well its a long distance thing, were kinda talkin like we're together, but then all of the sudden she gets mad cause supposedly im not trying hard enough to be with her?..what the hell...should i jus stop talkin to her and 4get about it cause i wont be seeing her for a long while anywayz..or should i try to get things better?..i do really like this chick.
2006-07-20 18:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to make it work...if she's still bitchin...f*ck her...
2006-07-20 18:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by klee0926 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
give it time, it will work out if its meant 2, i been there and its been 2 and a half years now and its all going smooth, it was rocky 4 a while because he said i wasnt trying hard enough but all it is really is frusteration probably, talk it out with her and make a time line as 2 when u can b with her and tell her its a lot of compromise in all relationships but this one a little more so, im sure if she wants u, she will understand and just b patient with her, women have mood swings and there will b lots of arguments 2 come.
good luck
2006-07-21 01:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man long distance relationships can get ugly and its depressing sometimes not be able to be with the person hmmm I think you guys can make it work if your both committed to it .. maybe if your having doubts you just stay friends and meet up later down the road .. I think best friends make perfect lovers? lol .. all I can say is be honest with her sweety let her know that you feel the same way she does your in it together sounds like maybe she needs to grow up and figure out what she wants ..and always remember anything worth having never comes easy !! good luck to you ..If it doesnt work out then I guess it just wasnt meant to be and hopfully you can remain friends . if the feelings are there i say go for it !
2006-07-21 01:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a fellow long distance girlfriend, i can relate-i felt for a while that my man was blowing me off and getting on with his life, but we talked and found out what was going on. You seem rather genuine, try to make it work. My bf and I went thru 5 months of not seeing eachother, we find that at times, our im's tell us more about eachother than our talks face to face- talk to your sweetie, i hope everything works out for you two.
2006-07-21 01:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by kmrelo04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she acted that way because she misses you but then you don't have that much effort to make her special. Maybe you're not that thoughtful or sweet about her. Girls really like it to be pampered and really likes guys whose romantic. I suggest you to be more thoughtful abt her and of course open your line of communications so that there is no misinterpretations happen. Just remember that if she's the one destined for you, she'll comes back to you no matter what ;) good luck!
2006-07-21 01:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are very sentimental creatures, and they react to the emotions from every moment so maybe something happen that made her feel that way, if you loke her try to work it out, but if she is too much trouble then getr a new chick.
2006-07-21 01:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to talk to her. If she see that u are trying to talk her about this then she know that u are trying hard as u can. And everything should work itself out.
2006-07-21 02:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense to you, but long distance relationships usually don't work out...sorry!!! but i know you really do like this chick!!!see how it continues...........
2006-07-21 01:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get use to it....
You will find through life it becomes a common theme...
(no offence to the ladies...lol)
2006-07-21 01:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by epod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shuld try to work things out.... how old r u guys??? anyways... if u rely like her, u'll follow ur heart and do watev it takes to be with her, and to love her lots... she'll deeply appreciate it, and she'll feel more secure.....
2006-07-21 01:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just ignore what is she complaining about,... and show her how much you care for her, she is definitely needs your attentions,... Good luck buddy,...
2006-07-21 01:43:36 · answer #11 · answered by sylvester M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋