Why men looking for the body of ladies more than the morality?

Question

Why men looking for the body of ladies more than the morality?

Answer 1

Maybe they don't want "morality" (which can come across as uptight, demanding, or snooty in some people). If you wear your morality like a badge - its a turn off. If you LIVE it quietly it makes you more approachable.

Additionally you're really broad-brushing. A lot of women are visually inspired as well - that doesn't mean everyone decides on relationships based on looks alone.

Answer 2

Dear Alia,

Your question focuses on the "heart" or "soul" of mankind. I am sure that you can see an increase in violence, abuse, crime, not to mention immorality, over the years. I was surprised to read of children actually brutalizing their own parents, and in several cases, they murdered their own parents! You may be asking why am I speaking of these events when you had asked about men seeking the body of women more than purity? Man is selfish--he wants what he wants just as a child. A child can be restrained but who can restrain an adult? The T.V., magazines, and the public are enamored with the beautiful and sexy. Since this is the standard set by society, most men want to have a beautiful sexy woman. They do not realize that a moral woman, who is going to be faithful to her husband is a great treasure. Most men want carnal appetites to be satisfied. However, a moral woman to me is more beautiful than the glamour girls that cover the front page of seductive magazines. That woman (moral) is someone that you will not have to wonder if she is true to you or putting on a show. I like what God says about the woman in Proverbs 31.

Answer 3

Men are very visual and usually the first thing they notice about an attractive women is her body and then those who value morals will date her to see if she has those additional qualities.

Men who value morals will not stay for long with a woman who has great body but who has no morals.

Answer 4

I use to think that was true until i met my fiance. He lives in Brooklyn and there are lot of pretty girls there. I am full figured and he is very handsome. I commented one day that he must find these girls more attractive then myself and he told me, number 1 he thought i was beautiful too, and number 2 he said he listens at his job to alot of the way some of the girls talk .....cursing and very sexually open, and he said it really didn't matter what kind of body they had, because the minute they talk it showed what they really were all about and it completely turned him off. He is from Pakistan and it is amazing the difference I have found in him as compared to my previous boyfriends. Not all men go for the outside.....some really do care about the character and heart of a woman.

Answer 5

When you first are interested in a guy, when you first see him, you dont say, oh he's got a great personality. No, you either say, oh he's cute, or eww. Same with guys when they look at girls. The attraction is what gets you together. IF you dont even have an attraction, then you wont meet. All men arnt the same though. Sure I care about the looks of a girl, i wont lie. I have my taste, but when it comes down to it, if im talking on the phone, and we cant even hold a steady conversation, or at the very least be laughing, then i know she's not good for me. If it came down to it, Hot Bod or great personality, I'd look for both in a girl. lol. Lets be honest.

Answer 6

It is not uncommon that most people judge others by appearance. It is true that men look at women based on exterior appearance first, then look towards the person inside when the relationship extend long-term. That sleek, slender sexy build is the appearance men desire in a woman. But in retrospect, do women not desire that man that is tall, dark and handsome? Do they find a man who is short, bald and obese just as attractive? We all make inferences from appearance. However, you will find that most men that are looking for a long-term commitment tend to look for a woman that has the ability to be confident, and takes time to present her appearance in an elegant, but realistic manner. Contrary to women's belief, most men are not looking for the perfect "10". That is brought on by media, and advertising for women's product.

Answer 7

Finding the perfect woman is a process of passing hurdles. First hurdle is appearance. Only then can you begin to appreciate her attitudes. But since most women fail the first hurdle, [in any particular man's opinoin], it appears that we are more interested in the body.

Answer 8

Men are designed to have sex, not have conversation with women. I know some women are like "no, my husband loves to talk with me!" Yeah, ha ha ha, right. You don't know what he's actually thinking. Men are visually stimulated, not socially. Women love the social gatherings and cleaning the house. Men love to have sex and kill things. That is just the way it is.

Answer 9

A woman can be beautiful on the outside and ugly on the inside,
A woman can be ugly on the outside and beautiful on the inside,
A woman can be the most beautiful person on the inside, however if the guy can not look at the woman without feeling like he is going to vomit...there's your answer.

Answer 10

maybe body of the ladies can make them happy. and morality is not?