i have one child.but i am not together with the father of the child.we SEPERATED.But i am wondering wheather i will get the right man.will the man accept me with one child????????Please help me
2006-07-19 00:55:44 · 17 answers · asked by Abi nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are some men who don't like children, others don't care and like you for who you are. But I think you will find (Mr. Right Likes Kids) out there for you. Just don't stop looking for him and even then in the worst of times and no-one turns up maybe he will find you. Just let fate handle the situation...it'll make sure you find him. Besides...it's one child, you don't have to worry about 3 (just yet) :) He'll love you and your child no matter how old the child is, if he doesn't than he's not the right man.
Good Luck:)
2006-07-19 01:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by angelsent_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, my dad raised us 5 kids by himself. The youngest one now is 14. Would you believe me if I told you he is engaged to a woman with 4 YOUNG kids??? And she was just seperated at the time they got together. Believe it or not, there are good guys out there. 1 kid should mean nothing. Just be patient.Do not feel like you need someone in your life. things take time, especially relationships. Kids can always sense good/evil in a person.. so make sure they like the person you're going to date also! And husband?? Hun, whose talking about marriage!! Date around!!!! Don't SETTLE for the first guy that shows you affection...
" Don't settle for the one you can live WITH..
WAIT for the one you can't live WITHOUT"
2006-07-19 08:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ally, THAT girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man had is made for u will always love no matter what, he always see u as the newest thing on this planet called earth. He will love u like never ur past life will not prevent him from not loving u.
Love has nothing to do with past history but he cares on how to build new memories that will be greater than our past life
2006-07-19 08:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Saint J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for him, it'll just happen. Focus on raising your child the best you can. It is 2006, many men except the fact that women have a child already, and many are great fathers to those children. Good luck
2006-07-19 07:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got a lovely man now and when we met he knew i already had a child with another man. now he treats my child as his own, i should know cuz we went on 2 have a child ourselves & he treats both exactly the same. put it this way, a man worth having will accept u 4 who u r & the child that comes with u.
2006-07-19 08:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, It depends upon the kind of man u r going to marry..Before marrying anybody its good that u discuss with him about all ur expectaions and tell as to how u really want ur man to be like...so that u get to expereience true love and u can avoid things which happened to u before....Pray god that u find a really nice preson who accepts ur child and who takes good care of u..all the best sweety...make it a point that this will be ur last marriage because breaking marriages does not do good to u in future...take care
2006-07-19 08:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmh......this is tricky. I dont know of many men who will readily accept a lady with a kid who isnt theirs....seriously.
So. work on your strong points, are u wife-material? are u considerate? loving? honest? can u cook? or are u the moody type, narcisstic, nasty, always complaining.
if u cultivate good values, a man can overlook your baby. If not. I dont think so.
Secondly, it WONT 'just happen' you need to to make it happen.
2006-07-19 08:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by mike w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abi it's a life, and what happend to is a part of life, yeah I think there will be someone for you, may be it'll take sometime, so for while don't worry but take care of your child and yourself
2006-07-19 08:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will get your rigth husband if you have the right attitude having a child doesn't mean that you are not a nice person are doesn't mean that a nice guy will not accept you, there are many nice guy ouy there that are willing to accept you for who you are and accept your child and love him as his own.
2006-07-19 08:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think postive, life is not that bad,all men r not the same. There is a special man waiting for you, but your are not looking hard enough. Look around U will find him
2006-07-19 08:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by DHRUV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋