im young,intelligent and pretty,im educated,strong-minded,white and muslim. i fall in love to a 17 years older blak man who is not rich, and hav a 7 years old daughter from a x-girlfriend.he is african american and i never hav been in the USA. he is much taller then me, and dont know my native language,so i hav to speak english wit him,but my english isnt fluent. he is a good man,and want to marry me. he comes from Harlem and had a bad bakground,but i love him.we text,email,chat wit eachother everyday. am i an idiot??
i hv no child,im 22. i fall in love to his heart, i like his ideas, and his voice turns me on. he isa big blak man,and i like that. he is positive to me..YES,we met online,and thats y we both dont trust eachother 100%. we both r not weak-minded ppl, but love happen. Everything at him attracted me. i want only him. we know each other since Dec-2005. he sent me a few pics of his child. he send me pics of his house. i dont think he lies. he was honest and told me his
2006-08-05 04:40:44 · 4 answers · asked by she-ra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
what is the problem then? Is it because he is black or because he has a child? it sounds to me that you may not be mature enough to deal with this situation or maybe you just need to get to know him a little better before you move any further. spend some time with him (physically) not online of text messaging. you could be anybody you want to be in words it's his actions that you need to be sure about.
2006-08-05 05:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from? This is tough because I do not want to burst your love for him but Harlem is not a great place in the US and you would have a hard way to go if you came here,can he go see you or is there no money for either of you?Honey I would just keep this an on line fantasy for a long while and live your life where you are,I am sure you can find big kind blk man to love and would love you were you are at.
2006-08-05 11:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, he was ten years old when he had his first child!
2006-08-05 12:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not a idiot,but i would not deal with him.
2006-08-05 11:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋