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their body to the world? I mean they are litrally naked, britney spears 4 example. do they want sexual attention?

2006-08-05 04:40:59 · 24 answers · asked by bunnyBoo 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I'm just thinking, because all women love doing this, also, shes not gona do it with all men, so why bother? lol

2006-08-05 05:35:18 · update #1

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ok ill try explaining this, as I a guy sees it:

Firstly its society and our conditioning and the way that we are brought up. If a child is brought up to wear clothes then nudity becomes embarrassing or wrong depending on their morals.

WIth women its become the norm to show off as much flesh as possible, thinking this makes them look pretty when in actual fact it shows to me their loose morals and character.

When a woman wants to fit in, she will do what others around her do, so wear whatever is apparently in fashion ro believing showing more and teasing a man is better...so overall it begins from when we are young to the programs we are given as kids.

Then it goes to peer pressure and society as explained above.

It then evolves to a point when a womans morals are affected to the degree where how she affects another man is indifference as long as she isnt touched. This is a shame since women blame men for cheating or raping etc realising not that maybe that mans mother wasnt teaching the right morals, or that maybe that women that wore sexy lose clothes affected his mind...he may not have committed the crime against she that teased him enough. Is teasing ever right??..when you think about the word teasing it becomes clear that all it does is increase frustration of one kind or another.

The psychologist of our time clearly show how our self-talk or affirmations represent our inner beliefs, so the childhood environment as explained is a key to this.

This also reflects clearly the key about self-esteem. In our society, a person that isnt pretty, sexy, attractive or thin is seen as inadequate..clearly affecting womens self-esteem more. This in turn makes them lose self control and dignity to the effect where they become insensitive to sin, sin here is meant to mean values and morals. They dont see how showing themselves to someone else's father or husband or even to another female is wrong...and this creates further issue and distress for society alone. So self-esteem makes a women do silly things such as show more to get approval, either from her peers or from men, any man for that matter.

The next point is that this is a man's world. Women see that negatively and thus allow men to dictate the morals of the day, to a degree where playboy is seen as a staus symbol when really it is pleasuring all men, from those in jail to those in churches...hmm then they wonder why their men dont love them as much anymore or isnt as loving in character or morals etc.

If you want to keep your man and earn his respect appreaciate him more, but obviously choose a good man first, then appreaciate him and show him this so that he shows his appreciation back.

Women also tend to act niave, when most of the time they are aware of what they do...some enjoy it and some dont but go along with the flow. Now something can be wrong or perverted but now a days everything seems to be seen as fine as long as no-one gets hurt, well instantaneous hurt and gratification cant be totally right.

The final thing regarding this is Money. Its unfortunate but for money people will do anything it seems. Maybe britney spears didnt want to show herself except to her husband, afterall she is christian, im sure this is morally correct, yet maybe her agents said, hey if you want to be successful and earn the big bucks, you have to show more...well who is showing herself to actually helping her career?? women is it, or men?

1 Final thought...if you put a slab of meat infront of a hungry tiger and say you can look but not touch...what will be the result eventually?


Anyway hope this has helped a little. x

2006-08-05 07:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 37 15

The plain truth is that women will always use their sexuality to gain an unfair advantage over men but to be fair their are plenty of things men do to even up the balance.

Nothing wrong with a young lady showing a little bit of flesh, being a litttle bit sexy and suggestive......it's tasteful and exciting to all concerned and doesn't do any harm........BUT....when girls dress like 10 dollar prostitutes as in many of the UK's cities of a weekend night it's just very sad.

Instead of using their god given feminity to spice things up and keep the world colourful and exciting they are trading totally on the fact they are female instead of being real people.

Sure, if you've got a fit body and a pretty face you will get stared at and any number of drunk bozos will try to chat you up but is that really what you want?

Be sexy but tasteful, sassy but smart, elegant and feminine. Be proud of your body and face but remember that ultimately men are JUST as choosy as women when it comes to long term partners.

If all you want is the attention of people on the street and drunks in a bar then dress like a whore and you will be treated like one.

Viking xxx

2006-08-05 05:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Viking 2 · 0 0

Personally speaking I like to live a little to the imagination..... if a woman has a good body and is showing it off then good for her... it's the jelly belly women that insist on showing off their midriffs that hang over the tops of their jeans I often wonder about....

2006-08-05 06:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by dirtyminx82 3 · 0 0

As much as she wants to in the privacy of her own home or anothers. On the street, as much as to be respectable . I'm no judge, so actually from a Christian viewpoint, it really wouldn't matter - but a Christian or any other woman of faith & standards wouldn't put herself out there like that in the first place. I know how I feel, but it's really not my call.

2016-03-27 00:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0 0

I think not necesarily sexual attention. But just ATTENTION. And uncovering your body is easier than having an intelligent conversation....

2006-08-05 04:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

not only is sex the biggest selling industry in the world but you can also make a lot of money and become very famous, what girl would not want money and fame,

2006-08-05 04:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by gem 1 · 0 0

coz women think they are it.

if a man goes out like that its wrong.

it was on the radio b4 saying men shouldnt even wear tank tops. sayin hairy chests and sweaty hairy armpits are gross, and tight shorts showin yer **** is bad too!

cheek!

i stand utterly insulted

2006-08-05 04:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Jeez... Yep lady, some dirty women who don't love yerselves does it to gain self acception. Sad , but is truth

2006-08-05 05:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by K. Wolf 1 · 0 0

Duh, most girl want attention from guys, [All guys] And dressing like a s l u t, is the only way to get a guy's attention at the drop of a hat.

2006-08-05 04:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0 0

if a girl loves her body theres no harm in showing it but ....your body is something you should admire and not expose to the nation

2006-08-05 06:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by SenSored 2 · 0 0

If I looked like that, I would!! In fact I would never get dressed!

2006-08-05 04:46:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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