My husband lied about his job. He didnt have any. He stole my credit cards and used them. He stole my money and jewelry which he sold. Now I am in huge debts and have no savings, no money. Have nowhere to go, no house and cant afford rent. What do I do? Do I leave him? I love him and want to work this out. How do I trust this wont happen again?
2006-07-20 07:50:16 · 12 answers · asked by TJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Umm.... This guy, to me, sounds like he's a total bastard. What do you love about him? Do you love the fact that he steels from you? Or maybe that he lies to you? He doesn't sound very smart either.... Maybe you should move on and find a man who actually has a job, and won't steel from you. Finding a man who won't lie to you will take some crazy skill, but if you do hold on to him. But I seriously suggest you leave this guy.
2006-07-20 08:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by goggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband told you that he had a job than you should of ask him the name of his job than ask him when did he start the job. Ask him did he talk to about the job. He must not be a true man if he stoled your things. How can you go and work things out if he done put you in a bond? How you going to pay off your credit cards? Also where you going to live at if you dont got no money? These are the things that you got to ask yourself. Hope you can work things out.
2006-07-20 08:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Vickki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a friend to move into and share the rent with and start working things out. I would leave the guy and move on in your life. Let him live his life without your money and credit cards.
2006-07-20 12:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend went through something similar... she divorced him right away, couple years later met a wonderful man, and she's now a mother... no regrets... those things don't change in a man, and after such a deception how could you ever trust him again???? please have some self respect for yourself because none of this is your fault... you deserve better treatment and when it comes to relationships you should never have to settle for anything less than the best... wait for a mna who will treat you like a queen...
my friend ended up paying off all her debts (she had to work her tail off and she definitely didn't live in luxury for those five years), but she's living pretty damn comfortable now... i know this is going to be extremely difficult, but ask friends, parents, church people, etc for help... remember, you don't deserve anything less than the best!!!
2006-07-21 05:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by constanze_mylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no get away as fast as possible he will only bury u more misery loves company there isa help out there get it & get it quick he is using you screw the love think of all the hurt he causes you every time you think of any type of love your love will turn @ into pure hatred he has walked on you enough you are lowering yourself to be his doormat you r better than that go on f k him let him be alone he will do it to someone else get a job better yourself screw him he is ther to hurt you & tthats it
2006-07-20 11:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is it that you love about him? That he lied to you ~ stole from you and left you in financial ruin? HMMM Do you have a therapist?
2006-07-20 07:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't happen without your permission. The only way to "work it out" is by leaving. That would solve your problem.
2006-07-20 08:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by supernaturaldj2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with him.....it sounds like he stole your brains too.
I don't think it would happen again seeing how you don't have anything left to steal!
2006-07-20 07:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will just do it again get rid of him and make him pay your credit card bill i am sure u ca take him to court over it.
2006-07-20 11:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by shell4678 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? No you shouldn't stay with him! You stated the obvious reasons why you shouldn't.
2006-07-20 07:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋