there's this really handsome boy that i like. he plays with my hair whenever we r around each other, he always comes 2 sit by me, he called me sexy, instead of waving when we c each other he comes and gives me a hug, and he carries my things 4 me, but i have been waiting 4 him 2 ask me out for about 3 months but he is always hooking up with other girls. His friend asked him if he wanted 2 go with me and he said no bcuz im not his type. i am so confused! i just want 2 stop thinking about him but i cant. please help me out here.
2006-07-20 18:46:38 · 15 answers · asked by ¢υтιє_ρα-тσσтιє 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've tried ignoring him and pretending like he's nothing 2 me but he never stops coming over 2 me and trying 2 start a conversation. i try 2 cut him off and i sometimes walk away while he's talking but he just wont stop. =(
2006-07-20 18:59:39 · update #1
He is one of those evil male creatures known as a "player."
This guy figured out early in life what girls like and how to wrap them around his finger. Then he figured out it was fun to try to have every girl he knew wrapped around his finger.
He's hooking up with other girls, so he's not too shy to ask you out. This is probably not what you want to hear, but he's just after your adoration. You may even be a "backup plan" to him if he gets bored. You aren't going to change a guy like this, so don't try, since you'll only make yourself miserable.
Unfortunately, it's really hard to forget a guy who makes you feel so special and does everything right. It's even really hard to forget when you know this in your head. My best advice is to stay away from him, as hard as that may be. You'll find someone who likes you for you, who you can love for himself as well as how he makes you feel.
2006-07-20 18:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by BB 5 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I been in your shoes before I got married.. See what he is doing is leading you on making you think that he likes you when he doesn't.. He is the type who just try to get every girl look his way and fall for him....But I was wondering was you right there when his friend ask him that?? Was his friend a guy b/c maybe his friend make like you?? If it was a girl that ask him that maybe she is trying to get him herself and make you stop liking him...But to be honest with you...I had liked this guy for 5 years we dated once, messed around a couple times when we wasn't dating and I thought that he was starting to like me and it ended up that he was only trying to get some!!! It took me forever to get over him b/c I love him....I am now married, and me and this guy is still friends, he is my best friend, he knows everything about me, I would tell him secrets and he would listen, I would tell him my problems and he would answer them...To this day, we still talk to each other... Some guys, you won't never stop thinking about, even when you grow old and you have grandkids, you might tell your grandkids about them!!! I know I sure do have a lot of stories to tell!!! Just remember what happens between you and this guy b/c your kids (if you have any) might have the same problems and be coming to you about it!!! Good Luck!!! :-)
2006-07-20 18:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by afinechic_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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If he's hooking up with other girls,
and says you are not his type,
then the attention he is giving you, has something to do with HIS EGO, and how you get all ooey gooey around him. He likes being worshiped by you.
Stop it. Don't give him the smiley flirty treatment, and see what he does.
Go carefully with this guy, he sounds like a player-heart-breaker to me.
Handsome guys school age have a blast dating lots of girls, and you could easily become just another notch on his belt...
I wouldn't waste another thought about this handsome sweet-talking "loser".
stw
;)
2006-07-20 18:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that this guy is one of those players. You know that new movie "John Tucker Must Die"? Well, he's like that guy. He loves to flirt with women. He just wants their attention and wants other women to make out with him. He's not serious. What he wants is attention and nothing more. He is using you! If he really was interested in you then he would do more than just flirt with you every day. Flirting may not necessarily mean that he "likes" you. He's just one of those big flirters. You need to move on and find the right guy! :)
2006-07-20 19:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up and just basically be honest about your feelings. Tell him you think about him or wonder about him. Which ever you prefer. And just kind of fetch him a little lie and say you heard from a silent source that should remain silent. That he liked you& listen for a response and go from there. But If you really like him just be totally honest and tell him. That way you wont waste anymore time thinking of him. I mean it does sound like he likes you. But it sounds like he tring to protect his reputation& he doesn't want his friends to know his true feelings for you. Be careful feelings could get hurt.
2006-07-20 19:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by lizaprz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes just trying 2 cover up his secret luv 4 u! if he isn't going 2 ask u out u make the first move!!! obviously u luv him 2!! lol good luck! <3 lot of luv!!
2006-07-20 18:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me.
and it went on for a year and a half.
i would try to not talk to him as much as you do now.
and find someone new.hes not worth your time when you could be with somebody who wants a real relationship with you.
2006-07-20 19:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by montena000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just playing you. Why would he flirt like that and then say he doesn't want to date you? Dont ket it bother you to much. Your soul mate is out there somewhere, you just have to wait for him.
2006-07-20 19:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Gemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If you aren't his type there isn't anything you can do. It sounds like he just likes to flirt. Move on and just forget about him and find someone that won't lead you on.
2006-07-20 18:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop that feeling.. ive been there before and its really hard.. waht i did was i went far from him .. i had a hard time forgeting him... but now after 7 years.. thank God i got over him.. for more tips go to http://pannga.com
2006-07-20 18:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋