2006-07-20 07:40:30 · 14 answers · asked by curious_one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it that you can't think of anything or would prefer to not engage in conversation? Perhaps you can't think of anything because you just don't think you know or feel anything interesting enough to say. Expand what you know and work on self confidence. Read more, get out more, meet new people. The flip side of this is, perhaps you are more of a thinker and listener than a talker. Nothing wrong with the way you are, you have to figure it out for yourself. If it makes you uncomfortable to not be a talker, just look at it like you are who you are, if you are happy, forget everyone else, you are what is important in the whole picture.
2006-07-20 07:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you are not comfortable in your own skin. I mean you might feel like you don't have anything to say to people. Start with your husband and talk about something you know about, like what happened doing the day, or at your job, or with the kids, or about his job. Make it a point to talk about something everyday with him. Then with friends, people like to talk about themselves, so just ask your friends about their days or what they are going to do on the weekend. Make sure you try to talk to someone each day and before you know it, you'll be talking all the time. Good luck.
2006-07-20 07:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be depression like another has said
but as a man actions speak louder than words. You adore him, hugs and kisses everyday should be enough, also you might have a irrational fear of saying something you think is 'stupid' or so you somehow think. Trust me hubby only wants to know he is loved
2006-07-20 07:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two simple things i feel are the main cause of your problem.
One is just that you don't want to be causing any kind of harm to anyone with your words.Second you are having issue with getting conversational with anybody just to ensure that you don't pop out a bit too much wanted or unwanted info to the other person
2006-07-20 07:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by questionmark to exclamation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem. well mainly with other people. i just dont have anything to say. id rather shut my mouth then say something stupid or something that makes no sence. im not a people person. aand my husband knows that. he likes me being quiet and shy. i talk with him more then i talk with anyone. but i like peacful moments.
2006-07-20 07:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes depressed people have a hard time speaking. You might want to check out one of the many depression sites and see if that is a problem you are facing. http://www.depression.com/
2006-07-20 07:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kristina S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta break this shyness.
Did you and husband date for awhile first, before jumping the broom?
You should feel as one,a team.
Please get some counseling.
2006-07-20 07:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by MISSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't have the gift of gab and small talk doesn't come easy to them. Maybe you shy also.Take pride in who you are and don't worry about it.
2006-07-20 07:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people have difficulty communicating....they get nervous or are just uncomfortable expressing themselves. Practice makes perfect. Just start talking...talk about what you know...
2006-07-20 07:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read more, start with newspapers, and start small talk on the topics of the day. start from there and u will start talking about many other things...
start with how much of an idiot politicians are...
2006-07-20 07:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋