My girlfriend recently cheated and then broke up with me, how am i supposed to get over this?

Question

I want to reconcile, but she says she doesnt want to be in a relationship with anyone for a while. Do you think thats a lie?

Answer 1

If she cheated, be glad she's gone!

Find someone new and get distracted.

Remember when you were a kid and you hamster died---so your parents just bought you a new hamster?

Well, it worked, didn't it?

Find someone new. You'll feel better.

Answer 2

Hey I am a woman and although I am married and haven't cheated I know people who have. I really don't want to break you down anymore than you already are but most likely it is a lie. If she cheated first then there is 70% chance that she is with that other person. The other 30% is that she just felt way to guilty for doing it. But I doubt that. I hope that all goes well with you. I think that you should enjoy the fact that you are free now and that now you can just go out and do whatever you want without another half having to go along.

Answer 3

Honey why are you doing this to yourself. Why would you want to reconcile with this girl? She CHEATED on you and then broke up with you. Dont you think that if she had any heartfelt feelings for you that she would have at least broke up with you first and then had her fling? A LIE HELL YES !!! If she doesnt want a relationship or be with anyone then why did she just cheat on you? Obviously, she wanted out of the relationship to be with someone else. You should be out having a nice time with family or friends, get over this girl......dont be with someone else to get over it, just go hang with some people. They will help to take your mind off of her and who knows maybe your will find Miss Right when you least expect it.

Answer 4

By counting it as her loss, even if it isn't.

Look, you can't have a one sided relationship. If she doesn't want you than you are no longer a couple. You can't have a couple by proxy, it don't work that way.

Now that you're single, have a few flings and chalk them up to getting her out of your mind. The next time around, take it slow and get to know whats in her head.

Not having a relationship is a far cry from having relations. Get it. Its the height of summer and you're a has been. Someone else caught her eye or she just doesn't have a long shelf life.

Get over it, if you have anything going on for you, some woman will notice and moon and oogle over you, just don't rush into the next one, let the women slide out their chairs before you consider another relationship - but don't rule out relations.

Have fun.

Answer 5

Reconciling is a bad idea. She obviously is not ready for committment.

Go out with other friends. Sporting events, etc. You will still think of her. The only thing that cures that is time.

Don't go diving into another relationship. It probably won't go well at all, while you're still thinking of her.

Basicallly, you just muddle through. Just stay away from her. You don't need to be destroyed any further by her actions.

Answer 6

consider this: a decent thing to do is to break up with someone before you cheat. not the other way around. taking inbto account the pure evil of this act, shes a b**** and she doesnt love you, but hey you don't need her! go grab a beer, write an angry song if you like, smash a few things. once the anger is out youll feel easier and will have less trouble moving on. meet your frineds then youll know there are still good people in your life. oh and one more thing: never talk to her again, and dont let her see you crushed. keep looking man youll find your girl.

Answer 7

Look, why do you want to be in a relationship with someone that cheated on you? If she wanted to be with you, she wouldn't have cheated. Now don't sit there and try to figure out what it is you could have done differently. If she wanted to be with you, she would be. I don't know how old you are or how long you were with her. But regardless, she's already told you no. Even if she is telling you the truth about not wanting to be in a relationship with anyone, you should still try to see what else is out there.
Seriously, what is soooo good about this girl that you still want her even after she made it clear that she didn't want you by going outside or your relationship? THINK ABOUT IT!!!

Answer 8

Some reason your girlfriend cheated on you, who knows why. But I would believe her at her word, and lie low. Try to maintain a friendship, and show her that you are a better person than how she treated you. Not to win her over, but to prove that she left the best thing in her life. Keep in mind that when it's over for one person, it's over. Find somebody that is worthy of your love and attention and that won't cheat on you.

Answer 9

well its up to her if she wants to lie if shes in a relationship or not coz you guys are not together anymore..maybe she have a reason not to tell you..she doesn't want to hurt you more.

but actually girls never cheat if they FEEL SECURE with their partner. so i'm assuming there a reason thats why she did that to you. maybe you will say no..you didnt do anything bad to her...well the only person will know that is her.

good luck

atleast you learn something in this relationship right..

Answer 10

you can't force love.. no matter how much u love someone, u cannot make them love u back, or the same way, or the way you need. the way i try to think is that i try my BEST to be the best girlfriend i can be: loyal, honest, mature, sensitive, try to make my man happy, take care of all things emotional, physical, mental, etc. i don't want someone who does not appreciate that. why should i continue to give those great things to someone who doesn't want it? or is not mature enough to realize what he has? it's not about her Rejecting you (altho that's what it feels like..=T), it's about what kind of woman you want. do you want someone that Loves, respects and makes you feel that you are enough? if so, try to move on, and find someone who DESERVES you. even if she was a great gal but just didn't think you were the One, don't take it personally.... if u really love her you want her to be happy and pursue what she needs to do. i don't know if she's lying or not, but what she IS telling u is that she doesn't think you are the right one to be with.

Answer 11

I think you deserve better! She cheated on you, then tells you she dosent want to be in a relationship. She is stringing you along, and when she want's to use you she will call, then when she is done she will do the same or worse. She is a low class who likes to show her @ss and you are better than that, dont let her tear you apart any more than she has.