When i am around girls i like, i get very nervous, i find it hard not to look at them. If they r wearing a skirt its even harder. This makes me nerous as i dont know where to look. When their is a really nice girl in the room i find it hard to concentrate on anything else, eg. TV or whatever. I always feel slightly turned on around girls so maybe this contributes as all of the blood is flowing downwards! Some girls i am relaxed around naturally, eg. close friends, some of whom i am attracted to, so the question is, how do i relax around girls that i like, so that they wont think im wierd??
2006-07-19 00:54:39 · 8 answers · asked by sefse s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lose your virginity maybe!!!
2006-07-19 00:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Pratice talking to the girl that make you get nervous. Only way to get over a fear is to meet it face to face. Ya it sounds scary but if you really want to get over your nervousness then go talk to them. Do it until you feel comfortable. Just a simple hi and smile to start off. Then you can talk more and ask questions to them when you feel a little better.
Practice makes perfect.
2006-07-19 01:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look them in the eye. It's not a terrible thing to check them out though...women expect you to. Just don't be all retarded about it by staring at their body parts. Get a little glance, but focus on their eyes.
2006-07-19 01:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try taking the focus on what they look like. Look them in the eye and actually listen to what they're saying instead of checking them out. Focus on words...I know it sounds cheesy, but maybe it will keep you from getting so worked up.
2006-07-19 00:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by ladyrn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRLS DON'T BITE...JUST BE UR NATURAL SELF...NEXT TIME U START GETTING NERVOUS,JUST THINK THERE R A FEW GIRLS WHO MAY BE GETTING NERVOUS AROUND U 2...
2006-07-19 01:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breath...talk to them...then u'll figure out ur not really attracted to them, a passing phase...ur thinkin all this,not doin anythin to help urself about it-thus far gettin paranoid.
relax, u'l get over it...
2006-07-19 00:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to learn it from ur friend. i dont knw either but my boyfriend told me that he used to be like u before.
2006-07-19 00:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
V.I.R.G.I.N.
2006-07-19 01:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Genesis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋