there's this girlfriend of mine.. who's very sweet and stuff.. BUT
she's very stingy.. actually I commute by ma own car.. and she uses public transport.. so she alwys wants a lift.. twice is ok.. but.. everyday it gets annoyin.. i like my space!
and at school, she's always like.. please lend me 5 bucks.. 20 bucks.. n she doesn't even bother to return em.. yeah i tried askin .. n' she does sum crap.. n i fall for it..
n i' jus wanna get rid of her at the moment.. b4 i turn in2 a beggar!
2006-07-19 00:47:51 · 20 answers · asked by ~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no nono.. i don't want u guys to tell me what she is.. i want u to advise me .. as to how to get away from her !
2006-07-19 00:58:21 · update #1
n' i'm not a guy.. 100% girl.. oh eyah.. she also keeps saying that i'm her best friend.. n crap
2006-07-19 00:59:06 · update #2
gee.. I'v tried everything.. but she's liek glue.. man!.. even my driver is annoyed by her now.. she keeps checking ma wallet. .. how can i say i have no money??!
2006-07-19 01:01:45 · update #3
she's quiite popular n stuff.. not like am not.. but the thing is.. its hard for me to stay things like this.. so i'd jus ignore.. but she still duzn leave me alone! =((
2006-07-19 01:08:58 · update #4
Friendship is a give and take relationship, but from what you have indicated above, she takes without giving.
I would have a serious talk with her (it might end up being the last one you have with her) telling her that and that she needs to pay you back the money she has borrowed (and set a reasonable date that you expect to have the money by) and that while you may not mind taking her to school occassionally (when you invite her to come with you that is) that you like your space to chill before getting to school. If she is truly your friend, she will care about how you feel, respect your feelings and try to work things out. If not, then she is not your friend and better to find that out sooner than later.
2006-07-19 00:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do dislike when people are like that. I an not the sweetest peron on earth but I also know i do not compete for popularity. Therefore whenever i feel like my space is invaded and i feel uncomfortable i just talk staright with the person. If the person gets upset.. I dont worry.. means she was only using me or my properties or anything else she was using.If the person is a real friend..she will understand your point and treat it in a mature way..accepting your need to feel comfortable in any friendship relation. As long as there is always an annoying feel about a friendship.. what is the point of having one...rather lose it.
2006-07-19 07:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using u for ur money. For about a week or so u should use public transport and go to school with very little money, and if she asks tell her that u don't have any. (that would be the truth). and see if she treats you the same. If she does not treat u well then u will know that she is a user not a friend.
2006-07-19 07:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by sherrylboodramhot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have alot of trouble telling people that kind of stuff also.
I would just ignore her the best you can, if she asks for a ride just say "I rather not" if she asks why tell her that you prefer this time to your self. Just give her the cold shoulder. If she asks any more questions answer with a question say were is the money you owe me? If she comes up with the crap BS just walk away. Good Luck wish I could help you more
2006-07-19 08:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
User! Tell her how you feel and if she is a friend respect you as a friend not as a bank. don't let her talk you into anymore loans and see how long she hangs around. As for the rides, tell her she needs to up some money for gas if she's ridin' she should be payin' too it isn't cheap nowadays.
2006-07-19 07:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
User
2006-07-19 07:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a user. I have ask friends to lend me money. But i give it back as some as possible (thats a couple of days).
I feel sorry for you to have a user friend.
2006-07-19 08:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell this to her, and maybe she will get the message, if she is a true friend then she will understand and give you space, if she is a user, then she will be a ********* about it and go off in a mood.
it will be hard telling it to her straight, but it will be worth knowing if she is a true friend in the end.
good luck xox
2006-07-19 07:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just a user man.
these ppl suck.
They leech off ppl.
I willl round up some others who have similar problems with her and confront her.
2006-07-19 07:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Xanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, why not just say NO!!!! She can not force you to do any of the things you have been doing for her and if you do not want to do these things...say NO! Let her take it anyway she likes.
2006-07-19 08:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋