me and my bf are going to make out for the first time and its my first time to even kissing!so i am really nerves...tell me is it bad?and should i be nerves?
2006-07-21 06:56:19 · 9 answers · asked by pizza_girly223 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You mean ... should you be *nervous*, don't you?
"Making out" is a pretty normal thing for teens to do, honey, but you have to be careful about it. There are risks. Not the kind that driving a car 100 miles an hour would be ... but risks, just the same.
Make sure you set the ground rules for the boy. Let him know that the makeout session will be over the minute he touches you anywhere you don't want him to. Make it clear that you'll walk away from him if he does anything to try to push you past where you are comfortable.
Be aware that some boys will "kiss and tell" ... and brag to their buddies about what the two of you did. Some boys even lie and tell them the two of you did things you didn't do. That will make him look like a "stud" to his buddies ... but it won't make you look very good to anyone.
Make sure the boy is trustworthy and not the kind of boy who would do that. Make sure he respects you enough so he'll stop if you tell him to.
Beyond that ... enjoy the experience. You are starting out on a journey of learning that is exciting and that everyone before you has gone through ... including your parents.
If you and your mom have a really good, trusting relationship ... you might even ask her what it was like the first time she kissed a boy. You might be surprised at how open she may be.
Good luck, honey!!
2006-07-21 07:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? If you are under age . the biggest worry will be your parents finding out. A kiss isn't bad but boys don't know how to stop there and they get mad when you want them to stop if you can get them to stop.. So just be careful. Talk to your mom. tell her what is going on and see what she says to you. She will remember her first kiss.
you will probably find hers first time pretty amusing ..
Or if you can't talk to your mom talk to your dad. he will have some pretty amusing things to tell you too.. You see most of us have been through this before and the best place to get answers are from the ones that love you
2006-07-21 14:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to follow your heart but be careful. If it is your first time for a kiss do not let it go farther than that. You are probably young now and trying to experiement.. your first kiss is a life turning event so make sure he is the one.
2006-07-21 14:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by afvet3471 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being nervous is normal especially if its your first time, when the time comes just remain calm and tell him to take it slow for you so you wont be too overwhelmed with the situation....
2006-07-21 14:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to have fun and relax, don't eat anything spicy, and have your mind made up BEFORE you start on how far you are comfortable going.
2006-07-21 14:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by 1hotmama5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asking this question, it means that your too young to be doing it. Go play outside or watch cartoons.
2006-07-21 14:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous, and don't feel presured to kiss him because other people in society are kissing. Be comforable, if you don't want to something don't do it.
2006-07-21 14:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jade Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scraed girl let your tongue to all the talking =)
2006-07-21 14:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by jonathanwifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, its only natural....but i hope you know what your getting yourself into
2006-07-21 14:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋