2006-07-21 06:55:16 · 25 answers · asked by mncountryrebel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would like to answer that in two different ways, with two different views ( mine and my dumpling's) DUMPLING'S--------First of all lose the hate out of your life, because maybe it was the inner beauty that attacts him to her, not necessarily the outer beauty (by that i mean her personality) MY ANSWER----------Sometimes men (black and white) will seek out these robust, full figured women because there is a preconceived notion that their self esteem is low and they have been known to pamper and basically (BUY) the affection of these men. in other words these men think that this is a stress free relationship, one that they believe that they don't have to do much to keep going. they feel that these heavy set women will accept anything from them. ( the good, bad and the ugly)
2006-07-21 07:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by ms floyd 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
All the ans ive read sound pretty bitchy mean and terrible looks doesnt have 2 be everything a good personality wit and charm can take u a long way.Fat and ugly as u say can be trivial to a person inlove.When u r inlove certain things do not *** into place ppl mite say its more cushion for the pushing but thats an advantage 2 good sex no great sex and love who cud ask 4 more than that
2006-07-21 07:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one are you - the attractive black man or the ugly fat woman?
2006-07-21 06:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Paul in San Francisco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not just for their personalities but they like the big boobs and the big booty since they are big in there package little skinny girls couldn't handle them and bigger girls can that's what I think and damn alot haters out just love what you have and be happy for other people stop hating
2006-07-21 07:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some white men like bigger women too. It is just preference.
2006-07-21 07:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by moonbaby279 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyones definition of fat and ugly are different. there is more to a person than outer appearance.
2006-07-21 07:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by Phenomenal_Black_Woman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
b/c they're ugly and fat as u say and want some attention and when they get it they just go for it.
2006-07-21 06:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The like Curves, they say that unconsciously you always look for someone that relates to your mom and dad, maybe their mom where just like them
2006-07-21 07:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the fatties are easy, and will do / give anything to a man who shows them affection.
They're generally so attention starved that a good lay and it's open season to treat them like garbage and take advantage of financially.
2006-07-21 06:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
4 words.....
Junk In The Trunk
2006-07-21 06:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋