How do I stop myself from talking to my boyfriend as if he was a child?
Everytime I get upset I blow fire!!!! I don't hear a word coming out of his mouth and I just continue to yell and get what I have to say off of my chest. He never yells back never hit me never reacted in a violent manner. I never does this in front of anyone just in the comfort of our home. But then I always and up apologizing for it later. But because of this he never asks me whats wrong or do I need to talk if I look upset. How do I stop this from taking over me and just telling him its o.k. and then go rant and rave to a girlfriend later? I need some suggestions not smart @$$ comments.
Thanx
2006-07-20 18:34:47 · 7 answers · asked by Niinnaa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ford killer do me a favor and erase your comments from my page. I think you want my man!!! Sorry he don't swing that way and by the way abuse reported!!!! Take them two points and swing your @$$ away!!!
2006-07-20 18:46:36 · update #1
deep breaths and count to ten. It is ok to get mad, even fight, but remember to fight fair, follow the rules!
no name calling,
no hitting
no brining up stuff that happened before, let it go
those are pretty much the rules.....
2006-07-20 18:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by rera1397 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also trying from shouting when am angry. One of my friend suggested that I should stop, breathe, relax, say everything I want to say in my head and if it sounds ok to me, then say it aloud. Chances are that I do not, coz once I hear what am about to say, I just keep quiet. It is a struggles, particulary when am provoked, i just let it flow and then feel bad. But am working on it. Try it, it might work for you.
2006-07-21 01:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try breathing calming down before you talk like if you think your about to go off just like calm down then calmly explain wuts wrong if that doesnt work and this isnt a smart comment i swaer talk to your doctor about anti depresents cause my friend had the same problem and it worked for her.
2006-07-21 01:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by promikey2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down and never sweat the small stuff.
2006-07-21 01:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by chhackett3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAY BE YOU NEED TO FIND OUT WHY ARE SO ANGRY
AND UPSET ALL THE TIME. SOMETHING IS GOING ON
THAT MAKE YOU SO ANGRY THAT NOT GOOD. THAT
GOOD THAT HE DOSNT REACT BUT KEEP PUSHING
HIS BUTTON YOU MAY BE IN FOR BIG TROUBLE.
2006-07-21 01:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help you there but if it is of any confort I've been married 15 years and my wife still talks to me like if I were a child, I am used to it.
2006-07-21 01:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to dump this guy, he's doing some passive/agressive stuff to you, and that's mentally abusive...
2006-07-21 01:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋