my ex brokeup with me cuz i cheated on him and i apoligized and the reason why i did was bcuz if u notice that ur BF dont wants u,you go out and look for a guy that will anyhow lately he asks me to hungout with him which i did.on that day,i went to his house and we did make out,he wanted to me to sex him but i was like NO bcuz i was sorta confuse but i sure went along with the whole thing.along the way he wanted to see my pic's on my phone,which i did and 7 of them pictures was me sorta naked and he was mad because he thought some guy took it.2nd of all he saw my text msgs which have been sending to this guy[missing u,hey hun,heybabe,stuff like dat]my ex was mad because his whole thought was we should get back together which i never thought he will think,he has broken up with me and i did apologized and if he could give me another chance but he said NO.when i hung out with him i thought he want us to be friends but my thought was wrong.i still do like this dude,but dont knw what to do
2006-07-21 07:03:58 · 43 answers · asked by shana88_76 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1ST OF ALL HELL YEAHHHH U SCREWED UP AND SECOND OF ALL YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE HANG OUT WITH HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE WHEN YOU KNEW YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM HAS CHANGED BUT JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND FORGET ABOUT THIS DUDE,YOU GUYS AREN'T MEANT TO B TOGETHER SOOO FORGET ABOUT HIM AND FORGET ABOUT GETTING ANOTHER CHANCE CUZ U AINT GONE GET NONE.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-25 06:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by leslie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's what happens when you play with two people at once.
What you should have done is stand up and be honest and quit the first relationship before you start a second.
If you don't that's drama. And if you like Drama, then keep doing what you're doing. The only thing that comes from DRAMA is a BAD REPUTATION.
If you like having a bad reputation, then keep doing what you're doing.
Bad Reputation comes from people talking about you behind your back saying things that are both true and untrue.
Be real, be truthful, and honest.
Don't be a play-ette (playa).
2006-07-21 07:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by alwaysbombed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you started off wrong by trying to give any validation to your infidelity. You did the cheating. If you wanted something else from your relationship you should have dealt with that first. If that doesn't work be a grown up, end it and go elsewhere.
You need to admit that you are the dawg and hope that he can learn to forgive you. You cannot expect him to trust you and it is likely he won't. This goes the same for guys, it's just that girls seem to want to trust guys and give in when they know they shouldn't.
Good luck!
2006-07-21 07:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Max B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, there is nothing you can do to with this relationship anymore. you disrespected him by cheating and yourself not only by cheating but with the nudy pics. If " ur BF dont wants u" why were you dating him?? you should have brought your feelings to his attention. if you cant communicate your feelings how can you have a relationship that is worth having?? you need to move on- if you can be friends with him still I'd keep the friendship but i wouldn't expect anything more: how can he ever trust you again?? saying sorry doesn't make wrong things right.
2006-07-21 07:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him what is in your heart and if he does not accept it, you should respect his decision. Obviously you have not only hurt him deeply but you betrayed him and broken the trust that y'all once had. You need to apologize again. Take it as a good sign that he still wants to hang out with you. Continue to hang out with him, don't pressure him, be really nice to him, and always look and smell your best in his presence so he can have second thoughts of letting you go. I did this with my ex and he eventually asked me out again. Also, don't stop your social life either. I think you should date other people in case he doesn't ask you back out and to clear the confusion that you had if you want to be with him or not. Good luck. I hope everything works out.
2006-07-21 07:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of spending so much time worrying about which guy you will be "hangin and bangin" for the day....how about learn the English language and proper grammar? And for God's sake use protection! Illiteracy is one thing, illegitimacy is an entirely separate matter.
2006-07-21 07:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by BlueFire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and really look at your relationship. What made you cheat on him? And why does or did want you back? It sounds to me like you are not sure of what you want with this guy. And I think he may be messing with your head.
2006-07-21 07:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he still has feelings for you, but now he can't trust you. So there is trouble in paradise. Cheating never makes any situation better. It has long lasting effects that you never would have imagined.
2006-07-21 07:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to go back to school and learn English. After that you really need to get some common sense. Failing that, you really need to get a life. If all the above fail you are screwed.
2006-07-21 07:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your boy friend is very unmature little boy and you need to treat him like a little boy his feeling got hurt so know he going to go out and do the same thing to you to get back at you and the world go around and around so i suggest that you for get about him anf find your self a new boy friend because he ever going to trust you again because he is unmature.know tell him to run home to mommy
2006-07-21 07:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋