Family & Relationships - 7 July 2006

I AM 32 YEARS OLD, I AM A MOM OF 2 DIVORCED. I USED TO GO TO BARS, AND DO NOT WANT TO FIND MY NEXT LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP THERE AGAIN-- BAD NEWS. EVERYONE AT CHURCH IS MARRIED OR TOO UPTIGHT FOR ME, I AM A NURSE AND PREDOMINATELLY WORK AROUND WOMEN-- ANY SUGGESTIONS??

2006-07-07 17:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by christie m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-07 16:59:42 · 9 answers · asked by kalie r 1 in Singles & Dating

That their man cheated and if they do it again they are out of there. Who are they fooling? If they weren't strong enough the first time what makes them think they will be the 2nd time? Why do women lie to themselves when forgiving the 1st time gives the guy the green light to do it again?

2006-07-07 16:58:30 · 27 answers · asked by wakalualua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i did something very wrong towards my husband, i lied to him that i was pregnant...in the time he discovered about it, he was so mad...even his mother, to the point that she wants to annul our marriage, he is living with his parents now and i am afraid that he will be convince by his mother to leave me forever...don't i deserve second chance? do you think, he still love me despite of everything i did? can he still forgive me? anyway, i'm feeling so guilty...

2006-07-07 16:56:41 · 23 answers · asked by ann 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres 3 of my friends. and they told me the other night that im stuck up my boyfriends @$$ and said that i have to go to him for every little thing. well the thing is my boyfriend likes to know where im at what im doing and who im with..you know just to make sure im not doing anything stupid..and well now they all stop talking to me..the one who told me that i was stuck up his @$$ hasnt talked to me since like may..the other two are mad because i leave these away messages on aol saying who cares and all this mess..i wont talking about them..i was talking about everybody...cuz it seems like noone cares about me anymore cept my boyfriend..ive tried talking to them on the computer but they ignore me..so what do i do?

2006-07-07 16:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you do sexual things that you regret later?

2006-07-07 16:53:44 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

So i went to a party just a little while ago, and I kind of like this kid, my friend was all suppotive like to hook me up with him and stuff, but the whole time she was flirting with him like crazy! Like touching him and grinding and dirty stuff and like right in front of my face like she was doing nothing wrong! Finaly the night ended. But its not like its only this kid she flirts with and i know she doesnt like him, hes not her type, but anyway she flirts with everyone and she just broke another guys heart yesturday! She could make an ednless list, and i seriously dont know what to do anymore... Im not convinced she doesnt know shes doing it(flirting), because ive never known anyone to do it that much! And how could a FRIEND do this? I just want to know how to make it stop or tell her or something without her hating me...

2006-07-07 16:53:16 · 6 answers · asked by girly7 2 in Friends

2006-07-07 16:52:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-07 16:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by pimpin 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-07 16:51:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tips and explan

2006-07-07 16:51:19 · 3 answers · asked by kalie r 1 in Singles & Dating

This is meant for girls to answer honestly. No guys please.

2006-07-07 16:51:18 · 4 answers · asked by Inquisitive Guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love my ex but i dont know if he still does we went through so much and den he breaks up me he just wants to be friends wat should i do?

2006-07-07 16:48:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-07 16:47:27 · 7 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My BF whom I have a baby with is smoking, and I don't like it. I feel like he's wasting his time and I've told him but no matter what, I end up being the one who is wrong...he says that I am always trying to change him, but I do not believe I am, I'm just trying to help him better himself but he cannot see that. He thinks that marijuana is just something he does, like how I study and go to school....I'm tired of his habit and I'm stuck because I love him but I hate what he does.....what should I do, I'm still young and I know I can find someone else, but I don't know if it's worth going through another relationship...what if it ends up the same or even worst???

2006-07-07 16:46:09 · 11 answers · asked by Cool Chick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to wake husband early morning for sex, what is a good way to start, so he dont say no, its too early. or that he isnt in the mood??

2006-07-07 16:45:18 · 27 answers · asked by cats3inhouse 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend with cancer.

2006-07-07 16:43:47 · 5 answers · asked by Mary Miller 1 in Friends

im 18 and nathan is 31. he says age doesnt matter. and my mom doesnt mind. im just trying to figure out if he likes me or not. but im moving to florida on tuesday and he was asking my mom what day and time were. leaving and i just wanted to know. why he wanted to know that?

2006-07-07 16:43:46 · 20 answers · asked by annabanana673 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-07 16:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by mitchshusband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im having some what of a problem with my future 1. she is well...a *****. but only behind my boyfriends back...4 exsample...2day, my boyfriend came home early from work becuz he wasnt feeling good at all...he came home took meds and went to bed, well his mom called, and left a message, i woke him up to listen to the message and it just said to call him, he hands me the phone and says text her and tell her im sick and ill call her when i wake up. so i did...i said hey its ally, i just wanted to let you know that he wil call you when he wakes up,he is fine just has a common cold ill let him know you called. she texted bak n asked if he was alright and i said yeah he is just fine.an hour later she shows up at our HOUSE.w/o calling.knocks.i thot it was his gma so i told her 2 come in, and she walks in doesnt say hi right walks right over 2 the bed n feels his head and goes wow you do have a fever...like i was lying. then walks thru my house and tells me that i need to clean...what do i do?

2006-07-07 16:42:20 · 18 answers · asked by iheartskcs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-07 16:42:20 · 29 answers · asked by Raul Mauro 1 in Family

2006-07-07 16:41:25 · 8 answers · asked by hisham_nazmy 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly, when you get a divorce, it has nothing to do with the kids. So, why do women play headgames to get the kids to live with them so that they can get childcare and child support. I dont think its fair to the kids. You know, eventually the kids will figure out the truth.

2006-07-07 16:41:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a recently divorced mother of two, and though I love my children dearly - I have no choice but to work full-time to 'try' to support my family. I love my job, but I don't do it just for fun, I do it to provide for my children.

Which is better? To work hard and spend limited time with your children but secure a more stable future, or to work less hours and spend time with the children, but then likely be unable to put them through college or buy a home for them and I to live in?

2006-07-07 16:41:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He left a week ago to work a summer camp for a month. I told him it's ok as long as I talk to him twice a day. A few days ago he said his phone broke, but he has borrowed his friends' phone until now. I haven't heard from him and I'm po'd. I can't understand why he wanted to go to this camp in the first place, I thought he would have grown up by now. Should I be ticked he hasn't called?

*This camp is where he grew up and he works there as a counselor now. It is also the place where he has had numerous of his "flings".

2006-07-07 16:40:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he asked me out to make her jealous and he already knows that i am taken. he is so not my type and i just want to make him pay for all the horrible things he did to her. my boyfriend already knows what is going on because he over heard our conversation and he thinks i might cheat on him which is totally ridiculous.. i would not do that to my friend and i love him too much to even think about that.. My best friend's ex-boyfriend has been trying to destroy my relationship and everyone else's(who is involved with someone) so that he can break the record to have the most girls ever. i want to destroy his ego.. how do i do that?

2006-07-07 16:40:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kelsey G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my hysban officially separated in Dec. of last year. He then 2 weeks later started messing with this other chic he claims is just firend w benifits. We had been talkin about workin on our marriage and getting back together while he was in Cali. on temporary orders. He came back and the first person he saw was her. Not even considering I might be emotionally hurt due to my 2nd misscarraige i had (the 1st was in 04' w/twins at 5 mos. in which he didn't want) , 2 1/2 weeks prior (in which he didn't want either). So why be with a woman that has kids??

2006-07-07 16:38:55 · 17 answers · asked by yelloerose07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

going through years of constant phone calls (maybe not from mysteryman but), being on the net, and proceeds to tell her husband that he isnt spending enough time with eachother, communicate, and irresponsible

2006-07-07 16:38:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i passed by one of my girlfriends X's while walking her back into her job, and he was black. he said a smart *** comment and slapped his brothas hand laughing. i wanted to kill him. and from now on i really dont like black people who are like that, plus i feel ill toward my girlfriend because she slept with him. that really gets under my skin. im not racist but its really annoying me.

2006-07-07 16:38:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-07 16:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family