we are happy together but he claims to have been happy with a prior who wants him back...maybe...but she doesn't know about me. i want him to tell her but i don't want him gone. any ideas?
2006-07-20 18:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by jb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am old enough
2006-07-20 18:52:12 · update #1
What you should do is talk to your boyfriend about it. See how he feels about whats going on. I'm sure that if you guys are meant to be together, then nothing can tear you appart. I believe in soul mates, and he may be your, don't give up. Be patiant. Things like this can take time, sometimes its best to let things work out for themselves with no interfearence, but sometimes its better to help things along. Talk to him. See what he wants to do, if he says anything about still wanting to be with the other chick then he probably still cares about her, even if he says he is happy with you, guys hate showing any sign of weakness, and admitting that he still cares about her will be considered a sign of weakness to him. I hope this helped.
2006-07-20 19:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Gemini 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Wow this is a kind of a classic situtaion right here, i think you should first of all get to know this prior and see if shes ok (i mean her attitude, if shes type of women that only get him to loev her just to break your heart) second i think you should consider that this guy still loevs you, i mean as a guy i mean this: guys always change their views you know? i mean one month he lieks you, but the other he might get tired of you and find new love, and when he and her are in a great acquaintance he dumps you and starts hitting on her, but i think until now if nothing weird goes on youre safe but you should still be with him 24/7 to see whats going on
2006-07-21 01:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Hardy2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gal. you are in for heartache. My advise run while you still can or if you still can. Although it might seem obvious to others that you should get out . I understand that you are in love. But remember love is blind, shake yourself a little, take your head out of the clouds and look at the situation clearly and you would see you are in a mess you need to get out off. I hope you make the best choice you can make.
Good luck
2006-07-21 02:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Floating on air. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still has feelings for the ex, he doesn't have feelings for you. I think he's using you to get over her. He is going to break your heart, let him know how you feel right away. It's better to know the truth then be with someone who is still stuck on his ex.
2006-07-21 01:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE FACT THAT HE HAS NOT TOLD HER THAT HE WITH
YOU, THAT A PROBLEM RIGHT THERE. AND I WOULD LIKE
TO KNOW WHY THAT IS, TO TELL YOU HE WAS HAPPY WITH
SOME ONE ELSE. HE GOT LOT DAM NERVE.
2006-07-21 01:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
i doubt old enough
you are smitten.. but not in love
be prepared for disappointment and heartache
2006-07-21 01:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be prepared for the worst...
being label as the mistress...
the 3rd person . .
it's gonna be tough !
2006-07-21 01:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by megadisc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋