after 20 years
2006-07-17 08:12:53 · 29 answers · asked by flat head & one eye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was",i never came back
2006-07-17 08:22:39 · update #1
i moved on with my life
2006-07-17 08:23:14 · update #2
have i forgive her?no
2006-07-17 08:24:58 · update #3
without knowing for sure what you did I would say if she hasn't yet, she wont.
2006-07-17 08:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by hipchic_inhiding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must of done something pretty bad that she cant get over especially if its been 20 years since you done it!!I hate to know what it was but if i was you id say well honey u stayed all these years u forgave me or you would of left so let it go or im going !!A person can only take so much.My god tell her how much can you be punished over one mistake,she needs help!!I hope ya the best!
2006-07-17 15:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she hasn't yet, it really doubtful.
But you really really need to move on. If it's been 20 years, your kids (if you have them) are grown up. You should hopefully be able to have a relationship with them w/o her interference any more. Unless, of course, she's poisoned them to you.
I hope she does forgive you and moves on with her own life. Carrying grudges for decades is really bad for long-term health.
You need to finish grieving the loss of your marriage and (possibly) the loss of your kids. And move on with your OWN life. If you have to get a restraining order against her if she's still harrassing you after all this time, please do so.
Best of luck to you.
2006-07-17 15:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Have I forgive her?" I'm confused - who did the wrong? Who needs to be the forgiver? You asked the question and answered it yourself it seems. No one forgave - so there's no choice to be forgiven - so everyone moves on with their lives. Good luck
2006-07-17 15:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it must be prety unforgiveable if it has been 20 years and still no sign of it, show her you have changed, ask her to go to marriage counseling with you, I say this even when you call her your ex, apparently you are still interested in her, or you wouldnt care if there was forgiveness or not.
2006-07-17 15:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by helper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dude i thought i was waiting for this girl i loved for 3 years i thought that was a long time but 20 years?! dude give it a rest man u can probably still find some hot widow? right? right of course u can :-)
2006-07-17 15:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should forgive you. I don't know what you did to her but she probably will forgive you. Forgiveness doesn't mean that she'll take you back, just that she will forgive you.
2006-07-17 15:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only think 20 years won't cure, is infidelity. Sorry, but it's true.
If she hasn't forgiven you in all this time, she's not going to.
2006-07-17 15:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Quietman40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you did. She may be able to forgive you, but i don't know about the forget part.
2006-07-17 15:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are calling her your EX wife,chances are good that she has not nor will she forgive you.
2006-07-17 15:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is an ex, who cares if they forgive you!
2006-07-17 15:22:58 · answer #11 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋