Family & Relationships - 20 July 2006

when you break a guy's heart like say...you dumped him for various reasons, do you feel bad about it and pity the guy or do you think that he is a total loser and just want to hurt him more and make him more jelous? and when he crys over u do you feel bad or you just think that he is weak and stupid? do you treasure all those good times that you guys shared or do you think that it was a complete waste of time and pretend that you never loved him. will you still stick by his side during hard times or just watch and laugh untill he shatters?

2006-07-20 18:53:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i seen this guy at a gathering quite a while ago. i was very attracted to him right away. but was not the place to do anything about it. so i left it alone. i seen his profile on a site and messaged him. we started emailing each other, we talked about meeting. he lives out of town, so would have to be a planned day thing at least. but he's not to far out of town. i emailed him and haven't heard from him in a couple of months. a month ago, i met another guy. who lives out of province. but we been talking and get along great. the new guy is looking for a serious relationship. he wants to be married and have kids etc. i want the same things. and am attracted to him. i love talking to him and how i feel when we talk about our similarities etc. at a different gathering, i met the first guy (not on purpose). we were so attracted to each other. people thought we were already a couple. he wants a serious relationship as well. what do i do? i'm supposed to go meet the guy out of province soon.

2006-07-20 18:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by Jody SweetG 5 in Singles & Dating

just to ask u how u feel? and how we fell apart.. how this fell apart.. are u happy out there in this great wide world? do u think about ur sons.. do u miss ur lil grl? wen u lay ur head down.. how do u sleep at night? do u even wonder if we're alright.. if we're alright....

its been a long hard road witout u by my side, WHY werent u there on the nights that we cried, u broke our mothers heart and broke ur children for life, its not ok, but we're alright....

DO YOU SEE? how painful it is wen a family member (mom or dad) walks out on u... good charlotte wrote this song.. its about benji and joel's father, wen they walked out.. December 24th, 1995... and he never came back

how? why? can parents do this???? dont they even care how much their hurting their children?? i just dont understand...

please explain to me... how some1 could hurt their own flesh n blood like that...

2006-07-20 18:52:44 · 15 answers · asked by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 in Family

I have been with her for around 6 months now. We haven't seen each other for awhile but still seem really close. We were talking online last night and she was the first person to tell me happy birthday at midnight. She wasn't able to make it here and I was ok with that. Also she had been asking me what I wanted and I really didn't want her to spend money on me because she has been really tight on it lately paying for school and I had told her that. I've tried to treat her the best I can from 8 hours away this summer with flowers and gifts, so I guess I was just expecting SOMETHING. I didn't get a card or even a phone call all day. Never talked to her and she even had the day off. I just feel really disappointed right now. Should I tell her how I feel about this or just try and get over it. She's an amazing girl and I don't want to let her go but this just really hurts I guess. :(

2006-07-20 18:50:41 · 5 answers · asked by mtugodfath3r 3 in Singles & Dating

What is usaly give in birthday to a girl who I loved.

2006-07-20 18:50:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The older they get the more fat and disgusting thy are, who needs that?

2006-07-20 18:50:08 · 31 answers · asked by schnewschnew 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey i came here to look for answers, im 13 years old, the thing im worried about is the following:

im a different kind of boy...first of all before you read this through (Im not gay)

I found myself in a situtaion of a sea of feelings where i got a huge mood swing and completely turned myself upside down, i now like Pink, shopping, clothing, and puppies

i do still like stuff like hockey american football, wrestling etc...

the problem is people tease me (just boys) but i got great friends who dont and look up for me, and usually when theres lunch ihang out with the girls, and talk about some stuff, and thats when the stupid kids come and make fun of me

it realy gets on my nerves you know?

i mean is this gonna change my social life when i get older to the good or to the bad?

i realy need help, i feel i need to change, but as life proves, no one can change completely with what they love

please help me and tell em if this will affect my social life int the future.

2006-07-20 18:48:03 · 10 answers · asked by Hardy2k 2 in Singles & Dating

i have had many with my man

am i weird?

2006-07-20 18:48:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we are happy together but he claims to have been happy with a prior who wants him back...maybe...but she doesn't know about me. i want him to tell her but i don't want him gone. any ideas?

2006-07-20 18:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by jb 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this really handsome boy that i like. he plays with my hair whenever we r around each other, he always comes 2 sit by me, he called me sexy, instead of waving when we c each other he comes and gives me a hug, and he carries my things 4 me, but i have been waiting 4 him 2 ask me out for about 3 months but he is always hooking up with other girls. His friend asked him if he wanted 2 go with me and he said no bcuz im not his type. i am so confused! i just want 2 stop thinking about him but i cant. please help me out here.

2006-07-20 18:46:38 · 15 answers · asked by ¢υтιє_ρα-тσσтιє 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 18:45:55 · 9 answers · asked by Mich 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to be interviewing someone for a partime day care provider for my 3 children. What are some good questions to ask?

2006-07-20 18:45:01 · 5 answers · asked by errinella2 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are some reasons that you are either for it or against it?

2006-07-20 18:44:58 · 33 answers · asked by stormytmn 1 in Family

What sort of things do you do to try to give a guy the message that you like him?

2006-07-20 18:44:52 · 24 answers · asked by captaincaknucklehead 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 18:44:49 · 6 answers · asked by klimax_03_04 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-20 18:44:34 · 12 answers · asked by tshingk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 18:43:06 · 2 answers · asked by ema(m 2 in Friends

i got very bad for my exam results in june and my mum told me to choose one. Either caning the buttocks 20 times or caning the calf muscle ( like the 'jewel in the palace' girl when she was young ) 20 times. Which one do i choose?

2006-07-20 18:41:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Guilt trip? Games? I'd like to hear your experience.

2006-07-20 18:40:16 · 10 answers · asked by Type3Thinker 3 in Family

well its a long distance thing, were kinda talkin like we're together, but then all of the sudden she gets mad cause supposedly im not trying hard enough to be with her?..what the hell...should i jus stop talkin to her and 4get about it cause i wont be seeing her for a long while anywayz..or should i try to get things better?..i do really like this chick.

2006-07-20 18:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 18:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 18:36:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 2 kids (1 and 3 yo) and work full time 5 days a week. I have been relying on takeout but I would like to start providing my family with home-cooked meals. I leave the office at 5, buy quick takeout and pick up kids, arriving home at 6:15, kids already hungry by then. My son eats v-e-r-y slowly and we usually finish dinner by 7:30. Quality time with family until 8, then baths and bedtime. Both kids are in bed by 9:30. Then house chores until about 10, later if there is laundry. By then I am usually tired and wanting to relax.

Where do you other working parents get time to cook?? Specific schedules will help! Thanx!

2006-07-20 18:36:16 · 3 answers · asked by jessc 2 in Family

momma was truly a very giving and caring person and also knows my sister suffers alot what is this ??

2006-07-20 18:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by sunshine 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 18:35:31 · 22 answers · asked by Ned B 1 in Singles & Dating

in the past week, i have lost two very dear friends; my brother-in-law's mother, & a close friend from church. i have been crying off and on since saturday when i found out about "granny-granny" being taken to the emergency room,& being in critical condition following emergency surgery. it doesn't help they live 8 hours away, & i've not seen them since thanksgiving. she passed away sunday morning, then i learned of my friend's passing -after a hard fought battle with colon cancer-(monday night) on tuesday afternoon. this was too much for me, and i broke down in tears. my husband, who has worked in the emergency rescue services for the last 15 years (currently as a paramedic), said, "i'm sorry to hear that, but if it was their time, it was their time, and there's nothing we can do. there's no point in crying over it now." is this just typical male behavior, or has he taken the emotional detachment from his job too far? when i ask him, he says i worry too much. am i just being paranoid?

2006-07-20 18:35:05 · 5 answers · asked by ditzi_k 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

So far she is not interested but I'm sure if it's out of disgust or embarrasment. What can I do to get her to let me try. Normally she's a try anything once kinda girl.

2006-07-20 18:35:01 · 4 answers · asked by John Book 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I stop myself from talking to my boyfriend as if he was a child?

Everytime I get upset I blow fire!!!! I don't hear a word coming out of his mouth and I just continue to yell and get what I have to say off of my chest. He never yells back never hit me never reacted in a violent manner. I never does this in front of anyone just in the comfort of our home. But then I always and up apologizing for it later. But because of this he never asks me whats wrong or do I need to talk if I look upset. How do I stop this from taking over me and just telling him its o.k. and then go rant and rave to a girlfriend later? I need some suggestions not smart @$$ comments.

Thanx

2006-07-20 18:34:47 · 7 answers · asked by Niinnaa 3 in Singles & Dating

I saw my ex-girlfriend with another dude! She left me with no explanation and I have to see this! Why, are women so cruel? I mean, I didn't treat her wrong or anything! I just wanted to know why she left me, is all. I can't think straight. I didn't even have the energy to confront her about it, besides, if she's happy wit him - then so be it. I'd go lay down but I'm at work. This is very depressing. Has this ever happened to anyone else? Or, am I the only one?

2006-07-20 18:33:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This really sucks because I never wanted to be in that position ever again. I've become a pretty closed off emotional guy because of some bad relationship (verbally abusive selfish girl) that I broke off 4 months ago. I became better aquainted with a girl Ive known for awhile who admitted in the past that she had feelings for me. Well we started talking, and we've been spending more and more time together. We talk for hours on the phone until shes about to fall asleep. She always calls me at work randomly to see how my day is going. Today she even came over,cooked for me, did my dishes and reorganized my whole kitchen. We laugh for hours on end about the most random things, have nicknames for each other its great. Tonight is the first night I havent talked to her and I never realized how much I miss her. Its overwhelming. Its just hard to express my feelings because Im not good at that. I want to let her know how much I appreaciate her. Damn I miss her even more now.Anything I can do?

2006-07-20 18:32:49 · 4 answers · asked by sTRIKER 81 1 in Friends