please,i need some advice
2006-07-06 06:16:26 · 11 answers · asked by lightball85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Are you in Love? Are you having second thoughts? Marriage can be wonderful. But it's a two way street. You have to both feel it's right. If your in doubt. Don't rush into it. Be sure it's what you want. It will be a lot harder down the road if you get married and then decide it's not what you really wanted. I'm married, and wouldn't change a thing. But you need to be committed to it. Love, Trust and Respect for each other. Go with your heart. Good Luck. and /God Bless.
2006-07-06 06:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by ASTORROSE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for nearly a year now. It not that long but I love it and I would never go single again. It takes the two of you to work at it it's not like in the fairy tales. It's been a very interesting year. Being married you need to think about the good of your spouse and the good of both your lives. You cant just go out and get whatever you want anymore you need to consult your spouse. You can choose how to spend you time together. You grow every day. I love my husband more today than I did when I got married and he loves me more today too. I was really nervous before the wedding because you have all the wedding stuff going on and you kinda get second thoughts like is this for real, but you get over that. I met my husband in Oct. of 2004 and got married in August of 05. I would never go back and change anything. Our first kiss was on our wedding day and when I say first kiss I mean first kiss. We didn't kiss anyone before that and that is very hard to believe in this sinful world but it is possible. Don't be scared everyone needs to leave their parents and start their own family, it says that in the Bible, so we can populate the world. Good luck and God bless
Do what your heart is telling you and please don't get married for the wrong reason, do it because she or he is wonderful inside(watch how they act with their family and friends when your not around)
P.S. Never go to sleep when either you spouse or you have unfinished arguments. Take responsibility for your own actions. And apologize, we all make mistakes--learn from your mistakes and others and don't do it again.
Do everything with LOVE!
2006-07-06 07:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is no advice on gettin married either your ready or your not. If your ready just do it....marriage can be a great thing. My marriage is great sure we fight and have our ups and downs but that is everyones relationship. Today its so easy just to go get a divorce people don't work through there problems and just say "we fight all the time" go sign some papers and they call it quits....you have to work at a good marriage because a marriage is work. No one said it was easy. If your not ready then don't do it. But, I can tell you don't go to bed mad after your married make up before you go to bed. You don't want to wake up angry at your spouse the next morning it just ruins the day.
2006-07-06 06:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by hamc322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need wedding advice or marriage advice? Are you thinking about getting married? I've been married for 18 1/2 years, and am more in love with my husband today than I was the day we married, and would do it again in a heartbeat. Has it been perfect? Hell no, there have been times I've wanted to strangle him, and walk out the door and keep going, and I know there's been times he's felt the same way about me. Marriage is tough, it's probably one of the toughest things we do in life, but it's also probably one of the most rewarding as well. Don't wait for the "ideal" time to get married, there is no ideal time, and don't wait for the ideal person to marry as well, they don't exist.
2006-07-06 06:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This from someone who has done it twice. The first time I was very young and had no idea what marriage entailed. The second (and last) time it was to someone who shared my values, my goals, who loved being with me and showed me unconditional love. He can be aggrevating sometimes, but he still also has all the values above and he is my best friend. Marry your best friend!
2006-07-06 06:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by frankkras 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this depends on you.....are you ready t be settled down, be commited to one person until death do you part, are you ready to stick around when times get rough? Are you ready to deal with different mood swings, are you willing to be fair....it's so many things you have to learn.... you only learn by experiece.....you decide...in my opinion it's cool...sometimes i'm aggitated by my husband and want to leave.....but when i sit back and think about my relationship the good always out weigh the bad....so in my opinion if you said yes to most of these questions you are ready!!!
2006-07-06 06:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I will tell you the truth - sex does stop after marriage. Of course for newlyweds it is hot for about 3-6 months then it vanishes. Marriage is good but so if living with someone without the contract.
2006-07-06 06:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u got kids already or on the way better do it if not make sure u want her dont worry about hurting her feelings by telling her ur not ready yet if she cant handle that she might not be ready
2006-07-06 06:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by canibus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's the right thing to do you won't have any questions about doing the deed. the biggest thing that should be on your mind is where to get everything she wants for the cheapest and still all be beautiful.
2006-07-06 06:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by pohter1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-07 15:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by unforgettablemauiweddings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋