Family & Relationships - 17 July 2006

My husband is very spiritual and does not allow our kids to watch anything with profanity in it, or that has any kind of sexual reference to it. He doesn't even allow them to watch some disney shows that show a guy and a girl kissing at the prom or whatever. My brother wanted to take my son to see spiderman 3 and x-men and my husband objects to those kind of movies. My family thinks that it is going to affect the kids in the long run because he is being to much of a control freak, and he is overly bearing. This is a constant strain in our relationship because I have seen what being overprotective can do to children. My niece grew up with overly religious parents who acted just like my husband. Now that she is 18, she has moved out and now is shacking up living with some boy, curses worse than a sailor, and had a pregnancy scare once or twice! Her brother had a baby out of wedlock! I think that my husband needs to relax, What do you think?

2006-07-17 07:44:42 · 10 answers · asked by candy0813 3 in Friends

2006-07-17 07:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she is a walking tornado.....and her bedroom is very nasty....dirty dishes, clothes etc...I fuss, I yell and scream... I ground her....I clean it my self sometimes what can I do to make her clean up after herself?????Dr Phil says to close the bedroom door and forget about it....I am having a hard time doing that. Please can any one come up with any ideas on how to get her to clean up after herself so she doesn't live her youth punished all the time????

2006-07-17 07:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by bayfrog5 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If your not married to a woman, but have a baby with her and the baby gets your last name. Then you break up and the woman wants to change the babys last name. Would they need to father permission to do that or can the mother just change it.

2006-07-17 07:43:04 · 7 answers · asked by jodyboy17 2 in Family

2006-07-17 07:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by tear streaked angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you go out with him after just one meeting and he left you a good impression?

2006-07-17 07:41:32 · 12 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

If a guy asked you to kick him in the balls would you?
whatt type of shoes would you want to wear?
do you like kick guys in the balls?

2006-07-17 07:40:59 · 43 answers · asked by Bill B 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently seperated my husband and I know it's not gonna work so we are waiting till he gets home to follow through with the divorce. I don't want to wait that long to have my maiden name back. I am lost in a battle trying to figure out who I am again and I can't carrying his name around anymore. I live in watertown ny and know nothing about the law or whatever so any advice is good advice.

2006-07-17 07:40:20 · 18 answers · asked by tessa_m_ferard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 07:40:05 · 33 answers · asked by anna o 1 in Singles & Dating

I started seeing her again because I wanted to see my dad and my brothers. I am 23 years old, I haven't lived at home since 18, I put myself thru college, have a good stable job and I have a house of my own. I don’t do drugs, drink, party or anything else like that. I was always a good kid, and I still am!

I cut her off because she was being negative and mean to me. She says things like I shouldn't have children because they will grow up in a bad home with me yelling at them all of the time. She has said my husband will leave me because I am ***** and a know-it-all.

She rains on my parade and discourages me in everything I do. Its almost like she doesn't want to see me happy.

When I see her now she watches what she says but she still says I shouldn't have children until I am 30 and makes sour faces when my husband and I talk about having a child one day.

I am thinking about limiting contact again and seeing if that works.

Any ideas? She only treats me this way.

2006-07-17 07:40:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My GF is very attractive and dresses sexy and wears makeup ect ect..Im pretty sure she is not cheating, we have been together for years. But she has always been a bit of a cold fish. I have no problem with this... but what I don't get is how she dresses like this and puts on the makeup but complains about the attention she gets ..I tell her she looks nice and she gets mad.. this has gotten worse over the last year..she was never like this before..is she mental?

2006-07-17 07:39:33 · 2 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 07:39:11 · 2 answers · asked by paula f 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 07:38:37 · 34 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

us kids were raised in an unfriendly, disloyal, jealous and competitive attmosphere by our unhappy and disloyal parents so we were pretty mean and competitive when little. to me our 'rivalry' was more about how we were raised than any natural tendencies to compete in us kids. how were you raised and was there 'rivalry' between you kids? if yes, why do you think you were competitive?

2006-07-17 07:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by jimrich 7 in Family

she caught her boyfriend of a few years cheating on her and she has been having a rough year. So you(a male)comfort her one night(you are friends with her ex's friends)she was wearing only a T-shirt to bed. You did not make a move at all, total gentleman. She needed the comfort. Now you cant stop thiking of her. months have gone by and you see her out one night and tell her"your killing me", but her ex was out with you so you cant try to pursue anything. This is a good girl that was hurt and did not deserve it, how would you feel about her? after that night of comforting her? seeing her in only a T-shirt? holding her till she slept without making a move?

2006-07-17 07:37:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are some guys a**holes?? can u tell me that..??

2006-07-17 07:37:46 · 30 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 07:37:38 · 15 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

even if the person they are with adores them and loves them to death?

2006-07-17 07:37:08 · 4 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 07:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Natasha♥ 4 in Friends

my friend grandson was surpose to be with his grandma my friend and he had sex with a 13 yr old and got caught and they new he was going to meet a girl when he left there house and told me what he was doing not believeing them let it go but when i went to his house his mom cornered me up and told me he did have a little girl over for sex and got busted by her mom. the grandma got mad cause i told his mom what they told me about the situtation. his grandmother call and cursed me and i hung up and then the barges in my house takes the phone from me and i had to call the cops was this wrong of me we are no longer friend at this point and she keeps harrassing me and the police say there's nothing i can so unless she comes on my property or contacts me or hurts me or my family what do i do?

2006-07-17 07:36:08 · 3 answers · asked by booneboone38 1 in Friends

hi im doing a project on rasism and i dont really kow much about it exsept that being rasist about ppl just 4 the skin is wrong and i would agree just want to know if you can help x

2006-07-17 07:35:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

life my friend told a really big lie on me and all the guys called me ugly and said i was hump back skinny and ugly should i go back to that school or transfer ???? please no silly answers cause i hate this school to death

2006-07-17 07:34:27 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Natasha♥ 4 in Friends

For me it would be that
None of us are perfect. That we all make mistakes and no matter what I love you and support you and am here for you on your side.

2006-07-17 07:34:18 · 13 answers · asked by foolnomore2games 6 in Family

my boyfriend broke up with me because he didnt know what he wanted. now, a week and a half later, he calls me up telling me he loves me and that he made a mistake breaking up with me...and i told him that i could just hear him say it anymore...that i needed proof...he asked me for another chance and i told him that he had a week and a half to prove to me that he wanted me back...did i do the right thing?

2006-07-17 07:33:42 · 25 answers · asked by brittany110586 2 in Singles & Dating

You have 1 bottle of water. You could make it to a pond that is 25 miles away with it. Your spouse would not be able to make it if he/she had the water "too far for them" and there is no time to go back to him/her. What would you do with the bottle of water?

I know what I would do. Do you know what you would do?

2006-07-17 07:33:23 · 11 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 07:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Zippy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I want a guy that would just kiss me and burry me in love and gifts! Where can I find a guy like that cause I just broke up with my bf............DO NOT TELL ME LIKE TEXAS I MEAN LIKE THE MOVIES OR SCHOOL?

2006-07-17 07:31:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been dating this guy for 8months.He is 29/chiropractor.I am 24/Realtor.I make decent money and so does he.Everytime we go out i would pay for the food/movies most of the time.I have bought him some gifts like shirts and tie aswell.If we go out to drink i will end up paying for the drinks if i try not to pay then he would say(hey i will cover these drinks you pay for the next one)Anywhere we go we take my car,we stay together for saturday and sunday,so on monday i will end up paying 50$ for the gas.Its not about the money i just feel like i am being used.Infact twice i have paid for his friend's lunch.I feel like he is walking all over me.with my ex in the start it was always 50/50 and after 1yr of relationship my ex never did let me pay for anything.Plus this new guy once asked me if i like to suck his penis and i told him mr i am not into that stuff i will vomit.Ever since then his attitude changed.Should i just let him go because i really dont feel any attraction towards him anymor

2006-07-17 07:31:17 · 15 answers · asked by miss_mango 1 in Singles & Dating

My son was in a bad car accident 6 years ago which left him without a right arm , traumatic brain injury , left side paralysis and requires total care with all self care skills. I also have a 13 year old son with downsyndrome who won't talk anymore and my husband left us when we needed him the most. Now he's seeing another woman but was coming to see me 2 to 3 times a week 2 months ago. Now he's pressuring me for an out of court divorce. We've been married 13 years but together 15. He not giving me as much alimony since he started seeing her and it hurts so much knowing he's with someone else. I can't even imagine being with anyone else now. I can't even leave the house except for short trips to the grocery store.

2006-07-17 07:31:10 · 3 answers · asked by Cynthia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, what can I do when I'm kissing my bf to make it better? yeah we make out and stuff but what else can we do?

2006-07-17 07:31:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating