He left a week ago to work a summer camp for a month. I told him it's ok as long as I talk to him twice a day. A few days ago he said his phone broke, but he has borrowed his friends' phone until now. I haven't heard from him and I'm po'd. I can't understand why he wanted to go to this camp in the first place, I thought he would have grown up by now. Should I be ticked he hasn't called?
*This camp is where he grew up and he works there as a counselor now. It is also the place where he has had numerous of his "flings".
2006-07-07 16:40:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just as I posted this my bf called. He told me about how tonight was some "talent show" and he had to watch his kids sing songs etc, then he played basketball.
He told me about how much he missed me, he loves me, and how proud of me he is for getting my first mgt job as a 21 y/o college student.
Things are okay, and I think some of these people that responded have never had a relationship before in their life.
2006-07-07 17:17:11 · update #1
Don't be mad, you aren't married, his phone broke and he is probably having a good time. Let the man live his life or you won't be with him very long!
2006-07-07 16:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by jennanna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Usually, If a guy is really interested in you, you don't have to beg or insist that he call you. When/if he calls you,why don't you just act friendly and tell him that since he will be away all summer, that you should both see other people. If by having "flings",you mean that he is sexually active with others then you would be better off without him anyway. Obviously,he isn't ready for a serious relationship if he is fooling around with others. Respect yourself and know that you deserve better than this. Have a fun summer with a lot of friends, be casual with him and then whether you get back with him or not you'll have enjoyed yourself.
2006-07-07 16:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i completely see where you are coming from i was just there not too long ago. So i will try and give you the same advice my friend gave me. First and most importantly he is a guy and talking on the phone is probably not one of his best qualities. Secondly he is at summer camp give him a break and let him have a good time. Get out there and do something to take your mind off of it. Sometimes you have to let them have a little breathing room. Plus if you make a fuss about it you are going to look clingy and over protective and possibly jealous.
2006-07-07 16:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by bookwormforever16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be ticked at him for not calling for a week but if it turned into 2 or 3 weeks I would get a little pissed. He probably needs a little space and I'm pretty sure he isn't hanging out with other girls while he is dating you. Unless he is that sort of guy in which case I wouldn't be dating him in the first place.
2006-07-07 16:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While its a hard situation of whether or not to be mad at him, if you two truely like each other, he will find time to call you. I can understand why he is working at a summer camp that he grew up in. But I personally think you are being too over-protective and should wait for him to call you before jumping to conclusions.
2006-07-07 16:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dr Drew 10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeepers creepers. Well first, you need to calm down. He went to summer camp to get away. Not to call you twice a day for a month. Secondly, you're the one who needs to grow up. And finally, whats up with the twice a day? Twice a week, even once a week sounds good to me.
2006-07-07 16:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by snipps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you need to back off him geeze- give the guy some space- not everyone can drop what their doing to talk on the phone, you also need to have some trust in your relationship.
Twice a day is a bit much to be asking for i think.
2006-07-07 16:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's WORKING! If you don't have enough faith and trust in him to keep your relationship going for 1 lousy month without him calling TWICE A FRIGGEN DAY then why are you even with him?
Maybe YOU need to grow up and not be a selfish, immature little kid that needs constant re-assurance.
2006-07-07 16:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friend is prolly po'd by the fact that your bf is using his phone and is not compensating him for the use of said phone. So yes you should be mad at him for not giving his friend a lil money to use said phone.
2006-07-07 16:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by SANDY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! You've never been a camp counsler???
Good lord girl....thats where you ummmm get a different girl counsler everynight!!
I was a camp counsler for almost 8 years until it was obvious that the new girls were way to young for me...they were gettting to the point where just because you slept with them they wanted to "BE" with you all the time.
2006-07-07 16:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋