Family & Relationships - 20 July 2006

My husband lied about his job. He didnt have any. He stole my credit cards and used them. He stole my money and jewelry which he sold. Now I am in huge debts and have no savings, no money. Have nowhere to go, no house and cant afford rent. What do I do? Do I leave him? I love him and want to work this out. How do I trust this wont happen again?

2006-07-20 07:50:16 · 12 answers · asked by TJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-20 07:49:57 · 11 answers · asked by gen02 1 in Weddings

I'm single but not to sure about the whole thing................

2006-07-20 07:49:37 · 5 answers · asked by â?¥.·:*WHAt a SHame to LOse WHat U neVEr haDâ?¥.·:* 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is going down the wrong path and we arent close enough for her to listen to me about anything. She just wants me to join in with her, what do i do? she keeps acting like its no big deal and makes it sound like she doesnt do what people say she does (stupid things with alcohol and drugs). should i report her to her parents? that seems like the only thing i could do that would work, but its pretty harsh.

2006-07-20 07:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

theres this girl at school i really like. i gave her presents on valentines n stuff. but everytime we make eye contact she laughs and talk to her friend thats always with her. sometimes i do stupid things to impress her. and we'er 2 different religions. my parents say that i should find a girl in our religion but i really crave for the girl at school. sometimes when i think that i'm finally over her, i get the urge to love her again.....what to do?!
and i'm 14

2006-07-20 07:48:56 · 21 answers · asked by Alucard 3 in Singles & Dating

my marriage has been on the rocks since day one, but i had been with my husband for 4 years before then, and everything was great. a secret was told to my husband about that i had cheated on him in the first year that we were dating, and it wasn't anything serious, but i ended it after i saw that he was a great guy and i wanted to be with him.
well almost every day he tortured me over it, i lost all trust, he doesn't respect me, and for the last 2 years that we have been married we'll go weeks without fighting, then a big one, eventually it got horrible and when our apartment lease was up we both moved into different places, and are trying to both get a grip on our lives again, well for the last few months we've been hanging out and finding our friendship again, and falling back in love. The reason why we would have to start over and move to another state is because all of our friends here are very judgemental on the situation and think that we should just stop seeing the other.

2006-07-20 07:48:22 · 13 answers · asked by small town gal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has committed adultery and has lied to get a restraining order placed on me. I had proof and a witness in court and the judge still granted her the restraining oreder. She refuses to even talk to me. She's being pushed by her mother to do this and I really don't think she wants to. Is there any one who can give me some advice on how to win back my wife without contacting her?

2006-07-20 07:47:44 · 5 answers · asked by trusty666 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If somebody that you know calls your house and ask you to comeover to their house around 7pm.What would you do?

2006-07-20 07:47:27 · 4 answers · asked by Jing 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What makes a girl behave like this?

2006-07-20 07:47:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi - I'm just a genuine nice guy, I love cars, racing, the usual guys stuff. But I'm told by my friends that Im a traditional gentleman whose even in touch with my femine side. I design aeroplanes for a living and am not bad looking (but that's for you to judge). Im 6ft5 med build brown hair and green eyes. Im looking for that special lady to take an interest in and spend special time with. So how bout a date. Email me if u want to know more girls qwertyb6@yahoo.com there's no strings here, I just want to find that special one. (dinners on me of course). Hope to hear from you. xx

2006-07-20 07:47:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If one of your friends was really upset, or emotionally distraught, would u help them. What if one of them was thinking about killing themselves. Would u help them.
Some of u may help them out, but others will just leave the person be. U do this, they will kill themselves.

2006-07-20 07:47:07 · 4 answers · asked by theone 2 in Friends

I don't get it.... when people lie that have to keep lieing to cover up the lies they have told previously.... and do they care when they get caught or do they think that they just need to get better at it and try harder to not get caught the next time? Can someone please expain why people lie..? I don't and I get through life just fine... even better I think because I don't lie.....

2006-07-20 07:46:58 · 51 answers · asked by shy&gental 4 in Singles & Dating

My long term boyfriend (8 years) and I broke up about 4 months ago. I still have to speak to him on a regular basis, because we have a child. How can I stop caring about what he thinks of me?? How can I move on?? I don't want to get back together (not that it's even an option) but it still hurts to see him. Help!!!

2006-07-20 07:45:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 07:44:40 · 1 answers · asked by Tonia J 1 in Family

you can voice your sarcasm - but I'm looking for well thought out answers :)

thanks!

2006-07-20 07:44:01 · 14 answers · asked by swilkes 2 in Family

Would you go out with a decent looking guy with a daughter?

I've recently broke up with my bf because of this. In his defense; it really shouldn't be a problem since he dont live or see his daughter ...or the mother of the child.
He claims to be a "good boy" for he don't smoke or drink...


But good boys don't run around and get girls pregnant!! :(
Did i make the right choice by breaking up with him?


Please help.

2006-07-20 07:43:45 · 25 answers · asked by jeanne1120 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 07:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by Ram 666 1 in Friends

I am an adult child who grew up in a very abusive home. Daddy was abuser. My mom watched as he beat us. As a child I always felt that I needed to protect her and actually we(brother and I) both took a few beatings just for trying to get daddy to lay off of going after mama. Onetime he actually held her at gunpoint and shot at her. She swore he wouldnt hurt her. I had to literally pull her out of the house and call the police with her objecting.

Daddy died 12 years ago. She remarried a man that had the same violent history. Thankfully the man has never raised a hand toward my mom but thats just it! He would have had to get off his butt to do something..anything! which he hasnt in over 11 years.

Moms now hubby has stage 4 cancer and she insists on keeping him home even though he cannot tend to himself and he is jealous of her doing w/o him. Her health suffers. How do I just let her suffer from her decisions? If she dies I have no core family left. Im scared of losing her. help!

2006-07-20 07:43:29 · 3 answers · asked by AccountableLady 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 07:41:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

everytime i think about not going to work i feel guilty for not being there. i worked through most hollidays.

today i had to wait for my building manager to fix things in my apartment. should i just take the rest of the day off??

2006-07-20 07:41:17 · 10 answers · asked by g5269580 2 in Singles & Dating

females get to wear our clothing and nothing is ever said,however becuase i like to wear panties,bras etc. i'm the one they laugh at

2006-07-20 07:41:11 · 8 answers · asked by maryjo 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 07:40:54 · 34 answers · asked by Cute_as_always!! 2 in Friends

2006-07-20 07:40:30 · 14 answers · asked by curious_one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and are they being truthful when they say that?

2006-07-20 07:40:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a chick I know who is stalking me, she used to be my friend, but now she just acts bitchy, and makes ignorant assumptions about what I do, she does internet searches looking for traces of me, and if she finds any I get an email stating her opinion.
I don't need, and I don't want her opinion, especially when her opinion is based on assumption.

How do I get rid of this pest?

2006-07-20 07:39:33 · 18 answers · asked by MIGHTYDOE 2 in Friends

I am 12 and my sister asked me to be a Junior Bridesmaid in her wedding!! (she is 30) So i said yes. And I found the most beautiful dress for $17.50!!!!! So is being a bridesmaid like what do you do?????

2006-07-20 07:38:40 · 2 answers · asked by Kayleigh M 1 in Weddings

Is that weird? I mean he and i were just going seperate directions..he was interested in another girl so i let him go..we ended on good terms..but i just don't like to be alone. I want a boyfriend..why is that so wrong..BTW we just ended a 4 month relationship yesterday but he's on the rebound too. so what's the deal?

2006-07-20 07:38:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 07:38:38 · 8 answers · asked by turned on 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know

2006-07-20 07:38:38 · 2 answers · asked by hillpinky 1 in Friends

scrub my sister in law's toothbrush in the toilet because she smoked crack in my house and stole my food,clothes,make up and robbed my neighbor?

2006-07-20 07:38:37 · 11 answers · asked by doodle 5 in Other - Family & Relationships