Family & Relationships - 13 July 2006

would u take care of him or her?
let's say you are separated for only a month but have been having problems for almost 5 months.

2006-07-13 13:57:07 · 15 answers · asked by XSA16 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok.. I am going to begin at the very beginning. I met a man online about 3 years ago. We started to date long distance flying back and forth to see one another. I was a single mother of 4 boys and I really wanted a man to love in my life. I had been divorced for over 6 years and kept meeting men that I couldnt stand. This man that I met was awesome with my kids and after a 6 month period of time, we both decided that we didnt want to live apart. I was in Washington state and he was in Kansas. He was transferring as a Federal officer to Colorado and asked me to please move there. Even though I was terrified to move, I did it. I got there, I took a job, I worked over 100 hours a week to get back on my feet after a move. His transfer never came through after waiting there working like a dog. He then asked me to move to Ks. During the time I worked in Colorado he called me and told me that he needed money to pay off a hospital bill or he would loose his job... due to officers not being .

2006-07-13 13:56:47 · 15 answers · asked by JOAN L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you were told your ex did something "intolerable" and violated someone you loved....yet you were told there was not enough "evidence" to prosecute him...this is hard to deal with

2006-07-13 13:55:48 · 12 answers · asked by ljean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know its love. But it makes me so anry when they fight over stupid stuff, Like who battering the chicken and who is seasoning the chicken, They both are not fair to each other. Each one is trying to get over on the other. I didnt teach this, and my sister and i dont act like this . Where did they get it from?

I try to make them do things together like preparing dinner, practicing dance routines, grocery shop together.
What can i do it get me so upset that i find myself cursing and yelling and then i have an headache. Any positive suggestions. Leave your critics to your self. i am looking for a resolution so they get along. They are sister and i plan to have no more kids to offset that.

2006-07-13 13:55:19 · 9 answers · asked by !@#$$ 2 in Friends

MY DAUGTHER WANTS ME TO LET HER GO TO AN ALL AGES CLUB..AWWW i HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO SAY.UMM.. i DON'T WANNA BE THERE CAUSE i DON'T WANNA EMBRASSE HER. BUT ALL AGES!! SO THAT MEANS 21 AND OLDER TOO RiTE??

2006-07-13 13:54:08 · 6 answers · asked by NANiiE 1 in Family

2006-07-13 13:53:56 · 11 answers · asked by carboy_carlover 1 in Singles & Dating

all of the girls in my class are treated nice except for me because i am quiet. one of them went as far as shooting me with paper clips. i threatened ti kick his a@# and he just tried to start a conversation like nothing happened. his friends told him to leave me alone, and everyone sort of bet i would win the fight, and they were afraid of me, whats up with that?

2006-07-13 13:53:43 · 15 answers · asked by jane 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm inviting around 115 people to my wedding. So I am figuring about 70-75 people will actually be there. It will be held outdoors with the reception in a tent. So the space won't be gigantic in proportion to the number of people. I am doing things really special and detailed and don't want it to look like only a handful of people at my fantasy wedding. Does that number of people sound like a decent head count?

2006-07-13 13:53:10 · 11 answers · asked by ashleppert 2 in Weddings

Together a year, always showed me she cares in many ways and words. 2 yrs ago she flunked 2nd year university, and started continuing lie for 2 years to everyone she is still student. Also said she was going to lectures and meeting with professors. I wanted travel this summer together, gave her a diamond ring 6 months ago, she said wanted marry me. She said really wanted to come travel, but final exam would prevent it,lie.Said she failed final exam, lie,her friend checked and there were no exams that day. When confronted, she kept lying, said it was moved up a week, that's impossible. I went traveling and she convinced me to let her stay alone at my place, she was suppossed to get job for summer, but quit after a few days, and been going to one bar most nights alone. When I call at night she never answers, but calls me next day and says she was sleeping. She seemed so loving, honest, all year. Says when I return wants to be with me. I've noticed more lies too, unnecessary lies.What 2 d

2006-07-13 13:52:33 · 12 answers · asked by czesc2u 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't have an online friend

2006-07-13 13:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by bobby p 1 in Friends

all my life , i have been the one to help everyone .drop everything and run on a dime. now that my heath has gone down and i need the help myself, know one is there for me . i realy thought all my life that if you do for others , as they needed it , that you would be taken care of when your own time came , .i was wrong ! i still beleave that ill be rewarded in the after life , but it will be a hard road to travel getting there. my husband says all the time . i told you so . but i still think he is wrong. what do you think?

2006-07-13 13:50:56 · 25 answers · asked by chipett_45 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know my husband, but i don't want to get him a video game or a golf tee time. I want something romantic that says i love you with out saying "here, spend some more time away from me!"

2006-07-13 13:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by micah z 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 13:49:07 · 12 answers · asked by kitten_kat_baby 1 in Weddings

TO ME IT MEANS EVERYTHING, I LOVE IT,A ND I NEED IT, MY 6'7 FRIEND BRINGS ME ALL THAT AND MORE, I LOVE HIM TO DEATH, DO U THINK TALLER GUYS ARE MORE SATISFYING THAN SHORTER GUYS, I AM A BIG BELIEVER THAT TALLER AND BIGGER ARE?

2006-07-13 13:48:51 · 12 answers · asked by RHONDA S 1 in Singles & Dating

From the Internet (Megans List) that her BF was a registered sex offeder, (sexuall battery) and he had said NOTHING to her about it, other than, he had done some time in Prison.

He also may be cheating on her with her friend and often never doesn't call or hook up when he says he will.

What would your advice to her be?

2006-07-13 13:47:37 · 11 answers · asked by maat13101 5 in Singles & Dating

My brother has really been acting out lately. My dad's moved to Georgia, so he's not here to dicipline them. Before you say divorce problems, we're not divorced. He doesn't say no, he won't do things, he'll say, yes, he'll do them, but never do them. He never does anything we ask and has no respect for anyone.

HELP!

2006-07-13 13:46:56 · 12 answers · asked by dOnNa 1 in Family

There's this guy that I am very interested in. Have been for seven years, now. He had just gotten married right before we met. He and I always flirted with each other, but never did anything. Last year he told me "It doesn't take a brain surgeon to see how much I like you." He also said "if he were single he'd be beating down my door." Well, now, he's divorce. Has been since Feb. He'll flirt with me and then say he doesn't want to ruin our friendship. Then he'll turn around and flirt with me again, telling me how much he wants to be with me. I'll tell him, "yeah right. You need to stop playing with me." He'll reply; you never know.
He's been married three times. The 1st time was when he was in the service and he caught his wife screwing around. The second time shouldn't have happened. He married too soon after the 1st. Then the third time was cause of his daughter wanted to move in with him, and the 1st wife wouldn't let her until he was married. So mistake 3 happened.

2006-07-13 13:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with my bf for 8 months tomorrow, we have been through alot , a pregnancy , we have good communication , but i feel like hes not the one for me , or im not the one for him im 19 hes 24 but i am also more mature for my age i dont like to party and get all f***** up. so im looking for a serious relationship

i feel like we are too close i mean, we fart infront of eachother, i critizise him like we've been together forever, hes like my bestfriend.

But why am i feeling like i should end it with him? i always get like this around my period

2006-07-13 13:45:44 · 15 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4 in Marriage & Divorce

They have been togeter for 12 years and lived together for 10... They have everything from all favors, and gifts, and I dont want to give money or a gift certificate... Have any ideas?

2006-07-13 13:45:37 · 25 answers · asked by angela_aka_paige 1 in Weddings

A "wrong" age for dating? E.g., if I'm 14 and he's 16, is that going to be a problem? Or if she's 20 and he's 31, is that a problem?

2006-07-13 13:45:27 · 6 answers · asked by dOnNa 1 in Family

2006-07-13 13:45:14 · 5 answers · asked by >>>>>>> 4 in Friends

I've been told this quite a bit and I always feel like men mean "there must be something terribly wrong with you or you wouldn't still be single" when they say that. A male friend of mine disagrees and says that men say that when they find someone really attractive -- so I should take it as a complement. Am I being paranoid and is my friend right?

2006-07-13 13:43:58 · 59 answers · asked by GirlfromUncle 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 13:43:48 · 7 answers · asked by lrmakeithappen 1 in Friends

Please no faul or stupid answers.

2006-07-13 13:43:47 · 28 answers · asked by kandyrain 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 13:43:38 · 8 answers · asked by liana h 2 in Singles & Dating

Her divorce began
a year today
Ther's been women since
but I didn't stay

They all wanted love
they all wanted more
But I was just dating
to even the score

My heart was broke
with my heart I pleaded
But the marriage was over
the day she cheated

It's ok I said
we can work this out.
That was my *** talkin'
'cause I did have doubt

What was his name
I can forgive
She didn't know
I didnt want to live

She asked him for sex
my spirit was shocked
My mind my soul
my every being was rocked

But life goes on
I found a friend
She too was cheated
so it's not the end

He was a doctor
she got the best
the mansion the pool
the mercedes the rest

The love of my life
while by my side
I sure hope she is happy
Sittin' in her double wide.

I am very content
Now I have some cash
I'm finally rid
Of white trailer trash

2006-07-13 13:43:33 · 10 answers · asked by bigblock_475_hp d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just curious..well any nationality would do really

2006-07-13 13:43:08 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Do guys prefer that the girl is shorter than them :)?

2006-07-13 13:43:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 13:41:56 · 10 answers · asked by rachel_baby 1 in Singles & Dating

that i looked bad after i was talking to him about being fat, gaining like 10 pounds, etc. it slipped out, and he said he didn't mean it and that he was sorry and all that, but i can't get it off my mind. that just proved what he really thinks. how do i get over it? i feel depressed.

2006-07-13 13:41:25 · 6 answers · asked by malintzin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships