i think im aggresive and i dont no what to do. sometimes my friends pretend to hit me and i pretend to hit back and we barely hit but i hurt them and they dont! what should i do to controll it?
2006-07-17 08:15:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
keep your hands to yourself
2006-07-17 08:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH! My daughter plays with her friends like that! Ouch and AARRGHH!! You'll grow out of it but you are on the right path: you realize it is a problem. So now, you must practice temerance and self control. Simply do not do it or feel you have to prove yourself anymore. Just "STOP IT." There is a book by that title if you need some help with controlling yourself. Self control actually takes more strength than hitting. Hitting is a sign of weakness. Bet you don't want to wear that label!! Just be determined and S T O P. Peace.
2006-07-17 15:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I've got a friend just like you, I'm rather slim and she's curvey with the slightest bit of fat. It got to such a point whereas nobody wanted to joke with her because she playfully socked a bit too hard. After a time she realized that she just had too much built up anger and didn't realized that she was taking it out every chance she could. Eventually, she baught a punching bag and had fun with that when she was upset or mad, or just hadn't hit anything in a while.
2006-07-17 15:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by xtwilightpassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knock somebody down, then maybe they'll get the hint that this isn't the game for you and them to play.
Kidding. Thenext time this tit and tat game starts, explain that you are heavy handed and prefer they play Truth or Consequences.
2006-07-17 15:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem and i took 2 batteries and just rolled them in my hand for like 1hour a day and it helped calm me down. it is a good way to control your self w/ out taking medications.
2006-07-17 15:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by <33DOLLface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop playing so much if they cant take it u might just have heavy hands and if they cant take it tell them to stop playing with u i understand what u are saying i hit hard to but i try not to play with people who cant take it
2006-07-17 15:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by poohbearbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them do something like break a chair over your head if you hit them. a few lumps and several chairs later you'll think better of punching someone.... if you're a hard learner that is....
2006-07-17 15:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should control .better not to hit like that.
2006-07-17 15:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by sweety_1231 l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends should be smart enough not to pretend to hit you if they know you hit back harder.
2006-07-17 15:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on over and ill hit you, then ill phuckin beat you to a pulp just like the nazi's did to the juden.
2006-07-17 15:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Gizmo P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a let out, like a punching bag, it will help releave any stress you may have. I use one and it's great.
2006-07-17 15:23:06 · answer #11 · answered by scorpieo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋