when you break a guy's heart like say...you dumped him for various reasons, do you feel bad about it and pity the guy or do you think that he is a total loser and just want to hurt him more and make him more jelous? and when he crys over u do you feel bad or you just think that he is weak and stupid? do you treasure all those good times that you guys shared or do you think that it was a complete waste of time and pretend that you never loved him. will you still stick by his side during hard times or just watch and laugh untill he shatters?
2006-07-20 18:53:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never dumped anyone, and as far as I know, haven't broken anyone's heart. If I have without meaning to, I feel bad about it and hope he will get over it.
2006-07-20 18:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive always been the one with the broken heart lol you know I dont think anyone should let pride get in the way of matters of the heart ..I wouldnt take u crying as a sign of weakness .. I would think you really loved me and regretted whatever it was that u done to make me leave you ..everyone deserves a second chance we all make mistakes..if I couldnt find it in my heart to forgive you then id hope we could still be friends ..I wouldnt play games with your emotions to me 2 wrongs dont make anything right ..I wouldnt pretend id never met you either I try not to have regrets ..obviously if im with u it was cuz i liked the person you was ..Im not a spiteful person so i think i would treasure the time we did have together ..some women are devious and want revenge which i guess i dont blame them but to me it prolongs the feelings its easier to walk away with a lil pride lol I like to keep it simple no reason to complicate things ..maybe its time you let her go hun if its meant to be she will come back ? I hope it all works out for you love hurts ..all u can do is learn from your mistakes ?
2006-07-21 02:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel bad about hurting him and would not want to cause him any more pain. Unless of course he did something crappy to get dumped in the first place, in which case I could care less how he felt. And I think most girls do treasure the good times. If the relationship was quite long, it would be pretty hard to pretend that you never cared about him or that it was a waste of time.
2006-07-21 01:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone that is decent would not want to hurt you. Even when I broke up with my ex of 8 years, I hoped the best for him.
Sometimes I still remember good times we had.
I think some people do play games and don't know how to act when they break up with someone. Ive seen girls be mean to an ex. They are confused and immature.
Hang in there... I believe there isn't only one love in a lifetime.
2006-07-21 02:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cara B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of a guy he is. if he is a player/ cheater, he doesnt deserve the girl. if he isn't, and he's really sweet and caring, i would stand by his side and treasure all those good times i had. i would cry remembering all those times, possibly even a heartache i guess. but he can't be tooo weak or expect US to take care of him. that's when i would pity him and not feel bad for him and make him jealous but im pretty sure that we feel guilty at the back of our heads though.
2006-07-21 01:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweetcinnamon92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the answer to your question depends upon three basic factors; the situation, the circumstances and the two people involved. Each relationship is different, each human emotion is diverse, every individual is unique and every problem is complex.
Nevertheless, few women experience enjoyment when having destroyed a mans innermost. And though tears can signify venerability they can also be the forecast of a ranging tempest. Hard times shall come and if there is true love in the relationship they shall also pass.
Yet, my question to you is, was she the only one to blame for the pain you harbor. . .?
Would you care to consider it?
2006-07-21 02:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
breaking a mans heart depends on the girl. But ultimately, she breaks up with you for either reason: she doesnt like you or is fed up with you or she has other things in her mind--other men perhaps. and no we dont think that a guy is weak and stupid when guys cry because of us.
2006-07-21 01:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by tshingk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all women are out to hurt men - in fact, in many cases it's the men who hurt women. I certainly don't want to hurt anyone and have never intended to do so, but I'm sure somewhere along the line I've done it. I didn't rub it in or try to make it worse - the things that had to be said or done were done and then that was it.
2006-07-21 01:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never feel good about breaking any body's heart. the only way i break up with someone is if i am treated totally like crap and cant take it anymore. But if the guy is nice and shows they truly care about me, i would never break there heart...never.
2006-07-21 02:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by maddy_r_9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys aren't the only ones that hurt even if we break up with you it still hurts us but sometimes we are mean about it cause we dont want to show you guys that we are hurting to, and as a female I think all of us try to make our ex's jelouis.
2006-07-21 02:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋