Family & Relationships - 19 July 2006

My partner and I live in South Africa. He is going to university in the USA for one year and since we are not married I am not legible for an F2 dependant visa and therefore cannot go with him. He says that he does not want to marry me to keep the US bureaucrats happy. I will have to return to my country of birth since we are vacating the house we have been renting. he does should I continue with him even it is clear that he has no intention of formalising our relationship? Should I trust a person who is obviously willing for us to be separated instead of getting married so we can stay togeather? Does he love me? What do I do? It is a very difficult situation for me, my heart is broken into pieces, please anyone that can advise!!

2006-07-19 01:09:22 · 8 answers · asked by Isi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-19 01:09:03 · 14 answers · asked by dedenumba1 2 in Singles & Dating

and it's making me really uncomfortable. What shall i do???

2006-07-19 01:06:29 · 18 answers · asked by ???????????? 3 in Friends

should i say or do anything about it or let it be ?

2006-07-19 01:05:12 · 23 answers · asked by melaniemaillet3 1 in Singles & Dating

He's breathing. Bwaaahahahaha

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2006-07-19 01:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SHE İS HUNGARİAN İN ORİGİN BUT MAY BE AT CANADA OR THE STATES.HER NAME BOGLARKA MORİCZ OR SHE USESSES BOGİ MORİCZ SOMETİMES.SHE İS AROUND 28 OR 30 YEARS OLD. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME FİND HER

2006-07-19 01:04:27 · 1 answers · asked by MORTİCİA 4 in Friends

im engaged to a guy that i really love and he loves me but he tries to flirt with other people in front of me. i want him to stop but he said he isnt doing anything to stop so i want him to break up with me but he said no so how can i get him to and not feel guilty?

2006-07-19 01:02:55 · 34 answers · asked by deamon 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for nearly two years and have a daughter together. when we first got together he told me he would quit pot and cigs cos i wouldnt be with him otherwise. now i find out that he has started back up again and has hidden it from me.

what can i do to convince him to quit without threatening our relationship?

2006-07-19 01:00:09 · 14 answers · asked by -=the Queen of Squick=- 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and what happened? Did you succeed how you felt you would? Were you glad you followed your gut instinct?

2006-07-19 00:58:07 · 12 answers · asked by ☆l'ilmiss☆ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My last relationship was abusive, he was very controling and abusive. So how do I trust that the next one won't be like that one?

2006-07-19 00:57:23 · 6 answers · asked by Rainbow sky 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have just found out that my mate's grandfather has died 6 hours ago. I just don't known what to do ? I am having prombles my self. So does any one have some good tips.

2006-07-19 00:56:40 · 6 answers · asked by vicky 3 in Friends

i have one child.but i am not together with the father of the child.we SEPERATED.But i am wondering wheather i will get the right man.will the man accept me with one child????????Please help me

2006-07-19 00:55:44 · 17 answers · asked by Abi nana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I get him to stop? I know he is depressed due to a friends' suicide about a year ago- but he refuses counciling and when i made him go the councelor told him to come back when he was ready to do the "Work". He also refuses to take antidepressants- he hates the side effects.(he has tried several diff ones)I dont know how to help him. I try to "be there" for him to talk (but I'm his mom and he rarely wants to talk to me- i think he thinks i was never his age)and i make sure he has access to others to talk to- friends via the phone, computer, youth pastor, school councelor and teachers he is close to- he even has their home phone. (by the way in sept. I'm scared he wont go back to school)

2006-07-19 00:55:05 · 8 answers · asked by sick of it all 2 in Family

2006-07-19 00:55:02 · 17 answers · asked by Lusty God 2 in Singles & Dating

His always rejecting me. Im fit, good looking and always very pamper...I really love him, but it is becoming a very painfull situation. How I can Improve our lives?

2006-07-19 00:54:54 · 12 answers · asked by mash06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When i am around girls i like, i get very nervous, i find it hard not to look at them. If they r wearing a skirt its even harder. This makes me nerous as i dont know where to look. When their is a really nice girl in the room i find it hard to concentrate on anything else, eg. TV or whatever. I always feel slightly turned on around girls so maybe this contributes as all of the blood is flowing downwards! Some girls i am relaxed around naturally, eg. close friends, some of whom i am attracted to, so the question is, how do i relax around girls that i like, so that they wont think im wierd??

2006-07-19 00:54:39 · 8 answers · asked by sefse s 1 in Singles & Dating

why they force 2 chat any one having same problem

2006-07-19 00:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by indian beauty 4 in Friends

i texted him once but he hasnt replied yet. it has been 6 hours since i texted him. im confused.

2006-07-19 00:53:35 · 8 answers · asked by divalicious 2 in Singles & Dating

Im not realy depressed. Just lonely. I know God loves me but why are women soo cruel and picky online. I feel like im being treated by women the way guys treat fat women. And im not fat im not ugly. Im a single whos not 6 feet tall. Gezz this world sux.

2006-07-19 00:52:14 · 17 answers · asked by tfh777 1 in Singles & Dating

apartment, duplex, or house to live in. I can never find a good website for this. Can anybody tell me MORE than one??? I put it under this subject b/c it gets a lot of action and there was no where to put this one.

2006-07-19 00:52:06 · 2 answers · asked by Ally, THAT girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-19 00:51:05 · 5 answers · asked by sume 2 in Family

Maybe you can teach me how to be a nicer person

2006-07-19 00:48:29 · 11 answers · asked by alzghiasi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this girlfriend of mine.. who's very sweet and stuff.. BUT
she's very stingy.. actually I commute by ma own car.. and she uses public transport.. so she alwys wants a lift.. twice is ok.. but.. everyday it gets annoyin.. i like my space!

and at school, she's always like.. please lend me 5 bucks.. 20 bucks.. n she doesn't even bother to return em.. yeah i tried askin .. n' she does sum crap.. n i fall for it..

n i' jus wanna get rid of her at the moment.. b4 i turn in2 a beggar!

2006-07-19 00:47:51 · 20 answers · asked by ~ 1 in Friends

they say that they are just friends but she sends him stuff knowing that it bothers me and it says that she loves him and he says it back and then he compares me to her and tells her when we are fighting never have i seen him tell her how much he loves me and that he is glad that we are married... this has been going on for a year and we have only been married a year and now im 5 months pregnant.... it makes me feel like im second best to her and that he loves her more then he loves me and our baby to be... please email and tell me what yal think @ chick_101_14@yahoo.com thank you... im thinking of leaving him for a while so he can figure out which one is more important to him the past or the future of his only child.

2006-07-19 00:46:48 · 12 answers · asked by MaRrIeDmAmA2005 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Aren't there any rules or guidelines in a relationship? Whats up w/ people who want sex and want it kept 'undefined' and why do they screw w/ people who are looking for that last relationship?

2006-07-19 00:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

Like discover

2006-07-19 00:44:50 · 16 answers · asked by Thushad 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there a time limit on when you should express your feelings?

2006-07-19 00:44:40 · 10 answers · asked by Tee 3 in Singles & Dating

one of them is getting ready to leave for iraq in october and the other one comes home from iraq in september. i am not currently going out with either one of them but i would like to hand write a letter to each of them but i dont know what to write about. i do know that even though i am not going out with either one of them if something were to happen to either on of them im not sure what i would do. even though i have only met one of them once and i have never met the other one.

2006-07-19 00:43:59 · 3 answers · asked by Simon is 16months 3 in Singles & Dating

Do I leave him now that I am working again though still under probation?

2006-07-19 00:41:32 · 17 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-19 00:41:03 · 2 answers · asked by manish k 1 in Singles & Dating