should i say or do anything about it or let it be ?
2006-07-19 01:05:12 · 23 answers · asked by melaniemaillet3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm next time just ask if you can help him with it. Guys are going to do it no matter what. Just chill out and help him.
2006-07-19 01:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alrouah has it all wrong! You should cheer him on. Tell him how good he looks sitting there and offer to help. Maybe you can both go solo side-by side while looking at the good videos.
Lighten up!!
2006-07-19 08:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen ITS NOT A BIG DEAL. unless he does it for hours on end. guys snap their carrots to internet porn all the time....as long as he doesn't spend hundreds of dollars and he is not looking at illegal content.simply ask him if there are any issues with your sexual relationship and if he is not into some freaky fetish like pain or taboo, let him have his masturbation time. If you can't get past it.then you may have bigger issues.
2006-07-19 08:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you say something, but realize that sometimes it's better not to say anything. Talk with him and maybe it will end up enhancing what you have together. Fantasy is a real part of sex!
Don't close your mind to alternatives.
2006-07-19 08:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Redeft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much it bothers you. If this is something that really gets under your skin, then say something, if it doesn't then let it be. My boyfriend use to do that until he saw me one day on the computer doing the same thing. It appears he stopped.
2006-07-19 08:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are going to that. Don't worry and don't have a fight about... It will just complicate matters. But if you want him to know that its pointless then turn his attention to you! I know if my GF knew all my secret desires and turn ons and was comfortable helping me...then those kind of sites would have no effect.
2006-07-19 08:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he was looking at naked ladies, who cares... everyone looks at some type of porn.. dont take it to the extreme level and starting a fight over it, its not worth it...its not like hes web caming with someone or anything..hes just looking at porn...i mean, pfftt, porn never hurt nobody...
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2006-07-19 08:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by velvet b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if he's in a relationship with you ....ideally he shldnt be browsing porn sites and going solo.......it makes you wonder if your relationship isnt exciting enough ........but knowing men....they'd do something horny like this anyways.....so i think u could either do a reality check in terms of your relationship and take it on from there or just ignore this incident as one of your man's frivolous hobbies.
2006-07-19 08:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are really like that...if you don't like him watching those things..let him know and maybe he'll try do avoid those sites...if he really can't..then just let it be...it's also hard for them to stop going there coz it's nature for them..my guy friends even talk about those sites and they know that we don't like it..so they talk about it in another time...if he can't stop what he's used to then let him do it in the appropriate time and place...
2006-07-19 08:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by katie_kinz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who?? Your husband?
if it was your husband, and you feel strongly about it then you should confront him and tell him that you don't approve. I don't think its that big of a deal though. A man is going to do that regardless if you want him to or not.
2006-07-19 08:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by jagerchick80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋