Only two years of marriage and my husband doesn't want to have sex any more...is this normal???

Question

Please no faul or stupid answers.

Do you think it might be that we have to kids...ages 2 and 1???

I try to spice things up even asking him if he wants a three sum but did not work...what should I do???

Answer 1

okay, how long have you been having sex? cause you know, some people have sex before they are married...if you two were together (and having sex) 5 years before you got married then maybe it is normal. But, if you two have only been having sex for 2 years then, its not normal. Men need sex...if he's not getting it from you then he's either doing it himself or getting it somewhere else...or both..either way, just ask him about it.

ps- it has nothing to do with how attractive you are regardless of what other people have said on here. So don't feel that way.

Answer 2

No i would say it is not normal (unless he drinks alot lol) I've been married 10 yrs we have had are momments.We even seperated You need to get some spice in your sex life, and fast . How? You 2 would only know.Let your hair down do something new.We went to a sex shop (Fashion Boutque) and he opened up.Don't ever put down his idea's Even if your don't agree.Good luck

Answer 3

You need to check the factors:
- age - If theres a difference in ages
- kids - Maybe you need to live the kids in grandma house more
often.
- work- Maybe he is having trouble at work.
- money- Any changes on income.
- depress-
- hormonal changes-
- feelings- You think he is changing with you, like telling you that
the house is not clean or telling you that you gain
weight you know trying to find something wrong with
you? If he does he may be cheating and is feeling guilty
- time
- communication- talk to him ask him whats wrong, tell him how
you feel.
Good luck!

Answer 4

NO! I mean if yall are like 40 then maybe yeah. But if you are newly weds and in your 20's - 30's i would say like 5 times a week for good sex. Maybe you should buy some sexy stuff or try some new things.

Answer 5

No it isn't.

Perhaps he is having erectile difficulties. Or perhaps he is overly stressed at his job. Or perhaps he doesn't feel attractive any more. Or maybe he is tired of having to be the one who starts it and the one who has to keep it going everytime.

You really need to have a long talk with him. Only he can tell you why he is acting the way he is.

If you have a strong marriage you can work through this, if not...

Good Luck

Answer 6

Ive been married for two years exactly, when my husband is tired from work we don't do it, or if we are having a fight we don't ither. You might want to go out and buy some nice Lingre for him, try to spice things up a little.

Answer 7

You must have overworked him. At any rate, if you give him a holiday of say 4 weeks that might do the trick.
H e should be fit and ready for another 2 years non stop.

Answer 8

This is not good. After more than ten years, my husband doesn't have the same sex drive he did when we were in college, but he still likes to have sex on a pretty regular basis. I would try to find out what's causing this.

Answer 9

Make sure it doesn't smell bad down there too. My ex had a yeast infection once for 8 months and got really upset because she thought I didn't think she was pretty.

It wasn't that at all. I thought she was HOT, I just didn't like the taste of that stuff oozing out of her girl hole.

Answer 10

No, that isn't normal, and if you can look in a mirror, and say to yourself, that you haven't changed, or put on a lot of weight since your wedding, then, something is wrong.
He's either getting it elsewhere, or has some other problem, you may need counseling or other help.