If your boyfriend called you a sloppy second how would you react? Long story just trust me..
2006-07-17 08:11:02 · 22 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK in more detail this guy and I dated before. A few months after we broke up he hooked me up with someone. This guy went back to his exgirlfriend and left me in the dust. I recently got back with my (now boyfriend again) and I guess him and this guy had a big ordeal.. We were on a double date and him and his friend were talking about this guy.. his words were "I don't want anything to do with his sloppy seconds". Nothing even thinking about me in the back seat.
2006-07-17 08:19:00 · update #1
Seriously, you shouldn't even have to ask that question.
If your relationship has deteriorated to the point that he thinks it's even **remotely** acceptable to speak to you that way, he needs to be shown the door. The mere fact that he's said such an awful thing to you practically shouts that he believes you don't have enough self-esteem to stand up to him.
Once you dump him, start asking yourself why you'd ever consider permitting someone to speak to you that way. Everyone deserves better treatment than that from a boyfriend/girlfriend.
**OK, so you explained the situation better. Even though he didn't tell you directly that he considers you a "sloppy second," his comment still gives you insight into how he feels about other women who have histories similar to the other girl (like you). Just because he didn't say it to you directly doesn't mean he doesn't think the phrase doesn't apply to you as well.
Which is not to say that he's correct in his thinking, BTW. That comment - and the fact that he made it in front of you - says volumes more about him than it does about you.
2006-07-17 08:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds af if he just doesnt care very much about you because if he did he would have never had said that to you. My opinion...I would suprise my boyfriend with a very romantic massage when he came home from work, and then I would make him a wondeful dinner and then get his bath/shower ready for him right before bed. Then when it came time to have sex at night before going to sleep I would get him all aroused and then right before getting ready to "do the deed" I would get up grab my suitcase and leave. (if it wasnt my house). Just a thought .......and when he calls you or chases after you I would turn to him look into his eyes and tell him " do you realieze that you are chasing sloppy seconds" it will make him truly see what you could have offerred him. What I am pretty much saying is that you need to move on, he isnt worth it.
2006-07-17 15:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset.....very upset. No ones wants to be called a sloppy second. Depending on the situation i would dump him....
2006-07-17 15:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Fefe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would curse his a** out so good and stop f***ing with him because that how he really feel and only way he can call u sloppy 2 if he already been with one of your friends or your been with one of his friends so what going on
2006-07-17 15:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by poohbearbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sloppy second?
id slap him. iono.
i don't really understand what that means...
you're a bad second girlfreind?
2006-07-17 15:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you consider yourself any of that??Because if you do, then stay there,....if not, then know that the minute your partner disrespect you, future just gets worse....I don't allow anybody to call me names like that because I'm worth much more than that.....
2006-07-17 15:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by maru_artmarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel offended, and ask why i am his "sloppy second"
i would want to be "wonderful first" lol
u need to have a talk with him missy
lol
luv jess
2006-07-17 15:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be hurt and pissed, and probably get into a fight with him and end it with him. No guy should disrespect someone like that, especially if he's supposedly 'in love' with her.
2006-07-17 15:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be very upset and would have to rethink the value of the relationship. if you are in this situation, then you should leave him because he is not worth your time. you can find someone who can treat you much better than him.
2006-07-17 15:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by angelchic1706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sloppy seconds must taste better...he's happy aint he?
2006-07-17 15:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋