i passed by one of my girlfriends X's while walking her back into her job, and he was black. he said a smart *** comment and slapped his brothas hand laughing. i wanted to kill him. and from now on i really dont like black people who are like that, plus i feel ill toward my girlfriend because she slept with him. that really gets under my skin. im not racist but its really annoying me.
2006-07-07 16:38:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't let this guy determine how you feel about all black people. they aren't all like that. if you want to believe something different, ok fine yo're free.
2006-07-07 16:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by gene_frequency 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first off why the hell do you even pay any attention to the guy be the bigger person ignore it and act like it never happened.... Second... Why do white BOYS have such a problem when a girl has had sex with a black guy??? SERIOUSLY? I have went thru this i dont know how many times and finally i just gave up on white BOYS because you all are the same... He has a PENIS just like you have a PENIS or at least im hoping you do and so what does it matter what color his skin is??? Are you that insecure with yourself? We all bleed red blood we all have the same organs on the inside DEAL WITH IT AND GET OVER IT or you are going to lose your girlfriend and if you do i hope she leaves you for a "brotha"!!!!!!! GROW UP!!!
2006-07-07 23:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, dude! Your situation is something. All what I got to say is that, hey, what happen in the past, happened in the past. In other words, move on. That is ur girlfriend's business with the other guy. To be honest, I would've done the same thing of socking the guy, but hey that is just juvenille. Ignore the guy, foo. Live the present, not the past. Hey, I know it hurts that she slept with him, but u gotta let go. Are you afraid that the guy is better than you at performance? Hey, no one is perfect. You can always get better at it. Women don't only care how good you are at it. What really counts is feelings. Mind over body, dude. Incidently, not all black people are like this. Don't let one black guy change your entire image on them. Anyways, you got her and she got you. That is what really matters right now.I hope this helps. Laters. Wish you the best with your lady.
2006-07-07 23:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just pissed because she had good times before you. Our little ego is in the dumper, isn't it? Tsk tsk tsk. You would have been twisted out of shape no matter who it was that you thought slept with your girfriend before you. They were there first, so wherever you go, someone else was there first and they probably littered up the place, and now you've got it all over your shoe...
It's like getting to the North Pole... second. Or running a race and coming in... second... or third... or fourth...
Think about this now... you don't know how many she had before you. Could have been in the hundreds. Now worry about this all night. Sweet dreams.
2006-07-07 23:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so it's not cool to be laughed at by black people, especially when you are supposed to be superior. If you are really honest with yourself, the thing that is getting under your skin is that your girlfriend is expecting you to measure up to this black man in more ways than one.
2006-07-07 23:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably annoy you whether he were white or black or hispanic or whatnot. It hurt. Life hurts. Or are you racist? Oh man...you say you aren't...but are you? I just know that it would bother me one way or the other. Try not to feel bad toward your girl...the past is the past. It isn't easy, but if you really love her, it shouldn't be a problem.
2006-07-07 23:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by twiggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...how about just not liking him because he's a jerk....not because he is black. Color has nothing to do with it. Are you annoyed because she slept with him? Or because she slept with him and not you? Right now, you sound racist...make sure you understand that you are mad at him and his friend because of what they did. NOT because they are black.
2006-07-07 23:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just making an opinionated, biased generalization based on a personal incident. However, i feel your plight and would have felt the same thing if i were in your shoes irregardless of whether the ex was black, chinese, hispanic, european, or same colour as me.
2006-07-07 23:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand, if i was you i would figure out how much i like her, what im saying is if you realy realy realy like her then it wont bother you what she did in her past think about it. oh by the way dont let this judge the way you feel about black ppl. but i do understand, my ex left me for a black girl, it wasnt her fault. so feel no madness toward black ppl.
2006-07-07 23:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by cat yall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your upset,but don't loose your cool over this kinda stuff.This interracial thing is just a sign of the times.Your relay not mad because her x is black.You mad because your a man!Just keep remembering,you are "the Man" now.Just chill,get a grip,and move on.Your the winner in this game.SMILE!!
2006-07-07 23:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋