This really sucks because I never wanted to be in that position ever again. I've become a pretty closed off emotional guy because of some bad relationship (verbally abusive selfish girl) that I broke off 4 months ago. I became better aquainted with a girl Ive known for awhile who admitted in the past that she had feelings for me. Well we started talking, and we've been spending more and more time together. We talk for hours on the phone until shes about to fall asleep. She always calls me at work randomly to see how my day is going. Today she even came over,cooked for me, did my dishes and reorganized my whole kitchen. We laugh for hours on end about the most random things, have nicknames for each other its great. Tonight is the first night I havent talked to her and I never realized how much I miss her. Its overwhelming. Its just hard to express my feelings because Im not good at that. I want to let her know how much I appreaciate her. Damn I miss her even more now.Anything I can do?
2006-07-20 18:32:49 · 4 answers · asked by sTRIKER 81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yep!! She likes you too. Girls do not just come to a guys home, cook dinner and REARRANGE their kitchen if they do not "like" them!! I would say she is hooked too!
Have Fun!! ; )
2006-07-20 18:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by candispassion.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you have a fear of her hurting you. You have a fear of her not hurting you. Let me break it down. You know the saying "our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate, but that we are powerful beyond measure". Its kinda like that. Success can be just as scary as failure,,,with success comes work whether it be in a relationship, work, whatever. You should give her a chance and not take your past dissapointments out on her. She is not your ex. You should show her you appreciate her by telling her how you feel. Dont be selfish like your ex girl...remember you know how it feels to feel unappreciated. You dont want to make anyone else feel like that. Open up your heart and live your life. good luck
2006-07-20 19:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wouldnt do all that stuff for u or spend so much time with you if she didnt feel the same way. GO FOR IT!!!!
2006-07-20 19:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously is into you so be brave and tell her about your feelings for her.
2006-07-20 18:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋