i seen this guy at a gathering quite a while ago. i was very attracted to him right away. but was not the place to do anything about it. so i left it alone. i seen his profile on a site and messaged him. we started emailing each other, we talked about meeting. he lives out of town, so would have to be a planned day thing at least. but he's not to far out of town. i emailed him and haven't heard from him in a couple of months. a month ago, i met another guy. who lives out of province. but we been talking and get along great. the new guy is looking for a serious relationship. he wants to be married and have kids etc. i want the same things. and am attracted to him. i love talking to him and how i feel when we talk about our similarities etc. at a different gathering, i met the first guy (not on purpose). we were so attracted to each other. people thought we were already a couple. he wants a serious relationship as well. what do i do? i'm supposed to go meet the guy out of province soon.
2006-07-20 18:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by Jody SweetG 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are supposed to spend some time together getting to know each other. me going to meet his family and spend time there, then he was going to come here and spend time meeting my family. the first guy i met lives like a few hours away, talked about how much we like each other. and could hardly keep away from each other. he is going to be at another gathering i'm going to and insinuated he wanted to spend time together then.
2006-07-20 18:55:00 · update #1
don't know what to say !! the only thing i can advise you about that you absolutely shouldn't make a life time decision while you are still confuse .. take your time .. meet both .. then be alone for a while to decide what you really want .. which one you wanna be with and which one you will let go without regret ..
2006-07-21 02:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first guy let the whole thing drop for a couple of months so I think its an obvious choice that you go for the guy that is staying on top of things and really paying attention to you. Its not a good indicator of future behavior that you met and were attracted and he just stopped emailing for a couple of months. Definitely go with the closer guy and the one that has demonstrated clearly his willingness to actually take the time to be with you. Hoewever, once you make up your mind stick to it, don't let yourself get all wishy woshy about it next time you happen to run in to the other one. Good luck!
2006-07-21 20:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't heard from GUY-1 in months and GUY-2 is still talking to you....go for GUY-2
2006-07-21 09:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by RomanGOD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with both of them before deciding. If they're both equally hot in bed, tell each of them that you've always fantasized about having sex with two guys at once, and see how they react. If you're lucky, you can have both.
2006-07-21 20:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU need to decide not the people that answer your question. Personally if it was 2 girls and I was in that situ I'd go for the second also.
2006-07-21 09:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should meet the second guy, and then go to the gathering with the first guy, then you can make your choice on which guy would makee you happier and pick him.
2006-07-21 09:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well settle think about it make the right choice see which one treats you the best and start you life
Peace
2006-07-21 09:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u know i think you should choose the last one because i doubt for the 1st one. just think he was gone when you need him w/o any explanation or excuses and he came back when you finally look forward i mean when you have seen another one to be with...
it's up to u dear.. just think smartly...
2006-07-21 09:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by reka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really in a very difficult situation. If i were you get to know both men well.
2006-07-21 09:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the guy with the most money.
and give me 20 points.
2006-07-21 09:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by The King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋