Is that weird? I mean he and i were just going seperate directions..he was interested in another girl so i let him go..we ended on good terms..but i just don't like to be alone. I want a boyfriend..why is that so wrong..BTW we just ended a 4 month relationship yesterday but he's on the rebound too. so what's the deal?
2006-07-20 07:38:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not wierd...people don't like being alone and that's ok..
2006-07-20 07:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not weird at all especially if the break up wasn't a painfull one. I wouldn't necessarily get into a relationship just because you don't want to be alone but as long as you are being fair to the next person you go out with and not bringing in baggage from your last relationship there is no reason on earth why you couldn't move on and try to find someone else better suited to you. Don't let what everyone else thinks you should do dictate your life do what you feel is best for you.
2006-07-20 07:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say JJ that you just don't like to be alone...or could it be that you don't like being lonely? If you can't entertain yourself and have to have some guy to constantly validate you as a person, then you have a problem. You didn't seem to be all that emotionally involved with the last bf you had. Why not fix yourself so that when you meet a man you want to be with, he will want to be with and stay with you, instead of just replacing one after the other. You will end up with a bad reputation for your efforts that way, and tell yourself that you are just misunderstood. Being single is a great thing. I can go anywhere and do anything I want to, and not have to answer to some "guy" who is too insecure to deal with I am my own woman. By the way I have a bf who is just as independant as I am, we get along great! You sound too young to be worried about all the drama.
2006-07-20 07:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People look at things differently. You just broke up with your boyfriend and already you want another? To outsiders like myself it seems like your to fast. And to some other people maybe even easy. A relationship takes time to build and form. If you rush being in a relationship, then most likey it wont last. You have to get to know the person to see if this is the person that you really want to be with. Its your life, do what you want.
2006-07-20 07:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley nothing wrong with that. Who the hell wants to be alone. I just moved into an apt. For the first time in my life i'm livin alone and if it wasnt for my gf spending almost every night with me it would suck alot.
2006-07-20 07:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by SCHMUCKY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends... if u already have a new bf or a new prospect already and yall just broke up... people think either u were seeing this guy the whole time, or at least talking to him. or that the relationship anit mean that much to u cuz u already over it. take ur pick
2006-07-20 07:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by AUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey grl I don't see anything wrng in that..sometime people are funny they look at these things in a funny way but i would suggest ...have bigger picture and big heart and things will fall in place and you have to move on cause you just have one life and you need to have a blast...yup & hey lemme tell you ths..you have a very big heart since you r not so down after your breakup..
Hey i'm sure you will meet someone nice...!!! hey cheers and look around there r lot of options available...loser
2006-07-20 07:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you are comfortable with. 4 Months is not a very long relationship, I think you are fine to get a new guy. Not wrong at all, babe, go for it!
2006-07-20 07:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wager i'm perplexed. You broke up with him. You spied on him. He denies the sentiments for those different ladies to spare you because he needs to keep you as a chum. end of tale. My suggestion? tell him to make a sparkling password and provides you up looking! in basic terms flow on and problem about your self!
2016-12-10 12:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by moncalieri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life, your decisions. It's best to not care what other people think of you. It causes you to miss out on many, many oppurtunities. If you feel as though you want to be with someone, then do so.
2006-07-20 07:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. You are a pretty girl and it is summer. Find a guy and have a fun summer! Good Luck!
2006-07-20 07:43:46 · answer #11 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋