she didnt consider this promiscuous

2006-08-05 04:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by mr_soapytitwank 3 in Singles & Dating

Like I put my finger in her mouth when she yawns, and she gots angry and bit my finger. I just meant it as a joke. What should I do?

2006-08-05 04:49:59 · 24 answers · asked by Rich M 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 04:48:37 · 3 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Friends

Why men looking for the body of ladies more than the morality?

2006-08-05 04:48:05 · 40 answers · asked by ally 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My argument for saying it before having sex for the first time is to not let sex change things between them. If their love is true, then they should be able to work through anything,

My argument for saying it after having sex for the first time is that sex can change things in a relationship. So if you really want to know if things will work out you should wait until having sex for the first time.

What do you all think?

2006-08-05 04:47:47 · 24 answers · asked by Koolam 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 04:47:39 · 16 answers · asked by paul s 1 in Family

Girls wear bras, padding, etc. i've discovered that at now that i'm age 26 male. so, what you see in a lady in the street say... it's not really real.. I've always thought that girls have round breasts, but it's not even real. now that i've discovered what tricks they use i'm disapointed.. well, in other words i'm surprised. so it's all fake? moreover, i even know they use tricks to make their breasts look better than they are. so why all this fooling? It's ok!! you don't have to ffool anyone, be yourselves!

2006-08-05 04:46:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 04:45:59 · 17 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Singles & Dating

put a question in the catagory of "single and dating" when the question involves people who are already married?

2006-08-05 04:44:54 · 12 answers · asked by CJ 3 in Singles & Dating

smothering kills!!!!!

2006-08-05 04:44:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we held hands and hugged for like 15-20 minutes.

2006-08-05 04:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by jack b 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf loves when I ejaculate on her, but I have a low semen volume and she wants more, does anybody know the name of the pill I can take for increased volume during ejaculation?

2006-08-05 04:42:59 · 6 answers · asked by Brad S 1 in Singles & Dating

As you read in my previous question about my girlfriend cheating on me I wanna find a good female but i`m afraid to start another relationship and get heartbroken again because it really is painful and cuts very deep.

2006-08-05 04:42:31 · 6 answers · asked by T-Bone 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can't they just freaking relax?

2006-08-05 04:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 04:42:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

their body to the world? I mean they are litrally naked, britney spears 4 example. do they want sexual attention?

2006-08-05 04:40:59 · 24 answers · asked by bunnyBoo 3 in Singles & Dating

im young,intelligent and pretty,im educated,strong-minded,white and muslim. i fall in love to a 17 years older blak man who is not rich, and hav a 7 years old daughter from a x-girlfriend.he is african american and i never hav been in the USA. he is much taller then me, and dont know my native language,so i hav to speak english wit him,but my english isnt fluent. he is a good man,and want to marry me. he comes from Harlem and had a bad bakground,but i love him.we text,email,chat wit eachother everyday. am i an idiot??
i hv no child,im 22. i fall in love to his heart, i like his ideas, and his voice turns me on. he isa big blak man,and i like that. he is positive to me..YES,we met online,and thats y we both dont trust eachother 100%. we both r not weak-minded ppl, but love happen. Everything at him attracted me. i want only him. we know each other since Dec-2005. he sent me a few pics of his child. he send me pics of his house. i dont think he lies. he was honest and told me his

2006-08-05 04:40:44 · 4 answers · asked by she-ra 2 in Weddings

Is it true that porn has been proven to impair men's relationships with women? and why?

Ok, so if the man is using porn and it seems he prefers it to his partner, not totally prefers it but it seems that way because he will not share it and tries to hide it, then what is the answer?

She has told him she wants to share with him but he still hides it and pretends he doesn't do it.

2006-08-05 04:40:35 · 16 answers · asked by Consulate 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She is agreat kid other than these tamtrums that have started over the past few months. She is kind of spoiled, but she is one of 4 kids and no one eles acts like this because thier spoiled.

2006-08-05 04:40:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-05 04:39:28 · 11 answers · asked by ItalianKingofHearts 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 04:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by Siosaia T 1 in Weddings