I love her so much. she is a part of me. she is my world. I never would think of being with a married woman but i need to be with her. I dont think she wants to see me anymore. my god this hurts so much. i dont feel good rite now.
2006-07-21 07:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by Andre M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok sweetie.....Calm down, let's take a look at this from another perspective.
Ok...U love her, but she's married. Having been in this same senerio before let me say I know how U feel. And the pain that U feel will not pass for quite awhile.
Now what U need to stop and think about is, what if U were her husband (maybe in a perfect world)?
She couldn't be faithful to him, therefore she would never be faithful to U. Dont kid Urself into thinking that U would be different.
Honey it wouldn't B.
Haven't U been used long enough. There U are @ her becking call, only talking to her when SHE has time for U, only seeing her when SHE has time for U.
Believe it or not U deserve better. Sometimes we try so hard to keep together things that are destin to fall apart. U can't hold it together by Urself. Let's face it this woman is selffish, she wants her cake and eat it too. U R no ones DOORMAT so stop acting like one.
Pick Urself up and move on...... The person that U feel in love with is gone, what's left is a pathetic woman that uses men to get what she wants no matter what the cost. She took vows with that man and she couldn't take them seriously, so what makes U think the loves she has for U is serious??? C my point????
Ure gonna be fine.....Go out and find U a woman that is not attached. One that can give U her time and her love when its convient to U both...... Relationships are give and take and this married woman has taken enough from U.
Find someone worthy enough for Ur love. Ud be surprised how easy it will be for U to move on if U take a look outside the box and see that relationship for what it was. A lie....
Godd Luck sweetie.
2006-07-21 07:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Such sensitive responses, perhaps these people have never had their heart broken or truly loved someone dearly.
It can and does hurt terribly when your heart has been broken or the one you love, doesn't love you in return. There isn't any magic pill or quick fix, because it is as they say... "Time is the great healer."
It will take time to get over her. Eventually you will realize that there are many more fish in the sea. It can often be similar to a loss due to death, which only time can help heal. Some wounds never heal, but they stop hurting quite as much and you're able to move on and live again.
I've been there, dude.... had my heart broken plenty of times.... and often times I felt like there would never be happiness again in my life, but there was and there is and there will be for you, too.
Just keep getting up each morning and move through each day. Try to take notice of the little things in your day that bring you happiness and joy. Finding other things to occupy your time and your mind will do wonders for helping you move on.
It just takes time and each day will bring you closer.
2006-07-21 14:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Silly Little Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You brought this on yourself. Shame on you for messing with a married woman. She took vows when she married. She broke them, and you helped her do it. If she breaks them with her husband, she will break them with you, when it suits her. Now be a man and take responsibility for your stupid actions. Bear the consequence of your foolishness like a man. Quit your whining and be a man of honor, for a change. Stop your groveling in the dust begging her to come back. She used you, you dummy. Now she is through with you. Lucky for you that her husband hasn't, so far, come hunting for you. Messing with a married woman gets many men killed. Don't think it can't happen to you. You crossed a line you should never have crossed. The next time it will be much easier. Keep it up and you won't live long.
2006-07-21 14:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are involved w/a married woman. Realize that she was using you for her own selfish pleasure. If she is breaking it off with you, maybe she's afraid that her husband is catching on to something. And trust me, if he hasn't yet, he will. Try to get involved with a social group from a church to meet single women. Leave the married ones alone. They are very dangerous to your health.....You can't get by with it for long. And remember, if she is doing her husband wrong, she will do you wrong too. So what kind of future is that? There are good girls that would love to have a relationship with you. good luck to you.
2006-07-21 14:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time dont get involved with a MARRIED woman. She is not part of you, she is part of someone ELSE. You love her even though you didnt have a full relationship with her. Things change when you stop sharing someone.
2006-07-21 14:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you wanna do such a thing,the thought of which itself is not making you feel good?
she is married for god sake and is not interested,just leave her alone,how can you love someone who does'nt feel the same for you?its not love........
just move on and i am sure you have something better in store!!
get involved in some sport,and keep your self busy
2006-07-21 14:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just take a break from it and if she really loves you and want to be with you she will be back. Try to find something to occupy your time or if that want help move. Thats what I done and my partner couldn't take not having me around him and so he eventually moved with me.
2006-07-21 14:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Revea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants you to leave her alone, you should. you have no business messing with a married woman. if you having so much difficulty getting over your feelings,maybe you should try counseling.
2006-07-21 14:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man. She is just a stupid girl and there are so many more. So quit crying, stand up, and act tough. You are giving men everywhere a bad name.
2006-07-21 14:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, reminds of a time when...oh wait, i never got with a married woman....my advice, stay away!
2006-07-21 14:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by USC Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋