Many years ago I was getting married. I asked my step dad to give me away because he had been more a part of raising me than my biological father. When I told my father that I had made the decision to have my step dad give me away, my dad disowned me. He and his mother (my grandma) refused to come to the wedding. I sent birthday, fathers day, christmas, etc. cards for an entire year to my dad with no response back. After a year I gave up. Since then, I've been divorced and remarried, my husband has never met my dad or grandma (we've been together 5 years now).
I've recently gotten news that my grandma is very ill. I haven't spoken to her in well over 7 years...is now the time to?
Everyone always tells me that I'll feel guilty for the rest of my life if dad or grandma dies before we resolve our differences, but I don't think I'm the one needing resolution. I don't regret the decision I made...
What do you think?
2006-07-06
06:19:47
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jillygoat11
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