Family & Relationships - 21 July 2006

not just staying because of physical attraction or because its what you know and your afraid of change but real love. I thought my soon to be ex husband and me had real love but he didn't show it after marriage and I felt used. Now is being completely uncaring. Realized now it was probably just the "what you know" for me and "physical attraction" for him. I met someone online (wasn't looking)and its unreal to know someone cares about you without any physical contact.

2006-07-21 07:07:45 · 7 answers · asked by JustWant2B 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Married for 34 years and there has been violence. There had been none for several years and 4 weeks ago he threw stuff at me and ever since have had flashbacks on things in past and all I want is to leave but would that be wrong after all these years together. Should I be more forgiving? He says will never happen again but I can't bring myself to belief him. HELP

2006-07-21 07:07:19 · 18 answers · asked by nmheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can understand masturbating when I am not home for days. I just don't know why he would do that, knowing that I love being with him sexually. We went to a family therapy and she told us that sounds like he has an addiction. He even admit that. it makes me worthless when he does that, I feel like I am not attractive to him anymore. I know he is not cheating because he work and comes home, he never go out with friends or anything like that.Please I need some advice, this is driving me crazy...

2006-07-21 07:06:48 · 66 answers · asked by Porsche 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What kind da girls do y'all like? Black,white,mixed,japanese,or chinese? describe what they should look like!

2006-07-21 07:05:09 · 21 answers · asked by Volleyball15 2 in Singles & Dating

I love her so much. she is a part of me. she is my world. I never would think of being with a married woman but i need to be with her. I dont think she wants to see me anymore. my god this hurts so much. i dont feel good rite now.

2006-07-21 07:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by Andre M 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy who seems ok and we had a good time on our first date although it was a little long. We are going out again and it is going to be another all day thing. I like to go out places but can't really say I enjoy spending the whole day with someone I hardly know. I would prefer to go out for a few hours 2 or 3 at first. I have alot of other things to do and I just don' t like spending my whole day with someone and then having to come home late at night and try to get everything done before bed. I have to work on the weekends so I don't have the free time to catchup on stuff. I just feel long dates should be for when you know someone well and you are in that spend time together just to be together stage, not in the first few dates. I ended up rushing through my morning so I could be ready to go out for the rest of the day.

2006-07-21 07:04:33 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

my ex brokeup with me cuz i cheated on him and i apoligized and the reason why i did was bcuz if u notice that ur BF dont wants u,you go out and look for a guy that will anyhow lately he asks me to hungout with him which i did.on that day,i went to his house and we did make out,he wanted to me to sex him but i was like NO bcuz i was sorta confuse but i sure went along with the whole thing.along the way he wanted to see my pic's on my phone,which i did and 7 of them pictures was me sorta naked and he was mad because he thought some guy took it.2nd of all he saw my text msgs which have been sending to this guy[missing u,hey hun,heybabe,stuff like dat]my ex was mad because his whole thought was we should get back together which i never thought he will think,he has broken up with me and i did apologized and if he could give me another chance but he said NO.when i hung out with him i thought he want us to be friends but my thought was wrong.i still do like this dude,but dont knw what to do

2006-07-21 07:03:58 · 43 answers · asked by shana88_76 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 07:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-21 07:03:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A very sexually attractive 40 yr old lecturer (who I would like a session of passionate sex with) who works in my Department has now left for 3 weeks holiday.

He is at home (with his wife and kids presumably) - should I get a pair of binoculars and watch him from behind a bush outside his house?

2006-07-21 07:01:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay don't get me wrong I don't mind that my husband goes to these places with his buddies after work. But why must he choose to go when we don't have the money? For instance he just called and said he was goin to a club with his friends. Cool but he knows we don't hardley have any food in the house to feed our children and he wants to go spend his money else where? And theres no trying to get him to come home when he said hes going. Then when he gets home he wants to be all lovey dovey and I'm pissed now so when he gets home I just wanna smack him upside his big head to know what he was thinking. Can some one give me any advice thats been through this longer then I have? His children should come first especially his pregnant wife. Am I wrong for thinking this?

2006-07-21 07:01:01 · 19 answers · asked by lillady 4 in Family

well, it's a simple question but I think there may be many different answers.... mmmm :P
What do YOU like in a man?

2006-07-21 07:00:56 · 45 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

OK its me again and my friend has a cell phone and she has virgen mobile but i dont have a cell phone. Can i write from my computer to her cell phone??????????? PLEASE I REALLY WANT TO TALK TO HER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BY THE WAY DO I WRITE (HER PHONE # @VIRGIN MOBILE.COM )????????????

2006-07-21 07:00:46 · 12 answers · asked by <3 3 in Friends

This guy is my best friend, we've known eachother for like 5 years now and I love him to death, I would love to date him, and see him as more than a friend, but I cant read him to find out what he wants! Today he told me he always loved me but I had a boyfriend at the time that we met, and it was "hard to ask me out, when I always had jealous boy up my @$$" (his words) ... If he has "always loved me" then why hasnt he asked me out, since I broke up with my ex three years ago? I've even had another boyfriend in between and all he did was crack jokes (like he was jealous) Since I'm now single again, and really can only see myself with him, I've tried to make time to go visit him multiple times, but he always tells me something that he has planned to do... Is it just bad luck on my part that he has stuff planned when I have time off.... or do I need to go about this a different way???

2006-07-21 06:58:59 · 50 answers · asked by pumpkin1720 2 in Friends

I met a really sweet guy on a website ; we spoke on the phone for hours , laughed and even talked lightly about past relationships . I messed up when I agreed with him that I dont want a relationship! he felt the same way I did and we continued to kick it on the phone . A few weeks later we met , still fine about 3months in we had SEX and he put it down (WOW) I was wipped he needed to be stamped with (PERFECTOOOO) I played it cool and didnt tell him but almost immedatley I felt like a school girl and couldnt even talk when he called , I felt instant want for this guy the whole I love being single went out the window !! He sends me a goodmoring text every morning and I respond however I really want him and I sort of told him that but he only responded "Im speechless" Question is should I not answer his text messages and calls anymore and keep it true to myself with the next guy I meet. The only reason why i was fronting was because some guys are leaches and Im picky.
Signed,
Sad

2006-07-21 06:58:46 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious and i don't know what to beleive but I've heard that chinese guys have it small is it true and why????

2006-07-21 06:58:43 · 17 answers · asked by Lesley 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-21 06:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are going to make out for the first time and its my first time to even kissing!so i am really nerves...tell me is it bad?and should i be nerves?

2006-07-21 06:56:19 · 9 answers · asked by pizza_girly223 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He also says that she will split the bills 50/50 and
they can share everything,but later he says that it is all something he made up.Do men really make up things like this in order to make their wives jealous or could this be a sign he wants out?I own my own home.There is no rent to pay,
only bills.But he constantly bitches that he's broke and can't handle paying them.I am 49 and
he is alot younger but he constantly tries to force me to work but I just don't have the confidence to work.I am used to being a house wife.

2006-07-21 06:56:06 · 13 answers · asked by jenn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i lent one of my faveourite tops to my friend about 4 months ago and she wont give it back, i have asked loads and yesterday i asked her if she could get it for me today cos i am going on holiday tomorrow i dont want to fall out with her over it but im getting really annoyed, anyone no any way to get my top back with out a shouting match?!

2006-07-21 06:55:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-21 06:55:16 · 25 answers · asked by mncountryrebel 1 in Singles & Dating

Well for starters he isn't that type of person that is violent or anything but he doesn't like me wearing anything that's too revealing or even going to places alone, he's told me he really doesn't want anything bad happening to me but I don't understand why he doesn't trust me, I mean I feel that he behaves that way because there's not enough trust from him towards me? What can I do? I've spoke to him about it but he continues behaving that way on the other side I trust him enough to let him go to other places and I trust him enough to let him wear what he wants!

2006-07-21 06:55:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are we just doing sex and did not do love with our girl/boy friend. Is this only the end of any kind of friendship?

2006-07-21 06:54:20 · 9 answers · asked by love-you-so-much 1 in Friends

My ex of 2 and a half years started dating with in two weeks of breaking up. It's been three months and I still havent dated yet.

2006-07-21 06:53:23 · 13 answers · asked by ....... 3 in Singles & Dating

even if they are in love in love in love....why do men do this???

2006-07-21 06:52:38 · 8 answers · asked by briansgirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everybody says he likes me too but he would never admit it, neither would I though. I recently moved away. Would it be acward to talk to him on the phone and to just be friends. I don't mind but would he?

2006-07-21 06:51:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what do you do for fun?

2006-07-21 06:51:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-21 06:51:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been broken up with my son's mom for over 6 months and I'm dating this new girl for a couple of months and I'm reall starting to like her.. Now my ex want to be a couple again.. Should I go back and leave the girl i'm with now or should I stay with her? What would be the right thing? And how should I go about it?

2006-07-21 06:50:48 · 8 answers · asked by crazgrss 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have this ex named kyle an i broke up with him not too long ago but we are still really close an i told him i still have feelings for him an he still likes me too but ane wayz i was talkin to him last night an he had asked me if i still like him i said yeah cuz i do then he said oh... well i would ask u back out but i have feelings for some one else i was devestated an i found out it was one of his ex's that talked bout us when me n kyle went out that is so jacked up wat should i do now PlEaSe hElP!!!

2006-07-21 06:50:42 · 13 answers · asked by HoTtIe WiT a BoDy!! 1 in Singles & Dating