Family & Relationships - 17 July 2006

I have known this girl for about a year and she is an average nice caring and loving girl. age is 22. She always wants me to come to her house and hang for a bit while her BF is there. I have done it once and I dont feel comfortable with that cause I wouldn't like that if my gf does that. I mean she is datting me while she has a BF.

I am not sure what to do. I like her and would love to spend time with her but I dont want to mess up someones relashionship.

What do u think I should do? Thanks!

2006-07-17 08:22:17 · 3 answers · asked by boygenis 3 in Singles & Dating

even if you never participated, just to see what the fuss was about?

2006-07-17 08:21:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do black men consider black women to be sell outs if they date/marry someone who isn't black?
Do white men consider white women to be sell outs if the date/marry someone who isn't white?

2006-07-17 08:21:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The teenage son wants to stay with them for the school year. He is 14 years old, his mom lives in N. Carolina. When he is in North Carolina, he lives with his stepdad who is separated from his mom. He sees his mom on weekends.
We are in California, how can my friend get a temporary order so he doesn't have to return before the hearing? How can they get a hearing? Are they going to have to pay for a lawyer? He has been here 4 weeks, and Mom agreed to a visitation even though it was not in the court order. He will be here 6 weeks in August before he leaves.
Your help is much appreciated! Thank you.

2006-07-17 08:21:30 · 3 answers · asked by Gothic Martha™ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 08:20:40 · 20 answers · asked by K 2 in Friends

wait, do u beleive in waiting till she is ready

2006-07-17 08:20:33 · 34 answers · asked by covergirl1303 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 08:20:29 · 15 answers · asked by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 in Family

Last summer, he left one day and said he was going to work. He never came home, and several days later, I found out he was living with another girl. When I finally talked to him, he said we were 'broken up.' News to me. After a couple of months, he came back, said he missed me and our daughter, etc. Our son was born in March, and in June, he left again. Now he has come back again. I know things aren't going to get better, and I feel less stressed when he is gone, because he doesn't work or help with with the kids, while I have a full-time job and do all the parenting. But I miss him a lot when he is gone, and I really think that I love him. Plus, our kids worship their father, and they never get to see him when we are split up. Is it worth trying to hold on to him, or should i get out while I still can? Any advice on how to make the seperation less painful for the kids and for me? I just want us to be happy, but I don't want my kids to see this and grow up to think it's okay.

2006-07-17 08:19:52 · 12 answers · asked by havenharleyb81 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was walking past the butchers shop and as the blinds were closed noticed my gf bike outside When I looked underneath She was on her knees eating what appeared to be a sausage out of the the front of his pants . she said she was doing research on meat hygiene should I believe her I am so confused please help!!!!

2006-07-17 08:19:32 · 10 answers · asked by maddogs 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-17 08:19:29 · 7 answers · asked by rfvtgb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend does not allow any touching of her butt but she does wear clothes to show it off. I was out with her and some friends. One of my friends swatted her butt hard out in public. There was a loud sound and her face turned red as a beat. A little later she showed me and part of her adorable butt was also red as a beat. I kissed the red part of her butt and promised that it will never happen again. She smiled and kissed me enthusiastically. What should I do with my friend?

2006-07-17 08:18:49 · 39 answers · asked by sam j 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 08:18:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he would be about 52 yrs.old, grew up in blue island illinois and went to eisenhower high shcool..we were very close friends, and found out he was looking for me about 12 yrs ago..but we missed each other by a couple of days..i have often wondered what happened to him,,and would like to know that life turned out okay for him..he had several brothers..one was named reuben,and one they called fofo..i don't know what that was short for..to the best of my knowledge,he only lived in blue island,illinois,,at least for the entire teenage years of his life..since he looked me up several yrs. ago..i believe he would be thrilled to know that i am still trying to get ahold of him to find out how everything turned out for him..just want to know that he is happy..he was a great guy..always willing to help out someone in need..thanks .. please help..don't know where else to turn..sincerely..donna

2006-07-17 08:18:11 · 1 answers · asked by bluemoon55@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

I'm attractive, loving, loyal, and I'm very spontaneous. Why does he keep doing this to me. He isn't open and honest. And he's very much hooked on Porn. When he leaves he comes crying back. Sometimes he's gone for months.

2006-07-17 08:18:10 · 20 answers · asked by Eva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 08:17:50 · 11 answers · asked by Married Male 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 08:17:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-17 08:17:13 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany B 2 in Singles & Dating

i think im aggresive and i dont no what to do. sometimes my friends pretend to hit me and i pretend to hit back and we barely hit but i hurt them and they dont! what should i do to controll it?

2006-07-17 08:15:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think my male friend is lying

2006-07-17 08:15:27 · 31 answers · asked by woodman 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex is sending clear, but mixed messages. He tells me to leave him alone, and he doesn't want to be with me. Yet he replies to my emails, and text messages. As well as Last week he came down to see me. He said it was for closure, but he's still talking to me as I am writting this. I don't know how much to push it to get back with him. I love him with everything I am. I feel like I have said everything I can say to try to get him back, and he's very adimit on us being apart as the right thing, yet talks to me almost every day since we've been apart for one month......? please help.

2006-07-17 08:15:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We went to a car dealer ship to look at some cars for him. Then on the way back i wanted to stop at a store for like one minute and he had a total fit.

2006-07-17 08:14:43 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany B 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 08:14:18 · 3 answers · asked by bostonbaby8365 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is very spiritual and does not allow our kids to watch anything with profanity in it, or that has any kind of sexual reference to it. He doesn't even allow them to watch some disney shows that show a guy and a girl kissing at the prom or whatever. My brother wanted to take my son to see spiderman 3 and x-men and my husband objects to those kind of movies. My family thinks that it is going to affect the kids in the long run because he is being to much of a control freak, and he is overly bearing. This is a constant strain in our relationship because I have seen what being overprotective can do to children. My niece grew up with overly religious parents who acted just like my husband. Now that she is 18, she has moved out and now is shacking up living with some boy, curses worse than a sailor, and had a pregnancy scare once or twice! Her brother had a baby out of wedlock! I think that my husband needs to relax, What do you think?

2006-07-17 08:14:12 · 18 answers · asked by candy0813 3 in Family

like will it bug you if they are not a virgin?

2006-07-17 08:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

after 20 years

2006-07-17 08:12:53 · 29 answers · asked by flat head & one eye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 08:12:52 · 18 answers · asked by bostonbaby8365 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an 11 month old daughter who picks up quickly on things but has a short attention span. What is a good way to teach her things such as gestures and words like up and down or how to recognize parts of a face (i.e. nose, lips, eyes, etc) as well as colors and shapes?

2006-07-17 08:11:39 · 24 answers · asked by jackiegruhlke 1 in Family

If your boyfriend called you a sloppy second how would you react? Long story just trust me..

2006-07-17 08:11:02 · 22 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to reconcile, but she says she doesnt want to be in a relationship with anyone for a while. Do you think thats a lie?

2006-07-17 08:10:50 · 42 answers · asked by brydy23 2 in Singles & Dating

was it worth it?did ya get caught?

2006-07-17 08:10:31 · 20 answers · asked by ducksixty8 2 in Marriage & Divorce