How would you feel about this girl?

Question

she caught her boyfriend of a few years cheating on her and she has been having a rough year. So you(a male)comfort her one night(you are friends with her ex's friends)she was wearing only a T-shirt to bed. You did not make a move at all, total gentleman. She needed the comfort. Now you cant stop thiking of her. months have gone by and you see her out one night and tell her"your killing me", but her ex was out with you so you cant try to pursue anything. This is a good girl that was hurt and did not deserve it, how would you feel about her? after that night of comforting her? seeing her in only a T-shirt? holding her till she slept without making a move?

Answer 1

Sounds like you need some bigger cajones. Go for it.

Answer 2

First of all, let me commend you on being a total gentleman in that situation. Most guys would have just pounced on the opportunity. It sounds to me like you are starting to have feelings for her. Why did you tell her that she was killing you ??? Maybe you just need to talk things out with her. But make up your mind whether you really like this girl or whether it's just a temporary attraction.
If you're sure about your feelings for her then you need to make your self heard. Forget about her ex. The guy cheated on her, so he does not have any moral right to give his opinions on the matter.
If i were in your position, I'm sure that i would feel the same way that you are feeling now. It's natural to be thinking about her all the time. You like her dude!! So i guess that it's only fair that you tell her whats in your heart. Like you said, its been a few months. So i think you should start to get closer to her. That is if you're still interested in her that way. And by the way, she will be wary of future relationships 'cos she's been burnt once. You will need to be a loyal friend if you want to have any chance with this girl. Try not to hurt the girl.
P.S: Don't rush things. Take it slow.
All the best..

Answer 3

Well if what you said in your question was total truth....then you are a gentleman. I comend you for this. If she is over your friend....and your friend is OBVIOUSLY over her when he cheated then why would it matter what he thought. He cheated on her and left her to have a broken heart. If she isnt with anyone right now then I would call her up and or go to her and tell her that you have had a hard time trying to stop thinking about her. Leave it at that and let her answer and then back away just a little to let her have some time to think about the situation. She may not take you on for fear of her ex, she may not take you on because she does not feel that way about you, she may not take you on because she may be afraid that you will do the same thing to her (since you hang out with her ex) OR she may have the same feelings that you have. You never know but keeping it bottled up inside of you is not helping. You have feelings for her, tell her of your feelings and good luck!!!

Answer 4

That's very wonderful of you, to have comforted her without making a move, especially with her wearing such miniscule amounts of clothing. You did the right thing, at that time, she needed comfort, not another using a**hole that many men tend to be. I'd say, that not she's probablyover her pain from the lastone, and you shouldconfront her about how you feel, the worst that could happen is she tells you she doesn't feel the same, no harm, no foul. And at leastyou'll always have the memory of holding her in your arms.

Answer 5

You're an absolute gentleman. So very sweet and sincere. This girl needs someone like you in her life. You have the truest feelings for her and if I were you, I'd let her know what's in your heart.

Best of luck and I'm sure I speak for all the females out there when I say, you are one in a million and I wish there were more like you in this world.

Answer 6

Better make your move before you get thrown into the "friend" category. If she rejects your advances then at least she knows how you feel, and that tshirt thing wont be an issue any further. As for the ex, screw him, you gotta go for what will make you happy. Thats what I would do.

Answer 7

i did not get your question yet: ladies hate their ennemie ladies like some boys hate different boys you recognize that they don't compete I advise did ya see boys they quite a lot cry even as they free antagonistic to ladies they always imagine they can't do what adult males can properly ya they compete slightly even if it somewhat is all and distinctive ^^ The lest project:what's it like having not something down there? DOes it make yall experience pleasing? i do not get it yet ladies have TOO MANY thoughts so that is not not something and females don't experience pleasing whe they attempt to be advise they experience undesirable yet they always have a reason to do it

Answer 8

Aww thats sweet. Go for it dude! You sound like a good guy. I think it was also good that you didn't take advantage of her (you know) and was a gentleman when she was sad. Tell her how you feel. Hope it works out for you two!!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

if i was a guy it would be hard i guess. i mean i kinda know how men think and they can get kind of freakish sometimes when it comes to ladies. if after months and still thing about it i would try to pursue it with the intention in mind she is still fragile and might need a lot of attention and see how it goes.

Answer 10

I would be thinking, "Damn, I should've stroked that kitten"

Also thinking, "Yep, over there half the night and not once does she put on any extra clothes??!!! Yeah, should've did that"

Also thinking, "Dang, why was she walking around there letting me just oogle her panty-line and booty shape like that. Hmmmmmmmmm..."

Also thinking, "Damn, am I sorta slow or just kinda slow for not saying something"

Well, the world may never know. No, YOU may never know.

Answer 11

the problem with this is..you tell her how you feel..and she will respect that..but at the first chance she will run back to the jerk who treated her bad..next time this happens have no shame do her and kick her to the curb, cus maybe thats what she wanted going to bed in just a tshirt..treat her bad and the guys will dis you but she will come running back for more..