would u take care of him or her?
let's say you are separated for only a month but have been having problems for almost 5 months.
2006-07-13 13:57:07 · 15 answers · asked by XSA16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be there for him. But be careful. You are broken up for a reason make sure you consider that reason. Don't move back into something you might not want. Crisis sometimes makes you make a decision you might not have made otherwise. But depending on why you are spilt it might make you realize if it was not something serious maybe some things in life matter more than others.
2006-07-13 14:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would most definately.. 1. they are still tech. my spouse.. and i would feel an obligation.. to them..and i dont care what people say u have to be pretty damn cold hearted not to atleast care about someone still when u first seperate, after years together.. 2. if i have children with that person i would definately take care of them for the mere fact that is my childs father..
2006-07-13 14:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this happen to me a year ago, I was separated from my husband and he fell off a ladder and cracked his skull open he was in I.C.U. for awhile and I put aside everything that had happen and took care of him we have six kids together and I love him I just hate his disease "alcohol and drugs" prob. We got back together and I did what I promise in are vowels for better or for worse sickness or in health ..I don't want to say are marriage is all a bed of roses but I do what I do and he does what he does love seems to work it all out ..good luck God bless
2006-07-13 14:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Angel wings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-13 14:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some visits and words of comforts would be just fine if he is with another woman already -
if the separation are other issues not unless he is hurting you physically, then taking care of him would be fine if he has no one-
2006-07-13 14:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by crissimayo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXXX If you saw a stranger on the street get hit by a car, would you turn and walk in the other direction? Nor should you do that to someone you once loved. I'd be one of the first to help him if he needed it.( Putting our past on the back burner.) .Supposed you were in his position. What would you think of him if he was to walk away and not help you? XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-13 14:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what kind of problems. I thought I would be there for my ex for anything but I discovered so many problems I don't want to have that responsibility knowing that our relationship isn't going any where but a lying road.
2006-07-13 14:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by carmelita71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be there for them, yes. It does not mean that you have to get back together, but what would it say about you as a person if you just turned your back on them??
2006-07-13 14:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. For me, I have no more love for him eversince he cheated on me on several occasions. If the accident happens, I will just lead my own life still.
2006-07-14 04:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea. i would. the best that i could too. especially to show your love, if there still is love. and if it was his fault why you broke up I'm sure he would regret it when you take care of im'. If it was your fault, this is your chance to make it up to him. it's a win-win situation for you. so do it!!!
2006-07-13 14:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by kittiekatblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋