His always rejecting me. Im fit, good looking and always very pamper...I really love him, but it is becoming a very painfull situation. How I can Improve our lives?
2006-07-19 00:54:54 · 12 answers · asked by mash06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is on medication he may not be able to keep it up so that he can have sex. This is very embarrassing to a man and he may be unable to talk with you about it easily. There may be ways the Dr. can help if the medication is what is making him unable to have sex. Men and women can have sex all their lives if they are healthy. Gently talk to him to find out if that is the problem or if it is something else letting him know that you are not judging him.
2006-07-19 01:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by # one 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please... for Godness sake, please spare your husband who is on medication and unfit for sex. You as his wife should be tolerance and patience with his situation which he himself doesn't wish to be in this sorry situation. How could you still have fantasy imagination of having sex with yr husband who is unfit for sex?
You know you are fit and healthy and if you can't tolerance your urge for sex, please purchase a sex toy and do it yourself. This way at least will satisfy you a while and it won't hurt your husband greatly - at least you will not do any cheating behind him.
Bear in mind - you are 40 and by this age, you should carefully look every single parts of your body in front of the mirror and ask yourself which part should be improved and more firmer? Remember, once age is cathing up, there is no way to beat those young chicks who has young & beautiful physical than you. Take this opportunity to build up your stamina and stop complaining your agony.
Your husband is more agony than you - at least you are still able to enjoy your life without any medication. Think people's feeling before you act selfishness!
2006-07-19 09:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok he's on stong pain medication so that must mean he's in alot of pain.. how about having compasion for your husband who is in pain, and probably knocked out half of the time from the strong pain medicine, i doubt he wants to be in pain, im sure he wishes that he wasnt so he could be everything u want him to be.. but right now he's hurting and i think your being alittle selfish considering that.. For the moment id find different means to take care of yourself .. in that way.. a battery operated way or something.. but give him a break he's not 17 anymore and he's in pain..
2006-07-19 08:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to spice things up such as sexy lingerie, ask him to get you off, or let him watch you masterbate, that may stimulate him, or suggest you take a lover while he watches. Those things and viagra may help, if not keep trying, have his testrone level checked by a doctor, he may have a lower level due to medications.
2006-07-19 08:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a problem with his health,maybe that strong medication prevent him from having sex. i think that if this situation refers to his health,then you should be a good wife and be patient. if he just doesn't want to have sex with you,or if he is incapable of doing it,or if he doesn't like you,then you should discuss with each other or council with a doctor.
2006-07-19 08:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by tttpsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r 2 old 2 improve your life calm down!
2006-07-19 08:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the live is not sweet with out sex, so we have to find out the alternative solution to change our live . have to be patience for the rest of your live , or divorce is final solution
2006-07-19 08:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by hani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and seduce a young stud in his 20's. then you when your hubby mentions sex just tell him its ok, I understand your not feeling well.
2006-07-19 08:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex toys
2006-07-19 08:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try me
2006-07-19 08:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋