wait, do u beleive in waiting till she is ready
2006-07-17 08:20:33 · 34 answers · asked by covergirl1303 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wait until I feel comfortable with the guy.
2006-07-17 08:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by JC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha, guys? Guys DON'T wait. Why do you think a lot of girls think guys only want one thing, they push a girl a little too fast and a little too hard and she looses interest in them imediately. I'd say just wait until the you are ready, every once in a while, when he makes a move, if you don't want to stop him, go a LITTLE further, take it slow to show that you want him to respect that you may not be ready. And gently tell him to stop or move his hands away if you decide you really aren't ready. Let him know that he didn't do anything wrong, but that you just want to take it slow. As for a certain limiton times you should wait, it depends on if you care about the number of men you sleep with before you turn 20. Men are good at fooling a girl into thinking she loves them, and they're good at faking that they love you back. Just because a guy wants to have sex with you doesn't mean he's lying and using you, but just because he's acting really sweet, doesn't mean that he really cares. I'd say if he persues you for a month or more, it'sa safe bet, but only if he isn't also having sex with other girls durring that time, If he'll wait for you, go for it.
2006-07-17 08:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by xtwilightpassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl there is not really a time limit. just dont give it up the 1st nite. besides u want to get to know the guy right. so give it a little time. u dont want a guy to think ur easy. if he pressures u then that tells u hes wants one thing. i do belive in waiting till shes ready now. so how long u should u wait. well when ur ready and if he cant wait then hes not the one 4 u. just dont make him wait too long. good luck
2006-07-17 08:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what it is you are looking for from the relationship. Personally, I try to get to know someone 1st and THEN decide what the relationship could be. If it's just f*ck-buddies, then that's what it is. 'Do it', enjoy it, PERIOD. If it is something that has the potential for longevity, then REALLY get to know the person. You will know whether or not you WANT to be in bed with them. Holding out for a certain 'timetable' is basically just a form of a game, and game usually come back to bite you in the a$$. Sex is a VERY important part of a relationship. If you WANT to be with someone sexually (and THEY want that too) then don't worry if it's the 1st month, the 1st week, the 1st day or the 1st hour. When things are 'right', they are 'right' ...............
2006-07-17 08:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until both people are ready, The earliest I ever had sex with a guy was 3 months.
2006-07-17 08:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are both comfortable enough with each other to be honest. Sometimes I wait like 20 minutes, but I don't recommend that type of behavior. Just make sure you're safe and he's not a creep.
2006-07-17 08:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it whenever YOU feel it's right. Not cause you think HE wants to. If you're not sure, then you probably shouldn't do it. Sex is a two way street. Be sure you know what you're doing (physically and emotionally) before you venture into this. To a guy sex is just sex. There are rarely feelings involved for a guy.
2006-07-17 08:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always wait at LEAST until the end of the first date. They typically frown on sex in the middle of a restaurant.
2006-07-17 08:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
with-in the first convo u have u already know if u are going to have sex with him or not so if u are still talking to him for about 4 to 5 week give him some there nothing else to really talk about after that u should now enough about him to say okay let F***
2006-07-17 08:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by poohbearbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i have had this friend now for 19 month,care alot about her. have ask her to marry me.still have not had sex ,a kiss or a hug,she keeps saying she is not ready yet,have asked her to move on or get out but she says no,too gave her the tI'me, maybe i will get the things I'm looking for,will im still waiting,so if you care wait for it to come to you
2006-07-17 08:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by tay3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋