My wife has committed adultery and has lied to get a restraining order placed on me. I had proof and a witness in court and the judge still granted her the restraining oreder. She refuses to even talk to me. She's being pushed by her mother to do this and I really don't think she wants to. Is there any one who can give me some advice on how to win back my wife without contacting her?
2006-07-20 07:47:44 · 5 answers · asked by trusty666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We've been married for 17 years and we have 4 kids. She took the two youngest and told the older two taht she didn't want them.
2006-07-20 08:46:17 · update #1
give her the space that she wants, then she'll see that you are the man that she married and not the illusion that her mother created. eventually she'll figure out what she wants.
2006-07-20 07:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by small town gal 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't waste your time. Let her go and don't look back. I was in a situation exactly like this in 1998. I am now happily married and have a 2 year old. He is divorced AGAIN due to his fling having multiple affairs on him.
Do NOT try to have any contact with her, that will only land you in jail. Even if the contact is innocent.
Find supportive friends and family, join a church if you are not already attending one and start moving on with your life. You are important and deserve an faithful spouse, don't settle for less!
Good Luck.
2006-07-20 08:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a person to person Wire. Remember Western union? Or maybe there is something she loves, my ex was a collector of Disney things. I would have sent her a disney figurine with a note. "Please can we talk alone someplace? Call, email, or write me plase baby. I love you" something like that will activate the heart of a woman that really loves you. If it has no effect, then it is time to concentrate on you for a while. The sea is still full and eventually your heart heals, often stronger than it was
2006-07-20 07:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER ALONE! Jeez, are you stupid! She filed a restraining order against you, which is now on your permanent record. She filed for divorce. HELLO????
Let me spell this out,
S * H * E H * A * T * E * S Y * O * U
Leave her alone, or go directly to jail, do not pass go, do not collect 200 dollars. DUH!!
2006-07-20 07:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not want her trust me please. you deserve to be loved and held and respected. She can not respect herself or love herself. Get your self someone better
2006-07-20 07:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋