My girlfriend does not allow any touching of her butt but she does wear clothes to show it off. I was out with her and some friends. One of my friends swatted her butt hard out in public. There was a loud sound and her face turned red as a beat. A little later she showed me and part of her adorable butt was also red as a beat. I kissed the red part of her butt and promised that it will never happen again. She smiled and kissed me enthusiastically. What should I do with my friend?
2006-07-17 08:18:49 · 39 answers · asked by sam j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-17 08:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a friend but an opportunist or player of sorts..this is a violation of any woman's rights. You simply do not go up to a woman and then touch her without permission. I am assuming that an affair or sexual liaison of some sort is not going on here. Of course, if that is the case, then it is a whole other situation. You could hire a private detective or get a friend to spy on them if you really believe and she won't answer honestly or is acting funny and not talking to you.
Anyway, let us assume that is not the case. I would cut off the friendship and tell him not to call and stay away from her. Tell him the next time he talks to her or touches her, you will deck him hard. That should get him off your back..
2006-07-17 08:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're saying you actually saw this happen and you did nothing but notice her face turned "red as a beat"?? If anyone ever touched my girl inappropriatly like that my initial reaction would be to touch their face with my fist. Without even thinking about it. I would say you've waited to long for this type of reaction. But if you decide to man up and do somthing about it you can still go and tell the guy that if he ever does somthing like that again you will hurt him. And also tell your g/f your sorry for standing by and watching somthing like that happen to her without doing anything and it won't happen again.
2006-07-17 08:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break your boy off and let him know it's not funny and it's not cool. Tell him it's no hard feelings, but there is a line you just don't cross. What would go through your mind if all your boyz slapped your girl across the butt?
2006-07-17 08:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by mrpuffandstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss his butt too. That's what friends are for. Take him aside and discuss it with him. He will understand. He just acted on impulse. Don't let it ruin your friendship. Ask him to say he is sorry to your girlfriend. It will be forgotten in a week, and so will her red cheeks.
2006-07-17 08:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've kicked his *** right then & there. But we understand you're more mature than that.
Looking is acceptable, but NO touching, under NO circumstances.
The idea that she shows it off has nothing to do w/that fact.
I think deep down she is more offended than you think she is, and I wouldn't bet she doesn't trust you much longer because of what happened in your presence & you failed to do anything.
You should take it very seriously & tell your friend hes out of bounds w/your girl & any other girl he puts his hands on.
2006-07-17 08:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the embarrassment your girlfriend suffered no long term effects of the slap. Tell your friend to keep his hands to himself and if it happens again, stop hangin' with him.
Tell him that you expect the same respect from him regarding your girlfriend as he would expect from you regarding his.
Have a great day!
2006-07-17 08:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should slap ur friend in the face n tell him if he was a friend that he wouldnt have slapped her butt at all, i mean what gave him the idea that slappin ur womans butt was ok with u and with her? u need to put him in his place now.
2006-07-17 08:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friend know that it was very disrespectful and that will be the last time it happens....if it does happen again, put your hands on him!! If a friend doesnt respect you, they are no friend. Beat that @$$!!
2006-07-17 08:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that if he ever touches your woman again you just might have to kick his ___. Then tell your girl, if he touches you again, you just might kick is ___. Good self control, but don't let him disrespect you and your girl like that. Where is he, I'll smack him for you.
2006-07-17 08:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the crap out of him. That will send a message to everybody involved.
2006-07-17 08:26:05 · answer #11 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋