Im not realy depressed. Just lonely. I know God loves me but why are women soo cruel and picky online. I feel like im being treated by women the way guys treat fat women. And im not fat im not ugly. Im a single whos not 6 feet tall. Gezz this world sux.
2006-07-19 00:52:14 · 17 answers · asked by tfh777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because people online do not get to KNOW you personally. Never try and find someone online. Try around in your area. Because most people know you and they know about you. Online people don't even do that. Example- have you ever talk with someone for a few months then all of the sudden you do not hear from them for about a month and when you talk to them again they don't know who you are and ask you the same question that they did before? But let me tell you there are some people online line looking for the same thing as you but it would be hard to get connected to them. Because you don't know who they are and they don't know who you are. Because most of these people are working full hours, morning, noon, night. It is difficult. Remember that most women on the net are these young girls who do not know what they want. They don't take the TIME to find out that you are a good guy. So take your time but try to find someone not on the internet.
You are not the only one being treated badly, I get online and would be talking to a guy telling me that he is openminded, nice, don't care about looks and don't care about the color of your skin but would BEG to see me (but remember he said he does not care how people looks) and as soon as he does see he quickly close the window to my cam and stops talking to me. Do you see what i am talking about.
Then there are those that will say anything to SEE you and when they do they want you to take off your clothes, when you refuse they close your cam, and stop talking to you. These people do not want decent people they only want nasty ones. (The majority of people on the net are people who are not looking for decent people so it is not wise to try to find anyone on the net. And you are right this world does suck for good people.
2006-07-19 01:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably sense your vulnerability (it shows in your question like a neon sign). You probably (to them) appear near-desperate to find someone. Remember, by doing this, or appearing too, you put the control in their hands, and (to them) give up your masculinity. Remember there are more single women out there than men. They're like buses,.....if you miss one....there'll be another one along shortly. Just go out there with the attitude of having fun and spending some time. Try to be less open, and more self assured and independant.......not desperate. Don't treat it like you're on a mission to find a mate or they'll sense your vulnerability and desperatness like a dog senses fear in someone and attacks. Be "The MAN" for them, always maintain composure, self control, and a male take - charge attitude without being rude, controling, or a pr*ck. Don't go out there with the idea of finding someone and you won't be disapointed. If you do find someone...GREAT. If not, well, you had fun anyway. Ask yourself, If these women are as nice as they seem, or claim....why are they without a man??? Aren't you really looking for a #1 grade among the culls? You would probably do more research, or take more time buying a "used" car, wouldn't you? If a salesman takes you over to a car, shows it to you, and you want to take it, or buy it right there, without getting in it, or trying it, he'll loose respect for you, treat you like a SUCKER....and take you to the cleaners.
Good Luck........hope this helps some!
2006-07-19 09:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen... who cares what people say? Online it is very subjective. There are all kinds of people on here. You have to take the good with the bad. You should thank those people that are rude for being themselves in the beginning so you know how horrible they are now and do not waste your time. Quit worrying about it. Just be yourself and the perfect one will come along. Be patient.
2006-07-19 07:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Miriah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think so negative all the time? thats your problem. Think positive about yourself. Don't let women be cruel to you either. Find ways to change your. Check out a site like this 1:
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2006-07-19 07:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are so picky online because you get a lot of morons online. if you are acting desperate then you won't get anyone. be yourself and someone should come along!
If you still can't find people on the net then maybe you should try looking around your area when you are out and stuff, it should be better for you as well.
good luck
2006-07-19 07:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who stomped all over you? You have no self-esteem, no sense of self-worth. You should not be looking for a woman to feel good about yourself or your life. What has height got to do with anything???? Until you know yourself and like yourself, no woman will either. We can sense desperation in a man a mile away.
2006-07-22 00:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop acting like your r from another planet.Show care n respect 4 women n they will do the same.
2006-07-19 07:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by DHRUV 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate pittyful men like you without no personality.. Stop acting like a desperate ... no woman is obliged to give you her pity ....online? GEEZ!! Get a life man!
2006-07-19 07:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont generalize it. im a woman and i cant say that im cruel. im here to answer questions as sincerely as i can and i just want to help people.
not all women are cruel. some do care.... and im one of them.
2006-07-19 09:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody loves me much either. They only love me for awhile at nights.
p.s. God is a jerk
2006-07-19 07:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lusty God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋