Aren't there any rules or guidelines in a relationship? Whats up w/ people who want sex and want it kept 'undefined' and why do they screw w/ people who are looking for that last relationship?
2006-07-19 00:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy to fall in love because as individuals, we all want that storybook romance. The reality is as a couple you have to work together and the working together shouldnt stop once you two decide your in love. This is where people mess up the most. You have to ALWAYS work to maintain your relationship. Love is NOT enough to do that. As far as the people that aren't looking for love or a relationship and want to get their groove on.....why the hell not??
2006-07-19 00:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"It takes no time to fall in love. Yet it takes years to know what love is" -- Jason Mraz.
Falling in love is really a feeling that can just happen. You can't blame anyone who falls in love. Even married people CAN fall in love with other people. But when you're talking about a relationship ... commitment comes into the equation. And sticking to such a commitment at times like this is one of the most challenging things. That's why it's difficult to maintain.
Not impossible. But difficult nonetheless. :)
2006-07-19 00:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by DrDents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing u are a lady. For a man, sex can be as 'undefined' as possible, men for the most part DO NOT need a context to have sex, just provide a place and a meeting. Ladies like sex in a context, ie are we in a relationship? Sex is more relational in ladies. In men its more recreational. No strings attached.
Secondly, if u screw too fast, u will terminate the relationship, coz the physical always alters things. Dont be in a rush to pleas a man, it means u have little going inside your head.
Work on the talk, talk and talk, synchronize values, talk more.
so that sex bonds u together, not separates you.
Wonna know how? If a guy has sex with u and NEVER wants to call u after say (one week) just to talk. then it was purely physical.
For those tight couples there are moments of purely physical sex, but ladies find it v. v. v. hard to do it 'just for its own sake.'
2006-07-19 00:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by mike w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of times for some people, never for others, it depends on the person and their capacity to love and be loved. Yes, I do believe you can truly fall in love more than once. Falling in love comes naturally so it is very easy if the right person comes along at the right time with the right looks, personality, and chemistry Falling out of love is easy if you no longer like the person, forcing yourself to fall out of love because it is a unrequited love situation is one of the most difficult, heart-wrenching things that a person could do. Every time I have ever fallen in love it has been an experience unto itself, incomparable to any other experience. I have fallen in love (head over heels) 4 times.
2016-03-16 01:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is something both parties has to want and to work at.. some men and some women just think about today and what will make them happy...whether it be a sexual fling or whatever.. that is not the way it is suppose to be at all...and you find out down the line that they act like they care but then they do not want the commitment.. and someone gets hurt...you can think everything is fine and just all of a sudden they have changed and you are not wanted or needed anymore...i do not understand especially when a person is upfront from the beginning.. i guess some just gets enjoyment out of hurting someone, i hope i explained the way i feel about this right...
2006-07-19 00:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hello babe its a me. In a relationship there are no rules... you just wing it. Hold off on the sexd until the time is right. Hold strong babe. Its so hard to find someone "worth" your time but you will. Just be yourself and stop lookiong for girls in all the wrong places. Put a little wall around that heart of yours. Stop giving it away so easy. Take time to love yourself... when you do that J. than someone worth loving will love you back.
xoxo F.
2006-07-19 00:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Punky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like me.. i fall in love easily but it's so hard to maintain a relationship and everytime i have to be hurt. i kinda get sick of fallin in love somehow. i used to believe in true love which last forever but not anymore now.
2006-07-19 00:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy to fall in love coz u dont use ur brains wen u fall in love..and t maintain a relationship u either end up using too much of ur brains
2006-07-19 00:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, a relationship is like a dance. You must know when to lead and when to let others lead; when to seize the opportunity and when to let go.
People who want sex don't want a relationship unless u r His professional hooker.
2006-07-19 00:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Xanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not dance, 'plants'. Relationships require patience and care. Too much water; they drown, not enough; they dry up
2006-07-19 00:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Dutch58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋